Cheating - Affairs and Betrayals

[CrippleThreat]

That A&N thread I made on the GMILF having an affair brought up some comments. Some describing the disgust towards the thought of a 67-year old woman having sex. However, I was interested in the discussion of why people of any age would cheat on or betray their spouse, significant other, partner, etc. What do you think the cheaters get out of committing such a treacherous act?

For me, I abhor cheating. If you made the time to further a bond with whomever is interested in you, why would you just throw it all away? Haven't you any consideration for who you might be hurting? If they're married too, hoo boy... And it goes double for them if they also have kids. Honestly, cheaters have to suck in casinos; they play a highly stressful, high stakes game where they bet on everything to lose, with only one thing to win, and one thing could be considered a pittance.

 

[TFT-A9]

Cheap thrills, dopamine hits and sex.

Yeah they're pretty fucking stupid.

 

[Medical Hawaii]

boredom with current partner, not enough sex, etc.

almost not worth it to risk getting in a relationship

 

[Monika H.]

Cheap thrills, dopamine hits and sex.

Yeah they're pretty fucking stupid.

Agree on this.
If you've got a working brain, you don't fall in it, plain and simple. I had a female colleague last week doing weird shit like playing footsie with me during appetizer and trying to take my hand, I just moved my leg aside and made a mental note to never have appetizer or lunch with said thot ever again.
I don't need nor want to mess up my marriage for a cheap fuck.

 

[Ponchik]

You cheated not only the game, but yourself.

You didn't grow.
You didn't improve.
You took a shortcut and gained nothing.

You experienced a hollow victory. Nothing was risked and nothing was gained.
It's sad you don't know the difference.

 

[Reverend]

High Risk vs High Reward. Both give you a rush when you think you can get away with doing what you are doing. Toss in a sprinkle of power and a dash of control, and you have the mixings for a explosion waiting to happen where everyone gets hurt and no one survives unscathed.

Some people crave all aspects, even the rebuilding part, the game begins again but at all new levels of "Can I get there again..."

 

[Freedom Fries]

Really the rope? Surely being forced to wear some kind of scarlet letter would be enough

 

[The Shadow]

It's an abuse of trust, and that's why I hate cheaters.

 

[LinkinParkxNaruto[AMV]]

i guess its easy for people to commit during the period of infatuation but after a few months, yeah, time to go window shopping and "live life to the fullest", "you never know what opportunities you are missing out on", "live, laugh , love", "don't say no to fate" "test all your options" "you only live once" "treat yourself" "not all those who wander are lost" and whatever bullshit motivator meme is floating around instagram to justify lack of self discipline and commitment. Any perceived opportunity for "upward mobility" when it comes to romantic partner is going to be pursued, grass is greener on the other side and all that, it takes some will and effort for people to not behave like selfish retard monkeys but now is almost like contemporary culture validates it constantly and doesn't even peer pressure against it, finding someone loyal who at least you can trust in telling you stuff is the exception and not the rule.

 

[Exorbital Columnations]

I just pretend that I'm fine with my wife having a black boyfriend or two and try not to let it get me down.

 

[It's HK-47]

The rise of instant gratification certainly didn't help. Why talk through a heated discussion when you can just head to the bar and try again? Why work through a difficult period when you could just boot up Tinder and go scrolling for awhile? Why try to forge something lasting and meaningful? You're only twenty-something, you're still young, there's plenty of fish in the sea, just live it up!

At some point in your life you'll have caught the biggest and the best fish that you'll ever catch, though. There are plenty of fish in the sea, but there's a good chance that you'll spend the rest of your life pulling up small and uninteresting fish, hoping you'll find one like that again. It's no wonder that people are so miserable these days; So many of them see each other as fleeting, easily-replaced nobodies.

I suppose that isn't new, but it certainly hasn't gotten better.

 

[alreadyhome]

I think it's a form of self-loathing/self sabotage, also very passive aggressive and pathetic.

 

[Leopold II of Belgium]

Lust, arrogance and stupidity. Most people are too retarded to expect consequences or they'll think they'll get away with it.

Kill 'em dead is my solution, there's no need for more scum surrounding you.

 

[Bumblino]

There's many reasons, but I feel like most of it boils down to not having the gall to face their respective partners or the selfishness+stupidity combo of thinking you can have all of the things and not get caught. But I have a feel that more people fall in the first category rather than the 2nd, they're discontent with their current situation, they don't have the will to face their partners and fix it or ultimately if things are really bad to just tell them it's over. Either way it's really sad to see how many people fear commitment in a relationship and are "window-shopping". Now nothing guarantees the union of 2 people.

 

[Purin Chan]

Although I don't think cheaters should get the rope it's still the worst thing you can do to your significant other without things getting abusive.

 

[Null]

rule 4

 

[Alrakkan]

rule 4

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Null back at it again with, no joke, welcome life advice.

I don't think cheaters should get the rope. I think there should be some kind of low resource intensity charge of which a person can be found guilty that makes saying that they are a cheating whore/skank/sex-addicted degenerate non-libellous, then post that on some kind of public archive for everyone to see. Rather than actual, expensive, non-reversible death or expensive prison time, just shame them and cut them off from the dating pool. You protect the victims, you punish the adulterer, false judgements can be appealed to earnest effect. I got taught some time ago by a man I still admire that living with sin can be a greater torture than death.

Don't get me wrong, fuck these people; in fact, I believe this would fuck them harder than death and would dissuade potential cheaters better to boot.

Also, cross-posting the post I made in the original thread archiving some screencaps I made of She's A Homewrecker because I spent too much time on it.

Spoiler: SAID CROSSPOST

So I had a look on this website and I've archived some choice posts from the UK. I'll be chucking this in the thread for the website itself on this forum too, but see below for some good shit.

Spoiler: THE GOOD STUFF

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TL;DL Lots of whores, a few womanising degenerates, some silly girl getting cancelled by dead-eggers and plenty of lulz

Funny as fuck website 8/10 would check up on every now and then.

EDIT:

Spoiler: HOLY SHIT THE SCOTLAND ONES ARE EVEN BETTER, NSFW

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[Purin Chan]

number 11

but what if you both truly love each other in an equal amount, then what?

 

[Violent Ken Apologist]

Our culture is oppressive and stifling now, too, though. It didn't used to be but here we are. And I will always admire that the nips rehabilitate wrongdoers rather than witchhunt them, don't have an overwhelming progressive presence and keep their unique traditions. I prefer western civilisation but it's also easy to ask 'what's left of it, though?' Maybe when we win we can go back to that.

 

[DrunkenDozing]

Cheaters in a relationship that has only existed for like a year? Yeah, they are pieces of shit and all but whatever. Just split up and the other person would be better off for it.

Cheating in a marriage with children? Rope. You are not only destroying a relationship for quick cummies but you are selfishly upending an entire family's world for your own sake.