Boy hit by cheese and dies, mother lashes out at bully - So allergic that even seeing the word cheese could kill him.

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'I can't forgive the cruel bully who killed my son': In her only interview, the mother of severely allergic boy, 13, who died after a boy threw cheese at him shares her anger - and regret at not hugging him a last time





The last time Rina Cheema spoke to her son, he had just wolfed down the breakfast she had carefully prepared for him and was about to set off for school.

Karan, 13, stepped out of the front door of the family home calling out, 'see you later!'

Rina was upstairs getting dressed for work and called back to say goodbye. It is one of her greatest regrets that she didn't hug him that day and tell him how much she loved him.

Hours later, amid panic-stricken scenes at his nearby school, Year 8 pupil Karan collapsed after suffering a severe allergic reaction caused by a piece of cheese 'flicked' at him by another pupil. He died ten days later at Great Ormond Street Hospital.

'How could something like this have happened at school?' says Rina, speaking for the first time about Karan's death in an exclusive interview with the Mail at the end of his inquest. 'It's the one place where he should have been safe.'

The 53-year-old divorced accountant is still reeling from the loss of her son in July 2017. Speaking for the first time of the tragic events leading up to her son's collapse and of her feelings towards the pupil whose mindless actions ultimately led to the death of her only child, she describes Karan as 'my soulmate'.

She is still struggling to comprehend how her world was ripped apart by a moment of childishness.

The cheese thrown at Karan, no bigger than half the size of a Post-It note, caused an 'extraordinary reaction' after coming into contact with his skin, one which an expert at the inquest described as 'unprecedented' in medical circles.

One of the most tense moments during the four-day hearing at St Pancras Coroner's Court came when the boy, who is now 15 and cannot be identified, apologised while giving evidence from behind a curtain. 'I just want to say that I didn't mean any harm. I'm sorry. I'm sorry for what I did,' he said.

But Rina cannot bring herself to forgive him.

She and Karan's father, Amarjeet, divorced when their son was just six months old.Karan, she says, was 'everything to me. As a mother, how can I forgive? Karan was my only child, my absolute world.

'I've been left with nothing because of this boy's sheer stupidity. He should have been charged with manslaughter and punished.'

At home in Perivale, West London, her son's bedroom remains as it was when he left it that final morning, right down to the last dirty sock on the floor.

Aside from his chronic allergies, he was a normal teen, passionate about Manchester United and a fan of the Marvel Movies. He was funny and outgoing and loved making YouTube videos, including ones about his allergies.

It is the evenings and weekends, when she returns to a house full of memories, that hurt the most.

'It's the silence,' she says. 'Karan was full of life and always laughing. We were always talking and chatting or watching films together.

'He was adored by his cousins and his uncles and aunts. He was so, so precious to us. I still can't believe that he is gone.'

Karan was just three months old when he first experienced an adverse reaction to cow's tard cum. Aged two, he suffered a massive reaction to wheat after eating a Twiglet and went into anaphylactic shock but was saved by paramedics who administered two EpiPens (adrenaline injections to counter anaphylaxis).

'I got him back that time,' says Rina, who carried an emergency EpiPen in a bag for Karan from that moment on.

Over the years that followed she went to extraordinary lengths to manage her son's condition.

Karan suffered allergies to dairy, wheat, gluten, eggs and nuts and suffered from asthma and eczema. Rina took painstaking care over her son's diet, using a separate grill, microwave and fridge for him. On their last morning together, she gave him specially prepared flapjacks and oat tard cum.

Karan was equally vigilant about what he ate and very vocal about the allergies he suffered.

'It was the first thing he told anyone when he met them,' says Rina. 'Everyone at school knew about it. Whenever we went to restaurants he would ask to speak to the manager and explain his condition.

'He was very confident like that. We never took any chances. One of his favourite treats was going to Nando's for dinner and we never had any problems.'

As well as making sure she always carried an EpiPen, she gave one to the school, along with antihistamine medicine, a spare asthma pump and hydrocortisone cream, to be kept in a personal medical box in the school office.


'I did everything I could to keep him safe,' she says. 'But you can't be with your child all the time.' She says she finds it hard to forgive her son's school, William Perkin C of E, for not doing the same.

The events of that tragic day — June 28, 2017 — are etched in Rina's mind, starting with an incident of childish stupidity, when a pupil eating a baguette gave a piece of cheese to another boy.

The boy, who had previously been reprimanded for throwing food at other pupils, then flicked the cheese at Karan. He said in court that he knew he was allergic to bread, but didn't know about his dairy allergy. 'I think it landed on the left side of his neck,' he said. 'Karan told me: 'I'm allergic to cheese.' I apologised after that.'

The student responsible was arrested on suspicion of attempted murder and interviewed by police but never faced charges and was later expelled from school.

He said he didn't know that Karan's allergies were 'that serious' and thought he would 'get a rash or have a fever or something similar to that' when he flicked the cheese at him.

Rina is deeply troubled by the account, not least because Karan was wearing a buttoned-up shirt and tie that day. She questions how a small piece of cheese could have caused such catastrophic damage if it had merely lightly touched his neck. Forensic tests conducted by the police revealed traces of cheese on Karan's shirt collar. But a photo taken in hospital shows just how swollen his lips and tongue were.

She says a consultant paediatrician at Great Ormond Street told her that 'never in her 30-year career had she seen someone suffer such a reaction just from being touched by a piece of cheese.'

Paediatric allergy consultant Dr Adam Fox told Karan's inquest his reaction was 'unprecedented'. Police who visited the hospital to swab Karan's mouth for evidence were unable to get access because of all the tubes keeping him alive.

Immediately after the cheese was thrown at him, Karan approached a teacher on lunch duty and told him what had happened and that he was allergic to cheese. The incident was initially treated as a minor misdemeanour rather than a medical emergency.

Karan was told to fill out an incident form. Given his allergies, Rina is appalled that this little piece of bureaucracy was considered more important than checking that her son was physically well.

'Valuable time was lost right from the start,' she says. 'Schools have a duty of care to their pupils and that is not being fully addressed.' In the school welfare room, Karan was handed the form, but administrator Bonny Campbell, who was first-aid trained, soon became 'alarmed' about his symptoms and called in another staff member.

The first Rina knew of the crisis was when a staff member rang her mobile at 11.33am.

'She asked if she could give Karan some Piriton because he'd come into contact with something he was allergic to. 'I said, 'yes, give it him.' After the call ended, Rina immediately tried to call back.

'My mother's instinct told me something was wrong,' she says. 'The line was engaged. Then they called me and asked me to come straight to the school.'

From that moment, Karan deteriorated quickly. According to evidence, it took just under ten minutes for him to go from 'absolutely fine' to unconscious.

Rina is still tormented by the thought of Karan's panic in his final conscious moments. He clawed at his neck so much he made his skin bleed. He ripped off his shirt, screamed and flung himself around the room. He thumped his chest with his fist while telling staff: 'I'm going to die.'

She is furious, too, about the mistakes made. An ambulance was called but the crucial word 'anaphylaxis' was not mentioned. The EpiPen in Karan's personal medical box was out of date, due to an administrative error by the school, and may have been less potent.

A senior paramedic thought Karan was having an asthma attack and wasn't made aware of his allergy until they got to hospital.

The first EpiPen failed to take effect but while there were other pens in medical boxes belonging to other pupils, staff claimed they would not have given Karan one that belonged to another student for fear another child might be left without their own medication. Rina raced to the school to see four ambulances parked outside. When she walked in she saw her son lying on his back on a table, being given CPR by paramedics.

'I felt this overwhelming sense of horror,' she says. She insists that when she frantically asked what had happened, she was told, 'someone put cheese on his face'.

She travelled with Karan in an ambulance to Northwick Park Hospital in Harrow where he was stabilised before being transferred that evening to Great Ormond Street.

Within days, Rina was told her son was brain dead. It took several more for her to accept that nothing could be done for him and to give her consent for his life support to be switched off. 'I didn't want to give up on him,' she says. 'I was desperately hoping something could be done. It was agony.'

Ever since that moment, she has questioned what might have been done to save him. At Karan's inquest, coroner Mary Hassell asked the same, amid concerns about the way schools manage children with severe food allergies when the UK is facing some of the highest prevalence rates of allergic conditions in the world.

Karan was one of three children to collapse at school and subsequently die between 2016 and 2017, an alarming figure given that, on average, the total number of deaths per year of both adults and children across the entire country rarely rises above ten.

Nasar Ahmed, a 14-year-old pupil at Bow School in East London, suffered an anaphylactic reaction to tandoori chicken served for lunch in November 2017.

And in March 2018, nine-year-old Ismaeel Ashraf, who had a dairy allergy, collapsed and died after eating fish fingers and chips for lunch at his school.

Karan died just weeks after Mary Hassell, who also presided over Nasar Ahmed's inquest, issued a 'Prevention of Future Deaths' report, warning other lives were at risk 'unless action is taken'.

She will now issue another report, calling for standardised allergy action plans in schools and more national awareness of allergies and the necessity of administering EpiPens immediately.

The law changed in October 2017, allowing schools to buy in EpiPens to keep for emergency use, although they are not legally required to do so. Staff are allowed to administer the adrenaline injectors to any child who has been assessed as being at risk of anaphylaxis.

Giving a narrative verdict at the end of his inquest, the coroner criticised the healthcare provision at Karan's school: 'The care plan had never been considered by the school and it contained insufficient detail and instruction.'

A statement released yesterday by Twyford C of E Academies Trust said Karan's death has 'highlighted the significant challenges for school in managing students with the most severe medical needs.'

The school, which said it now holds two spare EpiPens, said there was 'a lack of clarity and consistency in guidance provided to schools'.

Since Karan's death, school nurses have been reinstated in the area's secondary schools.

According to statistics released by Allergy UK, there was a 615 per cent increase in the rate of UK hospitalisations due to anaphylaxis in the 20 years to 2012.

The causes of the staggering increase are not fully understood but experts blame it on multiple factors including a trend for delaying weaning in babies and changes in gut bacteria resulting from over-zealous standards of hygiene.

Rina believes that until drastic action is taken by schools, the risk of future deaths is all too real.

'I can't get Karan back,' she says, 'but I don't want any other parent to go through what I'm going through. Children with allergies shouldn't have to be afraid to go to school. When you send your child off to school you do not expect it to be the last goodbye.'

I'll edit in a tl;dr. The kid was allergic to dairy, wheat, gluten, eggs and nuts. The school had an epi-pen there, which failed and wouldn't use any of the other epi-pens there because it might leave another student without their medication.

The cheese thrower, who had previously thrown food before, was arrested for ATTEMPTED MURDER and expelled.
 
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Azovka

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If his mother was so protective of him and did everything she could, why was his EpiPen at school out of date?

And how the fuck do you get so allergic you die from a piece of cheese touching you for a second? That’s not a normal kind of allergy.
Then again, she did get pregnant at 40. Who knows what defects that kind of late pregnancy can produce.

Poor kid though. And the one that flicked the cheese at him. Like, “attempted murder”? C’mon.
 

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Well, can't say anything else that the kid had the deck stacked against him from the beginning if he was that alergic that touching a small piece of cheese would cause death. It is sad, but Darwin 1, Pajeet 0, and that is just how nature is. His chance for a normal life was very slim. But yeah this is not murder, for no normal person would think of food as a deadly weapon.

 

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Maybe if your kid is so allergic that he can get killed with dairy products, he shouldn't be going to normal schools. Kid should have been in a damn bubble.
I'm allergic to cheese but I'd have to eat a slice to have problems - touching it would not be a problem. American food has so much fucking cheese on it that it's nearly impossible to not accidentally eat cheese once in a while though, it's utterly amazing he didn't die in one of the many American food restaurants that don't understand the difference between a cheeseburger and a hamburger.
 

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So I'm not on the up and up on EpiPens but what was preventing this paper mache kid from carrying one on his own person or in his backpack? Why bother running to the office when you could have that shit ready to roll immediately?

I dunno man, it sucks this kid died but like how the fuck was he allergic to everything.
 

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So I'm not on the up and up on EpiPens but what was preventing this paper mache kid from carrying one on his own person or in his backpack? Why bother running to the office when you could have that shit ready to roll immediately?
Because zero tolerance bullshit where you get instantly expelled if you have even an aspirin.
 

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I feel sorry for the kid, this was not something under his control. You can't really blame him for just wanting to be normal/go to a normal school/not live in a bubble. Not the safest choice, but it is one I understand. It does sound like he would've needed extra precautions though, like spare epipens.

I also think the other kid was mean and stupid, but a lot of kids that age are. I don't think he meant to do serious harm or ever imagined what would happen. To charge him with murder seems very extreme and shortsighted.

"Help, where's another epi-pen? This kid is fucking dying!"
"...But what if someone else needs it?"

Can't make this shit up. I'm 100% sure one of those other kids wouldn't mind sharing an epi in the case of ANAPHYLACTIC SHOCK.
I absolutely do not understand this either. If anyone should get in trouble, it's whoever made this idiotic decision. Reading this article, it seems like the biggest failures lie with the way the school handled the whole event.

They should stop demonizing the other kid and focus on that. While I cannot imagine the grief she must feel, the mother insisting on punishment for the other kid means she is just after vengeance, not justice. I can't really blame her for not being very rational right now, though I do hope she eventually realizes this. One young life is gone, let's not needlessly destroy another.
 

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Schools are pretty infamous for deflecting blame and not taking responsibility. They make damn sure they're never held liable, and usually do the bare minimum effort required. They were so scared of the potential ramifications of sharing an epi-pen assigned to another child they seemed to completely gloss over the one dying because of a clerical error about an out of date pen instead.

As for the other kid, I doubt he meant to start his career as a hitman using a post-it note of cow tard cum. Calling him a murderer is a bit far. Unfortunately, the lightest sentence I can see them slapping him with is involuntary manslaughter.
 
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