The self-centered trenders, troons, and autogynephiles have made the trans community so toxic and entitled that it's actually pushing genuine dysphoric transgender people away. I have two friends who were MTF that detransitioned because of how toxic and radically political the trans community has become. It's full of selfish, degenerate children throwing tantrums because they demand special treatment and attention. They expect everyone to kowtow and give them everything they want.
Yeah, pretty much this. Dysphoria is a legit medical term and diagnosis, people liking it or not. I know most people think there's no such thing as ''genuine trans people'' but they exist. They make a very very small percentage of society, but they exist. What we see in twitter, in threads here and in furry conventions are trenders, fetishists and troons, so I can see why most people dislike the term ''trans'' and are ready to rage when they see it. I had the opportunity of reading various researches about body dysmorphia and dysphoria back when I was in university and it opened my mind about this issue.
Also, people detransitioning and just going quiet about their identity isn't uncommon. As you said, the troon community is so toxic and filled with sjws that it is almost impossible to coexist healthily. Most trenders and troons also dislike genuine trans people because they don't believe in dysphoria.
Yeah, troons are trash.