Are age gap relationships bad?

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Twitter especially seem to have a raging hate boner towards any couple with a large age gap they call a women in her mid 20s in a relationship with a man in his 30s 40s “grooming” I guess grown up adult women who make they’re own choices can be groomed?

Its very strange since they have no problem with 18 year olds becoming sugar babies and fucking 70 year old men for money or selling nudes on onlyfans to older men but the minute they’re is some love involved that goes beyond superficial attraction it’s all of a sudden “bad”

maybe they associate older men with money kinda like how they only like they’re dad’s because he gives them money otherwise he is a gross sexist pig.
 

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if it's just hookup shit, pump+dump, serial dating type shit? then it's trashy, but only trashy people do that in the first place so it doesnt really matter
As a trashy person that's nearing middle age I look at it this way, if she's of legal age (18+), consenting, and totally into it then I am gonna daddy dom the fuck outta that brat ass. That being said I usually can't stand anyone 15+ years younger than myself, plus younger people are higher energy and want to do more, go out more, all that fun stuff that's hard to keep up with when you're career focused and working 50+ hours a week and have your own hobbies and interests to pursue. So the chances of living out the 1990s porno dream for dudes like me is out the window.

Although I do feel there is a small double standard with age gaps in dating. Older woman and a younger guy? You go girl! Older dude with a younger girl? Ew pervert. Like come on even I think a 20+ year age gap is a little skeezy depending on circumstance no matter the gender.
 

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If they're 18+ and want to have an OnlyFans, ethot or whatever as an adult, then they're open game for anybody willing to put up with their bullshit. Personally, being an older gentleman, I don't have the patience. Nice to look at/play with, but there's really no common ground when the age gap gets beyond X amount of years. Becomes purely sexual at that point.
 

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As a trashy person that's nearing middle age I look at it this way, if she's of legal age (18+), consenting, and totally into it then I am gonna daddy dom the fuck outta that brat ass. That being said I usually can't stand anyone 15+ years younger than myself, plus younger people are higher energy and want to do more, go out more, all that fun stuff that's hard to keep up with when you're career focused and working 50+ hours a week and have your own hobbies and interests to pursue. So the chances of living out the 1990s porno dream for dudes like me is out the window.

Although I do feel there is a small double standard with age gaps in dating. Older woman and a younger guy? You go girl! Older dude with a younger girl? Ew pervert. Like come on even I think a 20+ year age gap is a little skeezy depending on circumstance no matter the gender.
Agreed. The other fun one is the naivete people demonstrate when it comes to otherwise genuinely creepy age gaps. "Why would that old geezer give this woman all that money? No attractive 28 year old woman would want that geezer without money involved." That is correct, and the geezer almost always knows this. The relationship between those two hypothetical people is purely transactional: young woman receives large amount of money (which the geezer can't take with him anyway) and geezer receives a more personal caregiver and possibly a few more truly disgusting blowjobs in his final years. Thus, everything is in harmony.
 

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Agreed. The other fun one is the naivete people demonstrate when it comes to otherwise genuinely creepy age gaps. "Why would that old geezer give this woman all that money? No attractive 28 year old woman would want that geezer without money involved." That is correct, and the geezer almost always knows this. The relationship between those two hypothetical people is purely transactional: young woman receives large amount of money (which the geezer can't take with him anyway) and geezer receives a more personal caregiver and possibly a few more truly disgusting blowjobs in his final years. Thus, everything is in harmony.
In the end it's mutually beneficial and completely consensual and totally legal, even if it seems gross and weird. Just look at the life of Hugh Hefner and all those bunnies. Dude lived the dream up until he died in 2017 and Lord knows how he put up with all those 20 somethings and their bullshit ( they probably had handlers).

Get in where ya fit in old boy 👍
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There is a mtf grandpa in a wig troon who just married a ftm troon at my prior job after less than a year of dating. Age difference: 20-25 years. Maybe 30? Grandpa there is twice my age and I know "her" "husband" is much younger than me.

It was sickening watch them together because it was like watching a father taking care of his cutter of a daughter.

Of course my experience has to have the troon factor so take it with a grain of salt.
 

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The average age gap for marriage is 3 years, and the larger the gap, the higher the likelihood of divorce. If you're looking to settle down (i.e. you want a real relationship and not a sugar baby) then age gaps are not ideal, personally I prefer a small age difference. But if you're going to do an age-gap relationship you should keep it within 10 years. Beyond that things get awkward, you'll have missed out on important generational cultural experiences.
 

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I think it's more of a weird kind of misandry. The people who complain about this are usually bitter individuals who tend to assume all relationships involve men manipulating women somehow. A younger woman in an actual relationship with an older man must be a case of "grooming", because there's no way they'd ever want to date an older man. (Or younger woman, as the case may be.)

The women who become sugar babies and sell their nudes to older men, however, get a pass because it looks like they're the ones who are using the men, and that's seen as being "empowering". (Even though, as @Cuntflaps pointed out, these relationships are often more mutual than most people would think.)
 

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The average age gap for marriage is 3 years, and the larger the gap, the higher the likelihood of divorce. If you're looking to settle down (i.e. you want a real relationship and not a sugar baby) then age gaps are not ideal, personally I prefer a small age difference. But if you're going to do an age-gap relationship you should keep it within 10 years. Beyond that things get awkward, you'll have missed out on important generational cultural experiences.
Not sure where you are pulling the data but does the gap size(hehehe)to separation ratio change in different age brackets? Like 18-28 vs 28-38 vs 38-48?

I am just curious.
 

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I think it's more of a weird kind of misandry. The people who complain about this are usually bitter individuals who tend to assume all relationships involve men manipulating women somehow. A younger woman in an actual relationship with an older man must be a case of "grooming", because there's no way they'd ever want to date an older man. (Or younger woman, as the case may be.)
i think the hate can be broken down in two categories mostly

first, jealous older women. when they see a man their own age date younger and hotter girls, it makes them super mad because it reminds them of their own declining attractiveness
second, jealous young men. when they see a girl their own age date some old dude with money, it kills them inside because there's just no way for them to compete with that guys money making abilities, cause he has like 10+ years of experience and wealth accumulation that they don't

situation's toxic all around, best solution in my opinion would be to eliminate it entirely by having everybody pair up young and marry for life so none of these problems can arise in the first place