I'm pretty sure he's saying the opposite of what you think he's saying.
You can have an open mind without being open to it. I'm reading it as "I have an open mind to it, but I'm not 100% sure and I have no personal experience with it. I've seen it (in porn) but my preferences are more vanilla."he's saying he's open to it, but he's never done it. its a confusing word salad
I'm pretty sure he's saying the opposite of what you think he's saying.
The bread is fine, but the mystery meat of that sentence sandwich is moldy beyond recognition.His writing has become so fucking incoherent that I don't think anyone can be blamed for not getting his point, if he has one.