This is the most important part of your allocution. She would be forgiven if she was fifteen year old but not at thirty. Her dependence on others is remarkable for someone with her background as people with her upbringing tend to grow rather quickly. Her inability to want to learn, to want to better herself is also remarkable. Her dependence on Becky is immense, much more than Becky on her. She got bailed out by others all her life and she would not know what to do if she was on her own. Her life is lacking anything interesting to watch except as looking and acting like a clown like her Halloween picture, dressed up as Minnie Mouse, a cartoon character.The fact that she was always able to (figuratively) land on her feet and get her needs met, despite being "a virgin who can't drive", a complete inability to fend for herself, no life skills, an allergy to work and just the worst money management ever (destiny's christmas jackpot happened after amber quit her job, just before she admitted to it). Once she was settled in the shanty, and once becky was there full time, there was nowhere to go, nobody interesting in their lives, no chaos, no drama.
Amber will never be able to revive what made her interesting (in a guilty pleasure way) in the first place. It was hilarious in her 20's, but even if the chaos starts up again, with her making new friends, shoving the camera in everyone's faces, getting into spats, breakups, new gfs, etc., she'll be in her 30's, and yes, none of that is uncommon for someone in their 30's, watching an obeast narc with no future prospects repeat all of that in their 30's (while dressing and acting 21) is just sad clown.