Chris and his lack of dedication to tomgirlism -

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AtroposHeart

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Today, I was at the nail salon and among other things I got my eyebrows done. For those of you who don't know what that entails I will tell you, it involves having wax poured over parts of your eyebrow and having a strip pulled over it and then off, ripping the hair off. It rather stings and afterwards if also usually involves some plucking of small hairs. As I sign I spend way to much time on these forums, I thought back to Chris and his tomgirlness and wondered....

Would he get this done?

Of course, not. He would be begging it to be stopped at the first pull and if he made it through the whole secession, he would never do it again. Chris wants to be feminine and pretty like a girl. However he ignores something crucial.

Being a woman takes effort.

Not to say being a man doesn't take effort, but we already know Chris has failed at manhood. In his mind being a girl was all about doing cute, girly stuff like make-up and bras. He never has given thought to the behind the scenes work that most attractive women have to do to keep up their appearances and it is quite clear that Chris doesn't put any effort into his appearance at all. His hair is an ugly mess and so is his skin. If you have go to the skin care section of any store, you will see a wide variety of products aimed at woman dedicated to taking care of the skin; cleansers, masks, toners, moisters, and basic lotions. The hair care section also has a wide variety of care products.

In theory if Chris took the tomgirl thing to its logical conclusion it would actually improve his lifestyle. If he read women's magazine and see they are full of healthy recipes and fitness tips. He could take part of exercises that are dominated by women like pilates and Zumba. However, when it comes down to it Chris is too lazy to put much, if any real effort into femininity, anymore than he use to put into masculinity in the end.
 

Watcher

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The guy's just fucking lazy. He thought tomgirl-ism would get him pity china and have the ulterior motive of hiding his baldness with long hair. It turns out putting on makeup takes too long
 

KatsuKitty

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Yeah, pretty much. Chris has a three year-old's conception of femininity: playing with makeup, playing dress-up, etc.

Speaking as a male who does everything you just mentioned (I pretty much just stop short of trans), Chris having the discipline to put the effort in for anything feminine would be a great step for him in general. As he stands now, the easy way out is just to act like an old man crossdresser.
 

CatParty

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not to mention, no matter what he wore would end up looking like hobo clothes
 

NiggoFiggo

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He is just lazy, he started out strong makeup, shaving and he gradually fell off. Now its just having long hair, earrings, and wearing women clothes. Ive seen crackwhore crossdressers put more effort in dressing like women then chris
 

Lucrid

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It's kind of funny that you mention the pain/eyebrow plucking thing, because in the Jackie e-mails he was talking about how he was planning to get his navel pierced. Apparently this is one of the more painful piercings out there, but, more importantly, it requires a lot of maintenance - it must be cleaned several times a day, not touched or played with, etc. Chris, as far as I know, never ended up getting the piercing (they don't do them at the mall, and he was too lazy/cheap to go to a tattooist), but if he were to get one he'd surely fuck it up and end up getting an infection from it.

But back to the main point of the OP, yeah, if Chris were to end up committing completely to the while tomgirl thing (including hygiene), he'd of course be a lot cleaner and possibly more healthy. This kind of thing happens a lot with MtF crossdressers, as they no longer are content with being greasy and want to put more effort into looking smooth, youthful, clean, etc.
 

Anchuent Christory

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Whilst I agree with the overall sentiment that Chris is lazy towards his tomgirism and incorrectly thinks that being a woman involves nothing more than having long hair, wearing female clothes, half heartedly slapping on a bit if makeup, and waiting for somebody to look after him, I also feel that it's a bit demeaning to imply that not having your eyebrows waxed or going to a salon makes you any less of a woman. Lets be honest, most women don't do these things.

It's kind of like saying that not being into football or drinking beer makes you less of a man.
 

Pikonic

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Chris thinks long hair = TOMGIRL!!! :tomgirl:
But there's more to that,
Lets say imma go on date night…
It takes me about 40 minutes to wash/dry/straighten my hair
About 20 to do makeup that doesn't make me look like a painted clown
30 to pick out an outfit, 5 to put it on. Repeat for jewelry. 10 minutes for shoes
Total: 2 hours, 20 min.
When Chris has THAT level of dedication, come talk to me.
 

Satoru182

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Chris and his lack of dedication to every-fucking-thing.

It comes down to his childhood when Barb bribe him into say the name of the toys to get them and him winning the sonic contest just by sitting down watching cartoons. Deep in his atrophied brain he refuses to let go these memories of success doing nothing. Work once and gain forever effort is not for the speshul snowflake.
 

Mourning Dove

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As a lady, I admit I'm pretty lazy myself. I'm not the most fashionable, and the most make-up I wear is tinted lip balm. I pluck my own eyebrows and paint my own nails at home.

However, I do go to a hair salon for hair cutting and styling. And at least I shower daily.
 

Pikonic

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On the topic of salons...
His hair is
CUT
BY

BARB
 

BALLZ-BROKEN

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Tomgirlism to Chris was just "sexy dress-up time". After the thrill of being naughty wore off, Chris' interest in it petered out (no pun intended).
 

AtroposHeart

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Anchuent Christory said:
Whilst I agree with the overall sentiment that Chris is lazy towards his tomgirism and incorrectly thinks that being a woman involves nothing more than having long hair, wearing female clothes, half heartedly slapping on a bit if makeup, and waiting for somebody to look after him, I also feel that it's a bit demeaning to imply that not having your eyebrows waxed or going to a salon makes you any less of a woman. Lets be honest, most women don't do these things.

It's kind of like saying that not being into football or drinking beer makes you less of a man.

Oh, I didn't mean to imply that at all. What I meant was how Chris viewed womanhood and he views it through a girly leans and he wants to live life as a girly girl, but he doesn't put much effort at the girly girl lifestyle when it comes down to it.
 

Stuff and Things

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Chris is too lazy and doesn't put any kind of effort in anything he does, sure, when he started with the "tomgirlism" he at least spended money on make up... but now, he doesn't even care, for what i understand, he still considers himself a tomgirl, but the only thing he does now is keeping his hair long (and it still is a mess, it looks like pubic hair) and using pink clothings and accessories, like those snickers for girls or the jewel studded belt for girls that, according to PCA, he was wearing a few days ago...

Right now, in his mind, the only thing that he needs to be effeminate and hence, attractive to the opposite sex, is just having long greasy blond hair and wearing pink accessories...

What i don't understand, is why he keeps calling himself a "tomgirl" if he doesn't put any effort on that autistic hobby? or, if he doesn't considers himself a tomgirl anymore (at least subconsciously) why he is still using pink accessories and having long hair??

His "tomgirl" style pisses me off a bit, it's hard to explain why, but basically, it pisses me off that he used that stupid term for that, instead of calling himself crossdresser or something, but now that i think about it, at least he didn't called himself femboy, i already have to deal with the fact that "femboy" is now being used as a synonym for "crossdresser" or "traps" (:_( *sigh* Oh well, back to my old visual kei style...

Anyway, the tl;dr version of my point is, he's lazy, and he doesn't understand how society works, remember that his autistic mind works with strict rules that has to be followed, so, if tomboys get surrounded by boys, then, by being the opposite or parallel of that ("tomgirl"), he will get surrounded by girls...
 

LordCustos3

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AtroposHeart said:
In theory if Chris took the tomgirl thing to its logical conclusion it would actually improve his lifestyle. If he read women's magazine and see they are full of healthy recipes and fitness tips. He could take part of exercises that are dominated by women like pilates and Zumba. However, when it comes down to it Chris is too lazy to put much, if any real effort into femininity, anymore than he use to put into masculinity in the end.

Maybe I'm paying attention to the wrong rack, but the only "ladies" magazines I ever see anymore are
Cosmo: which is all "10 Top Sexy Tips for Sexying up You Sexy Sex Sex Fucking Sex (which involves Fucking. Sex.)" and
Ladies Home Journal: which is for Stepford Wives for whom sex is an alien concept.

I don't think he'd learn pilates (or anything useful) from Ladies Home Journal....and I quake with Lovecraftian Dread thinking about what he would Learn from Cosmo.

I think Cosmo would fill Chris'tards head with more bad advice than 1000 asspats from Anna/Waterhead.
 

Kamen Rider Black RX

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Chris probably thought if he labeled himself a Tomgirl, no one would be able to call him gay (and by that I mean homosexual, not happy) anymore. Just like you call a girl a tomboy for displaying more masculine behavior instead of a lesbian.
 

Mourning Dove

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Also supposedly Bob was highly against Chris's tomgirlism. And then Bob died. Perhaps Chris's half-assing of tomgirlism is his special autistic way of fulfilling Bob's final wishes??
 

Captain Cid

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Personally, I still refuse to accept that Chris came to this fucking "tomgirl" shit on his own. Somebody or something planted that seed in his mind.

Chris is just gay and is doing everything he can to avoid facing that fact. Straight men don't have to worry about "falling off the straight path". It's just like gay men not being tempted by women. You are what you are and you either accept it or: tomgirl.
 
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Autism and laziness. Chris is so lazy it actually screws up his perspective.
Chris doesn't put in more effort because he thinks he already looks like a woman.

It's odd though, Chris trying to be an attractive lady. I thought he didn't want men to hit on him.
 
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