Lolcowdom is her destiny. Just let her embrace her fate.
Never had a morbid curiosity to watch a puppy burst into a pink mist under a train. If I were you, I'd throw that analogy in the trash. Or save it for the statement you give to the police when they find that 14 year old you've been stalking chained to a radiator in your "naked puzzle basement."Ugh I dunno man. It’s kinda like watching a disabled puppy walk onto the path of an oncoming train. On one hand, you should probably Try to do something about it, but at the same time there’s a bit of morbid curiosity to just let natural selection go its course
Yeah, but OP is an adult as far as I know, I don’t think they should be befriending teenagers, especially not someone that young. I get wanting to help people in bad situations but sometimes you just can’t. The best thing you can do is hope she has at least one decent adult in her life that can help. More than likely, she’ll grow up and cringe at herself. There are plenty of people like her that don’t end up here. If every cringe teenager ended up here, that’s all this site would be.Honestly? If you have the energy to give a shit, be her friend and be a good influence.
Lolcows are usually that way due to abusive and neglectful home conditions so they feel the need to whore for attention online, and suffer from poor social developmental skills as a result. The only way out is to be socialized by people who aren't completely retarded.
I know this because I skirted the fine line of being a lolcow myself due to similar circumstance but thankfully had functioning, normal friends who helped me learn how to be a normal person and not a complete embarrassment.
But most people don't have the energy for it. It's not really your job. Sometimes things just happen like that. She likely needs professional help as well that you are not qualified to give her.
Maybe they just never mentally mature past the age group they like....What is it about pedos that makes them so fucking dumb?
That’s a good thought. Then at least if he really is just trying to help, he’ll have done something and can let it go. The fact that he knows this much about her creeps me the fuck out though.The fact that OP wants to be the one to "save" her is creepy.
If it's truly a matter of thinking that she's heading in the wrong direction due to unknown circumstances beyond her control, then gather a list of resources for teens and send her those - and then step back and walk away. Don't look for excuses to continue monitoring her online behaviour. Doing so is beyond inappropriate.