Concerning the state of stepfathers -

[AnimeGirlConnoisseur]

In his last address to the people our fearless leader talked about how the stigma around being a stepfather has changed in the past half decade. Before it was considered to be a good thing, now it is considered to a bad thing. Was this shift in people's opinion a good thing or a bad thing?

 

[Grinrow]

It's all up to how the man and woman acts. If the woman is just a hoe that goes around letting guys creampie her then the man is a cuck and she shouldn't be having kids. But if its a chick who's husband just died and she hooks up with another man a few months later and he doesn't let her walk all over him then I'd say its pretty respectable. But if the man is just doing it to fuck the child hes far worse than a cuck.

 

[Japanese Jesus]

Ok. Real talk:
To be quite honest, I personally think that this boils down to whether you are able to fuck Trent's anus or not, reason why I keep my wife's boyfriend (Mr Magenta) far far far away from Trent's anus.
Allowing your bull to fuck the anus of Trent is a thing that only supreme cucks do.
So yeah, big dick energy, and that, Kiwis, is how I ended in the sex offender watchlist.

 

[Gravityqueen4life]

there is a difference between being a genuine stepdad and a cuck. an honest step dad would still make kids of his own while loving and supporting the other kid or atleast be on friendly terms. then we have cuckholds like mundenematt who not only is rising another mans spwan but also dating a women who is pregnante with a child thats not even his. but what can you expect from a freak like that who once dated a drug-addict stripper?

 

[Slap47]

Stepdad has went from honorable to degenerate because of a declining view of women. I would say that most men now think that single mothers are idiots who who exploit men as paypigs. This view is entirely justified and you can see this most obviously with the products of single motherhood and cuck-like relationships.

Matt fucked up by saying "my wifes kid" with the implication that he didn't consider it his. You can consider a child yours and not be its biological parent. I read this as Matt tolerating the kids (and the cheating) because he wants some "poon".

 

[OB 946]

It's literally an internet meme. Settling down with a woman who has a kid from a previous relationship, maybe she had a bad marriage, maybe her ex was abusive, maybe he died, what have you, isn't inherently bad, especially if you make a family of it. See I really think that's the big thing here, is whether or not you're a family.

If her kid is a little shit and you aren't allowed to discipline them, because it's "her kid" or she's using you as a walking paycheck, obviously you're a cuck. That being said settling down, having kids of your own, and establishing a cohesive family unit is perfectly fine imo.

Also depends on the woman. If she's a fat cow tossed aside and a shit mom, obviously a cuck. However I wouldn't consider the dudes fucking Angelina Jolie or Halle Berry cucks.

Edit: as the poster above said, pay really matters. If a woman is financially independent when you meet her, it's probably not that bad. If she needs your check you're a cuck.

 

[Christ Cried]

I for one think Stepfathers are chads

 

[heyilikeyourmom]

All my kids’ stepdads are great. They keep the little bastards out of my hair, and they don’t seem upset when their supermodel wives unfavorably compare their sexual prowess to my own.

 

[tuscangarder]

You seem to think a tiny subculture on the internet is the real world.

 

[Takodachi]

Because 30 years ago, the stepfather had the same authority over the kids as the biological dad did, but nowadays they will get slammed with the "hey, dont do that, you are not his real father" if they try to discipline the brat.

So, at the end of the day, the thots who cant keep their legs closed are to blame.
But even then... Why would you raise something that isnt your own blood? That feels like it goes against the natural order.

 

[Slap47]

You seem to think a tiny subculture on the internet is the real world.

Cuckoldry and not having kids of your blood has historically been seen as a negative. Stepdads being honorable was a recent invention and it has been largely undone.

 

[TFT-A9]

Never, ever take responsibility for someone else's mess.

 

[tuscangarder]

Cuckoldry and not having kids of your blood has historically been seen as a negative. Stepdads being honorable was a recent invention and it has been largely undone.

Go outside.

No one ever thinks about step dads. No one says cuck.

 

[3119967d0c]

Stepdads being honorable was a recent invention and it has been largely undone.

Was this really a thing in the West?

There's a big difference between being a widower marrying a widow, or taking one on as a second or third wife, and marrying a whore.

 

[Krokodil Overdose]

Cuckoldry and not having kids of your blood has historically been seen as a negative. Stepdads being honorable was a recent invention and it has been largely undone.

I'd argue the reverse. Adoption was a venerable institution among the Roman elites, for example, because it allowed you to pick your heirs and otherwise game the system when it came to legacies. The thing is, when you adopted someone else's child, you weren't signing on to just be a paycheck; you were his patron and paterfamilias, with all the status and authority that included. While the exact Roman system didn't survive the fall of the WRE, the general idea of the husband as head of household persisted until well into the 20th century. However, since then, women's rights and the welfare state have combined to demote the father/husband to last among equals, so where once adoption was assuming authority over the adoptees (and their mother, if you married her) now it's just signing on to be their paypig; the upsides are gone, but the downsides are as persistent as ever.

 

[ZeCommissar]

Honestly it depends

People saying "its just a meme" are only partially correct. I do see a large backlash against single mothers now, and coincidentally to the men that get with them. It's seen as "trashy", and "settling down" unless you are a older person.

Its honestly only a "cuck" thing to do depending on how the father acts towards the woman and the child, why the mom left the bio-dad in the first place, and why the man decided to be with the woman.

I have a uneasy feeling that a lot of men are settling down because they think the only poon they can get is one that already has a kid. If you settle down just for poon you are a cuck, stepfather or not. I especially think this when I see my peers already being stepfathers to women my age. Why the fuck are you so young and already raising another mans kid?

The only way I could ever consider being with a woman that already has a kid is if i'm already a middle aged man that had already divorced or some shit. Especially if I already had a kid of my own at that point, so it would be hypocritical to judge.

 

[Hellbound Hellhound]

I don't think there is much of a stigma outside of the internet. If anything has changed, it's the ability that people now have, courtesy of online dating apps, to be pickier with who they choose to go on a date with. If a woman mentions that she is a single mother on Tinder, then she is probably going to get a lot more left-swipes than another woman who is childless. It's just the way dating works nowadays.

It has become trivially easy to screen out entire groups of people who don't meet a very specific set of preferences, whereas before, you had to get to know people in person before things could be taken further. People were more willing to be accommodating of things like dependent children in the past because there were fewer choices right in front of them.

 

[Larry David's Opera Cape]

Mom's boyfriend is statistically the most dangerous adult in a kid's life. Now arguably that's because mom sucks at picking boyfriends. But that's probably part of any bad reputation stepdads have.

 

[OB 946]

Honestly it depends

People saying "its just a meme" are only partially correct. I do see a large backlash against single mothers now, and coincidentally to the men that get with them. It's seen as "trashy", and "settling down" unless you are a older person.

Its honestly only a "cuck" thing to do depending on how the father acts towards the woman and the child, why the mom left the bio-dad in the first place, and why the man decided to be with the woman.

I have a uneasy feeling that a lot of men are settling down because they think the only poon they can get is one that already has a kid. If you settle down just for poon you are a cuck, stepfather or not. I especially think this when I see my peers already being stepfathers to women my age. Why the fuck are you so young and already raising another mans kid?

The only way I could ever consider being with a woman that already has a kid is if i'm already a middle aged man that had already divorced or some shit. Especially if I already had a kid of my own at that point, so it would be hypocritical to judge.

No it's literally an internet meme. If you spend any amount of time outside of 4chan and here, out in the world, literally nobody cares. It is a small section of predominantly young internet users that themselves aren't anywhere close to actually settling down with a woman.

I don't even mean that pejoratively, it's okay to have these opinions, they're just opinions, and it's okay to be young and act like it. However let's look at the person that made the quote. Null, by his own admission, hasn't touched a woman in years and doesn't interact with non internet people ever. He's also like, 25 or some shit. His opinion isn't exactly a reliable barometer for what "people" think.

 

[Marco Fucko]

I've seen literally one "blended" family that's worked out so far (granted I am young). Outside the whole trad perspective step parents have always had a double edged reputation. To some kids, it's great to have another role model in their life who is actually responsible, depending on what the biological counterpart was like, obviously. To others, it is a pain to deal with some 'replacement' parent and there's clashing over that, especially if you're dealing with adolescents who are going to channel a lot of their angst toward the 'outsider' of the family.

I guess I agree with the family building angle. If the woman's kid isn't a reflection of re.tarded decision making and the guy is pretty solid and not some "beta bux" cuck type of guy then I obviously wouldn't hassle them. That being said, I probably wouldn't open up to dating a woman with a kid. Just feels off to me, go ahead and call me a hypocrite,