Any persons' authority over anything is purely determined by how many people decide to acknowledge it. North Korea is likely the most totalitarian government in modern times, but if even 51% of the population were to respond to one of Kim Jong Un's commands with "lol nah bro," his government would cease to exist. Thus the actual authority lies in the ones' whom are obedient, and actually carrying out his commands.
As much as people like to think of themselves as independent, most people are in reality their own oppressors.
As much as people like to think of themselves as independent, most people are in reality their own oppressors.