Any suggestions on how to stop someone’s lolcow transformation before it’s too late? - sorry for the kinda new-faggy post

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Honestly? If you have the energy to give a shit, be her friend and be a good influence.
Lolcows are usually that way due to abusive and neglectful home conditions so they feel the need to whore for attention online, and suffer from poor social developmental skills as a result. The only way out is to be socialized by people who aren't completely retarded.

I know this because I skirted the fine line of being a lolcow myself due to similar circumstance but thankfully had functioning, normal friends who helped me learn how to be a normal person and not a complete embarrassment.

But most people don't have the energy for it. It's not really your job. Sometimes things just happen like that. She likely needs professional help as well that you are not qualified to give her.
 

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Honestly? If you have the energy to give a shit, be her friend and be a good influence.
Lolcows are usually that way due to abusive and neglectful home conditions so they feel the need to whore for attention online, and suffer from poor social developmental skills as a result. The only way out is to be socialized by people who aren't completely retarded.

I know this because I skirted the fine line of being a lolcow myself due to similar circumstance but thankfully had functioning, normal friends who helped me learn how to be a normal person and not a complete embarrassment.

But most people don't have the energy for it. It's not really your job. Sometimes things just happen like that. She likely needs professional help as well that you are not qualified to give her.
don't encourage this adult to get involved in the sexual exploration of a minor.
 

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all we have about this minor is the word of someone deeply interested in her taste in porn.

I'd call that an unreliable narrator.
on one hand that's fair, on the other hand they did explicitly state they *didn't* want them to become a lolcow and was trying to protect them from hordes of prying masses, so I assume was only listing the most vague, egregious offenses. When I was a teen I knew a lot of, uh, way too sexually active teens on the net, myself included, ones who actively catfished adults even. It ties into that whole broken home sort of shit, where you seek out attention by any means possible since your parents didn't love you enough, and sex is often the most rewarded form of that. It's known as hypersexuality in psych. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23002706/

Though that brings me back to my original point I suppose. Kid's obviously fucked up. Kid needs a therapist. You, OP, are not a therapist. They're not the full equation, sure, but professional help is often the things future cows lack. And don't assume she'll just... be a cow either. A lot of kids do grow out of it before it gets to the worst point possible. Cows usually are cows when they reach their 20's and still haven't changed.
 

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on one hand that's fair, on the other hand they did explicitly state they *didn't* want them to become a lolcow and was trying to protect them from hordes of prying masses, so I assume was only listing the most vague, egregious offenses. When I was a teen I knew a lot of, uh, way too sexually active teens on the net, myself included, ones who actively catfished adults even. It ties into that whole broken home sort of shit, where you seek out attention by any means possible since your parents didn't love you enough, and sex is often the most rewarded form of that. It's known as hypersexuality in psych. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23002706/

Though that brings me back to my original point I suppose. Kid's obviously fucked up. Kid needs a therapist. You, OP, are not a therapist. They're not the full equation, sure, but professional help is often the things future cows lack. And don't assume she'll just... be a cow either. A lot of kids do grow out of it before it gets to the worst point possible. Cows usually are cows when they reach their 20's and still haven't changed.
OP is not a teenager
 
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