How do you think I ruined the relationship? She said when she broke up with me before I contacted her at all that in her view, we can't be friends period, simply because we broke up. So the relationship was already ruined by her before I sent her any messages asking her to change her mind.I'm absolutely not surprised that you ruined your relationship by refusing to understand boundaries and your sheer inability to live with differences in opinion. With that said, at least your rants while trying to rationalize your insane M.O. are very funny. You don't have a bright future ahead of you but at the very least you are funny, for all the wrong reasons.