Mentally, you feel like you should be ready to hit the sheets, but when the time comes, it’s more ‘meh’ than mojo.
If this happens occasionally, it’s usually no big deal, but if it’s a regular occurrence, something might be up.
“Some people think low sex drive doesn’t happen for men, but it absolutely does, it can be common,” says researcher Andrea Fagiolini, M.D., of the University of Siena in Italy, who notes that it’s not always a psychological condition—say, an issue you’re having with or about your partner—but often a physiological one.