Benjamin Purdom / Pokchu / Brenda Banks / IdiotChinchilla / Benchilla / WaitWaitFixate - Disgraced ED Sysop Turned Furry & Drag Queen, Former American Idol Contestant; Sometimes Posts on KF

Feline Darkmage

Gamer Gril Queen
True & Honest Fan
Retired Staff
kiwifarms.net
Meet Ben,
ben.JPG

Name: Benjamin "Pokchu" Purdom
Aliases: Brenda Banks, ItsBrendaBanks, IdiotChinchilla, Benchilla, Benjadumb, Waitwaitfixate
Occupation: Drag Queen, American Idol Contestant (failed), Encyclopedia Dramatica User (former)
Hometown: Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
Residence: Columbus, Ohio
Age: 25 years old, born in October 1992.

Under the username Pokchu, Ben embarrassed his parents and got them embroiled in a lolsuit after writing an article about a man named Robert Pierson and his lolcow sister Monica Pierson.

His mother, Barb, had to write on his behalf.
From: Barb <blpurdom@yahoo.com>
Date: February 7, 2008 12:00:03 PM EST
To: ultimate.moribundi@gmail.com, gluttony@gmail.com
Subject: The Robert Pierson Article on ED
Dear ED Site Administrators:
I am writing to you on behalf of my son, whom you know on your site as Pokchu, and who is now in legal dire straits due to this
article:
http://www.encyclopediadramatica.com/Robert_Pierson

In its current state, it is far less than an inflammatory ridicule of both a murdered boy and his mourning sister. However, because
of its original content and the fact that Pierson's sisters were able to correctly deduce that my son is the author, the police came
to our house last night and spoke to my husband and me as well as our son about the grave situation. We are very concerned, and
because we know you like our son, I hope you are concerned as well.

In Pennsylvania, where we live, we now have hate-crime legislation that could be used to bring charges against our son for this
article and federal statues regarding computer use could also come into play. He risks being a convicted felon at the age of 15
because of this article. That is how serious this is. He cannot simply deny that he wrote the article; his user name is too closely
and definitely associated with his identity, so that ship has sailed, I'm afraid.

You wrote, "Writing internet articles is not something worth pursuing against a 14 year old who has no assets." That's not quite true.
He has assets: his parents. We face losing our house and all of our savings if we need to pay for legal counsel to defend him in
court, and a 15 year old boy risks losing his place in a wonderful high school and going to juvie. Repeatedly reposting the
original article content is compromising his ability to make things right and alle

Right now you face the possibility of soon receiving a Cease & Desist order from the Piersons' lawyer if you do not stop reinstating
the offensive content that our son has deleted/altered; the commonwealth of Pennsylvania and/or Illinois could charge you with
corrupting the morals of a minor for misleading our son into believing that the previous content did not violate both state and
federal hate crime laws, and for failing to police your own site and reposting del

All you need to do to avoid all of the above is to stop reinstating the original content. Please do us all a favor and allow the
current content to stand; then we may have a chance of doing some damage-control with the Pierson family and defusing a very tense
situation that could still have a permanent negative effect on our son's life.

Sincerely,
Barbara Purdom

Drag Queen performer:

Years after embarrassing his parents on the internet for the world to see, he once again did but this time on live Television during a 2012 broadcast of American Idol

Current Year Benjamin is a horny furry with a long history of drama that has flared up once again.

horny chinchilla
brendafun.JPG

horny.JPG


Drama Chinchilla
In 2012, Benchilla was banned from Fur Affinity after exploiting a bug that permitted avatars larger than the size normally allowed. Initially, his ban was for only two weeks, but this was made permanent due to "previous history of hijinks,"[14] despite having no previous history of being banned.

On March 1st, 2013, Benchilla stepped down as co-owner of Weasyl LLC amidst accusations of a Weasyl founder sockpuppeting on Fur Affinity's donation drive journal.[15] However, Benchilla has since stated that the accusation is simply a rumor, and to not believe anything without "actual physical evidence."[16] He has since officially relinquished any stock in the LLC as of December 2013, leaving Kihari to be the sole proprietor.

And as of this month Ben has been getting into shit with another fur called Huscoon, with Ben accusing this person of being abusive and starting another dogpiling/Furry Civil War skirmish. This has been covered by @CIA Nigger in the general thread.

Links:
Website
Weasyl (archive)
SoFurry (old)
Youtube (archive)
Twitter (archive)
AD Twitter
Facebook
Brenda Banks FB (archive)
Steam
ED User Page
ED Article
WikiFur Article
Rob Pierson Drama/ED Page
 
Last edited:

Rumpled Foreskin

More Human Than Human
True & Honest Fan
kiwifarms.net
What would give you any indication of that? Of course it's not. This person's an old-school ED user and has nothing to do with this site other than earning a thread on it.
Kinda tipsy and it was originally not in this forum and because of what transpired in the past 24 hours.
 

Goda

kiwifarms.net
Last year Ben was involved in an incident where he was kicked off a bus in Ohio.

upload_2017-12-11_18-38-43.png


The narrative here is that Ben was tossed off a bus "for being gay". It's difficult to tell exactly what happened, the driver appeared to be upset with something Ben was doing but wasn't clear about it. I love that Ben's initial reasoning that she was discriminating against him is because she had a lanyard that read "I love Jesus".

The driver was consequently fired after the incident. It very well might be that he was thrown off the bus for the crime of "being gay" but Ben sure seems to find himself in a lot of strange and uncomfortable situations.

Ben's Video:
https://www.facebook.com/Benjadumb/videos/10154274897089529/

News articles:
http://www.dispatch.com/content/stories/local/2016/06/07/COTA_discrimination_allegation.html
https://outlookohio.com/2016/06/cot...nt-from-gay-passenger-who-was-kicked-off-bus/
https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2016/06/man-kicked-off-bus-simply-looked-gay/
http://www.dispatch.com/content/stories/local/2016/06/17/COTA-driver-suspended.html

Follow-up including the termination:
http://www.dispatch.com/content/sto...A_fires_driver_accused_of_discrimination.html
 

Feline Darkmage

Gamer Gril Queen
True & Honest Fan
Retired Staff
kiwifarms.net
grewpast.JPG

Ben is claiming to have grown up and presumably talks about this very thread claiming this is stalking and harassment, a false accusation.

Here's another thread presumably inspired by reading our posts
selfish.JPG

shortterm.JPG

callouts.JPG

felixfox.JPG

This FelixTheFox person seems to have a history

https://twitter.com/FelixTheFox_
http://archive.md/iplKL

Also this guy is a Foxler supporter as I discovered on DoesFollow.com
 

Reynard

I regret nothing.
True & Honest Fan
kiwifarms.net
I think I remember seeing this person in the members list for an Ohio furries Telegram and being confused that the name was "Ben" but the icon was of a female character. I guess I finally found out why.
 
B

BB 876

Guest
kiwifarms.net
I’ve seen this guy around. Had no idea of his past history though. He’s not 100% gay as far as I know as he’s dating a girl with a chinchilla fursona as well.
I keep forgetting her twitter handle though, if it’s not posted by the time I’m back I’ll edit this post lol.
 

Ben

kiwifarms.net
Okay, so. I realize prooobably shouldn't post here. But, at the same time, it's probably best to address things head-on instead of running from/ignoring things. Before I start though:

No, I am not dating the person above. We're just friends. (Her profile itself says she's single, also.)

Anyway. (And yes, this'll be a bit tl;dr, I know.)

View attachment 335185
Ben is claiming to have grown up and presumably talks about this very thread claiming this is stalking and harassment, a false accusation.

Here's another thread presumably inspired by reading our posts
View attachment 335186
View attachment 335187
View attachment 335190
View attachment 335191
This FelixTheFox person seems to have a history

https://twitter.com/FelixTheFox_
http://archive.md/iplKL

Also this guy is a Foxler supporter as I discovered on DoesFollow.com

The second thread of posts actually isn't about this forum; it's about something else I discovered. I got it taken down, fortunately. I will say outright that nothing in this thread is slanderous; it has some uncomfortable truths, but it is not slanderous.

The first post was inspired by this forum though, after I stumbled upon it following someone telling me about this thread. But, it wasn't necessarily about this thread; I merely found activity on some other threads to be kind of stalkerish, like, even to the point where some members within the threads were questioning it. In general, it just reminded me of the obsessive nature of being an Encyclopedia Dramatica admin, and I wanted to write something relatable/positive about it.

I'm definitely not proud of the thing discussed in the opening post; however, it maintains my belief that getting involved in sites like these definitely can lead people down dark roads and isn't healthy. Basically, ED taught my 14-year old self that "trolling IRL" was one of the greatest things to aspire to doing, and it caused me to go lengths I shouldn't have; I did other things around this time, but nothing involving ED articles, just me being a shithead IRL. It took me another year after that to really start turning myself around, but I'm glad I did.

For anyone wondering though: We were never sued. I apologized to the sister of the brother I wrote this about, and they dropped it because they didn't want to think about it further.

I hope they're not troubled by it anymore. In general, I've been on a mission of trying to better myself as a person since I was a teenager. I was an incredibly reclusive and socially inept individual growing up. Thanks to the mixture of doing drag, multiple jobs fundraising for charity and the furry community, I've definitely fixed that a lot over the last ten years. I still have room to grow as far as being a more complete individual goes and really making a difference in the world, but I'm going to continue that how I can.

Anyway, that's all I felt like I -really- needed to address. But while I'm here, I might as well comment on the rest of the stuff, for the fuck of it. (If you don't care, that's fine; I wouldn't either).

---

The American Idol thing: I basically went to audition on a whim just to see what would happen, because they added New Jersey as a last-minute audition stop. I was well aware of how cancerous American Idol is, but, fuck it, adventure. I sang Rolling in the Deep for my co-workers, they gave me 40 dollars to go up to NJ and audition, and much to my surprise, I got through the three producer rounds (mainly by rapping and also singing, after I noticed perfectly good singers were being rejected because they were blending together in choosing Adele & Beyonce).

Unfortunately, there was a week and a half between those auditions and the one you see on TV, and being someone who worked an outdoor job, I got sick between those two. I actually tried to delay my audition by a day to see if I could get any better, but it didn't work. My nerves were shot, I started in the wrong key, and honestly? It's not the best song for my voice (Born This Way, that is; the televised audition cut out the first two bars of Super Bass' chorus, for whatever reason. Presumably to make it look worse). It would have been cool to get through to Hollywood since I've never been to LA, but hey, it's whatever. I never had any grandiose idea of winning; I just wanted to do it for the experience. To this day, I still never thought they would televise the audition, but it's whatever at this point.


Last year Ben was involved in an incident where he was kicked off a bus in Ohio.

View attachment 332218

The narrative here is that Ben was tossed off a bus "for being gay". It's difficult to tell exactly what happened, the driver appeared to be upset with something Ben was doing but wasn't clear about it. I love that Ben's initial reasoning that she was discriminating against him is because she had a lanyard that read "I love Jesus".

The driver was consequently fired after the incident. It very well might be that he was thrown off the bus for the crime of "being gay" but Ben sure seems to find himself in a lot of strange and uncomfortable situations.

Ben's Video:
https://www.facebook.com/Benjadumb/videos/10154274897089529/

News articles:
http://www.dispatch.com/content/stories/local/2016/06/07/COTA_discrimination_allegation.html
https://outlookohio.com/2016/06/cot...nt-from-gay-passenger-who-was-kicked-off-bus/
https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2016/06/man-kicked-off-bus-simply-looked-gay/
http://www.dispatch.com/content/stories/local/2016/06/17/COTA-driver-suspended.html

Follow-up including the termination:
http://www.dispatch.com/content/sto...A_fires_driver_accused_of_discrimination.html

So I actually ended up meeting someone who's mother worked with COTA about a couple months after this, because they used to work at the job I had at the time; he confirmed that the other bus drivers don't like her, and that she is indeed a bigoted piece of shit. It was revealed that she had accused me of releasing an "odorless gas in the air" that was giving her a headache, which explained why the cop that showed up at the time asked if I had an aerosol can or something like that which confused her (I didn't). She had apparently made the claim several times in the past against people, but was ultimately fired since a mental evaluation brought up nothing.

As for my tweets in general: When I'm not being a Outraged Cuck™, my twitter is meant to be funny; the sexual stuff I post isn't out of genuine horniness (if you don't think I'm funny, that's fine). I thought I'd dust off my AD account because I never use it and, yeah, still not terribly compelled to use it after posting that. Oh well.

Alright, that's all I wanted to say. Feel free to make fun of me, call me a godless furry loser, etc.

If you're someone who found this thread and thinks differently of me: I'm sorry. Every day is a journey for self-improvement, and I'll continue to keep trying my best.

Thanks for letting me post here.
 
Last edited:

Feline Darkmage

Gamer Gril Queen
True & Honest Fan
Retired Staff
kiwifarms.net
@Ben, you seem nice and we mean no harm here we just like finding some amusing things and gather them all in one place. I think I know which thread you're talking about seeing as one in particular wound up getting someone permanently banned for taking things too far.

It's nice when a thread subject swings by and responds in a friendly manner. It's a real change of pace from certain types who threaten lolsuits or think we should be deleted from the internet because of hurt feelings.

If you have funny stories feel free to share them, especially if they involve Foxler's Furry Raiders and the civil unrest they have wrought on the fandom, as you seem familiar with at least one of his lackies (the FelixTheFox character I mentioned in the post you quoted from me.
 

Ben

kiwifarms.net
Felix The Fox is a deaf furry from England, who honestly, just isn't that bright and doesn't know any better. If anything, his massive following reflects more poorly on furries themselves, as he has over 9000 followers simply for having a lot of porn of his fursuit (he's not shy about it; you might have once seen a gif of him getting fucked by a Storm Trooper).

What I was referring to in that tweet was basically, he was getting roasted for something (I honestly forget what, likely something to do with Foxler though), and he posted a video of him drinking a chalise of "SJW tears" or whatever. However, he got mocked so heavily after that, he changed his Twitter handles for a month, someone swiped them up to turn them into parody accounts, and apparently he still hasn't learned his lesson since returning. Oh well.

---

As for others, I tried talking to Foxler's boyfriend in DM for a few hours a couple weeks ago. He seemed like he was starting to see the light and the conversation ended very positively, but I realize actually fixing him would take way, way more effort than I can afford.

I basically learned that he got involved with Foxler because he didn't want to ban him from a furmeet for wearing his Nazi get-up, and because people ridiculed Kody so hard for his inaction, he decided to follow Foxler down a rabbithole.

At this point, he apparently feels trapped, and that he acknowledged that if he left the Raiders, he would have absolutely nothing. He told me he tried to leave once before, but didn't realize that you have to also actually -improve- as a person, and returned after people made it clear that they still thought he was a shithead. I hope for his sake, he figures things out in his life.
 
Last edited:

Ben

kiwifarms.net
There actually are studies on the link between racial preferences in sex. It's worth examining.

http://faculty.chicagobooth.edu/emir.kamenica/documents/racialpreferences.pdf
http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0265407515627508

Honestly, when I posted that, I wasn't expecting people to spill out of the woodworks arguing against the post, since Huscoon finally did block me.

However, I don't regret making it, because it did lead to people sending me scholarly research articles on the matter, so I appreciate the opportunity it opened up to learning more concretely about the issue. Wasn't really worth the time to debate with those other people, but whatever, learning opportunity is a learning opportunity.
 

Similar threads

Replies
316
Views
38K
Stole $4000+ from charity at his short-lived convention. Spent months failing to re-brand and sneak back into the fandom. Long history of abusive dating behavior. Currently impersonating and harassing a far more likable furry.
Replies
136
Views
21K
ABDL Furry “Advocate” Shitting his Diapers on Youtube, Currently Managing Pamperchu’s Youtube Channel, Claims to know a Number of 'Wrongly Convicted' Pedophiles
Replies
24
Views
6K
Top