I'm just applying their standards equally. In their circles only women can get drunk and be taken advantage of.That's not even true, though. The intoxication must be sufficient to make consent legally impossible. There isn't a magic BAC for that. And in over half the states, a voluntary decision to become intoxicated doesn't create such a state. There must have been some administering of the substance, alcohol or otherwise.
She didn't declare it rape until he didn't want to continue the relationship.

