Dave Hopkins - Furry Rape Fetishist

[Cyberwuffy]

Proof or gtfo

pffft. I don't owe anyone here anything, and exactly how am I supposed to prove that?

I only joined to add my perspective about things. I want to interact with Katie again, but that ship has kind of sailed.

 

[GentlemanFaggot]

That was, what, 15 years ago?

I don't want to be a dick but I'm just warning you, this isn't really going to be a place that is sympathetic

 

[JethroTullamore]

pffft. I don't owe anyone here anything, and exactly how am I supposed to prove that?

I only joined to add my perspective about things. I want to interact with Katie again, but that ship has kind of sailed.

Seriously, though.....

What’s it like to bone a dolphin?

 

[Bubble Ba'ath]

pffft. I don't owe anyone here anything, and exactly how am I supposed to prove that?

I only joined to add my perspective about things. I want to interact with Katie again, but that ship has kind of sailed.

There isnt really a 'perspective' here aside from 'this lolcow is dating someone I used to date and am somehow still hung up about a huge time period later.'

To be interesting to us you have to at least give us some insight as to why she went for him/still is with him, etc. Even then, its worth noting that this would be regarded as purely speculative since by your own admission you don't really know Rapey Dave.

 

[Cyberwuffy]

That was, what, 15 years ago?

I don't want to be a dick but I'm just warning you, this isn't really going to be a place that is sympathetic

23 years. And no, I am not looking for sympathy.

 

[Bubble Ba'ath]

23 years. And no, I am not looking for sympathy.

So what are you looking for?

Tell us what you think she sees in Dave and why she would still be with him despite the obvious fact that he is a nutcase. Does he have some kind of immense cult like magnetism?

Or perhaps his....unique...singing voice?

 

[Cortizone]

23 years. And no, I am not looking for sympathy.

23 years? What the hell is wrong with you?

I've heard the barebones version of this story from people in Dave's discord over the last few years, but I'd always assumed it was a relatively recent happening like Katie was desperately exploring her options outside of Dave and has shitty taste in partners.

23 years. You were, what? Teenagers? I can't even imagine being so hung up on any of the people I dated when I was young that I'd still be stalking them over two decades later trying to force my way into their life. My understanding is that your "thing" was strictly online with Katie and it only lasted a couple months? I would think you've had other relationships since then - hopefully in-person ones where you've experienced an actual connection and physical contact with another human being that would vastly overshadow a short-term online thing. Please tell me that you have, or else this is even fucking scarier, dude.

Can you confirm a few pieces of "trivia" about yourself I've heard? I'm genuinely curious.

- Is it true Katie has had to block you on so many venues that you've resorted to messaging Dave and their friends demanding that they make her speak to you until they block you as well? (I am guessing this is true considering you seem to have only shown up here because she's been mentioned, which leads me to assume you found this thread via search engine while trying to dig up more methods of reaching out to her.)

- Is it true that your relationship with Katie was founded on the fact you were threatening suicide over your previous online girlfriend leaving you, she felt bad for you, and then when she became scared of how clingy you were and tried to escape, you amped up the suicide threats and emotional manipulation to the point of openly encouraging strangers on a message board to harass her on your behalf?

- Is it true several artists will no longer accept commissions from you because of your relentless harassment and creepy behavior?

- Did you seriously commission porn of Katie's character by lying to artists that you had her permission, and then cry to her about how you basically did nothing wrong because you were just trying to move on and cope with the pain she'd caused you by breaking up with you over 20 fucking years ago?


If even half of this is true, it's no real wonder why she sees a human trainwreck like Dave as a sane partner by comparison. Jesus fucking christ, get help.

 

[Cyberwuffy]

23 years? What the hell is wrong with you?

I've heard the barebones version of this story from people in Dave's discord over the last few years, but I'd always assumed it was a relatively recent happening like Katie was desperately exploring her options outside of Dave and has shitty taste in partners.

23 years. You were, what? Teenagers? I can't even imagine being so hung up on any of the people I dated when I was young that I'd still be stalking them over two decades later trying to force my way into their life. My understanding is that your "thing" was strictly online with Katie and it only lasted a couple months? I would think you've had other relationships since then - hopefully in-person ones where you've experienced an actual connection and physical contact with another human being that would vastly overshadow a short-term online thing. Please tell me that you have, or else this is even fucking scarier, dude.
It took me awhile to dig out of the hole where I was emotionally.
Can you confirm a few pieces of "trivia" about yourself I've heard? I'm genuinely curious.

- Is it true Katie has had to block you on so many venues that you've resorted to messaging Dave and their friends demanding that they make her speak to you until they block you as well? (I am guessing this is true considering you seem to have only shown up here because she's been mentioned, which leads me to assume you found this thread via search engine while trying to dig up more methods of reaching out to her.)
She wants nothing to do with me.
- Is it true that your relationship with Katie was founded on the fact you were threatening suicide over your previous online girlfriend leaving you, she felt bad for you, and then when she became scared of how clingy you were and tried to escape, you amped up the suicide threats and emotional manipulation to the point of openly encouraging strangers on a message board to harass her on your behalf?
Yes, it is. I was 16 and stupid.
- Is it true several artists will no longer accept commissions from you because of your relentless harassment and creepy behavior?
There are two sides to every story. I've burned bridges with a few artists over the years.
- Did you seriously commission porn of Katie's character by lying to artists that you had her permission, and then cry to her about how you basically did nothing wrong because you were just trying to move on and cope with the pain she'd caused you by breaking up with you over 20 fucking years ago?
I never lied to anyone.
If even half of this is true, it's no real wonder why she sees a human trainwreck like Dave as a sane partner by comparison. Jesus fucking christ, get help.

So what are you looking for?

Tell us what you think she sees in Dave and why she would still be with him despite the obvious fact that he is a nutcase. Does he have some kind of immense cult like magnetism?

Or perhaps his....unique...singing voice?

My behavior back then probably drove her to someone, who in comparison, is way worse than anything I ever did. I feel bad about it.

 

[Panty Shroom]

My behavior back then probably drove her to someone, who in comparison, is way worse than anything I ever did. I feel bad about it.

I don't think you do. Because if you did, you'd learn to leave her the fuck alone and stop making her feel uncomfortable with your relentless stalking.

Don't you think Katie's got enough on her plate putting up with her emotionally negligent, perverted, lazy husband on top of watching her online footsteps because her demented ex is trying to use every avenue possible to contact her?

If I was in her position I'd be contemplating offing myself. I'm serious, Apparently she had a pretty shitty upbringing as well. She's got more fucking balls than you and Dave combined to have kept going.

You were very vague and avoidant with Cortizone's questions, which leads me to believe that yes, you are indeed guilty of the incidents mentioned but don't have the guts to own up to them fully.

Enjoy being alone, you sad sack.

 

[Cortizone]

She wants nothing to do with me.

Clearly. So, with that in mind, what do you get out of continuing to hassle her? Is it a power trip for you or something? A normal person attempting to contact someone from their past and being met with a block would logically assume "They must not want to talk to me" and get over it. Even if you stretch the realm of what's acceptable, assume the block was in error, and try again on another name just to be blocked there as well, how do you justify continuing beyond that? At this point you even admit she doesn't want to hear from you, so go away. Forget she ever existed like she's clearly been trying to do regarding you.


Yes, it is. I was 16 and stupid.

I could allow you this as we were all melodramatic assholes as teenagers. However, your behavior up to this point leads me to believe you have learned nothing and changed little (if at all). Fuck off.


There are two sides to every story. I've burned bridges with a few artists over the years.

So you've been offputting enough to make people no longer want to associate with you even on a strictly-business level. I had asked because I wondered if you focused this kind of obsessive creepiness exclusively on your ex or if this is just how you treat anyone who's halfway-decent to you on the internet. Get offline, and get help.


I never lied to anyone.

However, you DID think it was acceptable to take the character that represents a woman who wants nothing to do with you, pay people to draw pictures of your fursona fucking that character, and then post it online with the intention of her seeing it so you could proceed to make her resulting upset all about you?

Well, thank god you didn't LIE to anyone, at least.


My behavior back then probably drove her to someone, who in comparison, is way worse than anything I ever did. I feel bad about it.

Given, I've found myself in awe of some of the shit Dave has gotten away with regarding his marriage, I'm severely doubting that he's the greater evil in this scenario. Dave may be disgusting, but as far as I know, he at least is able to summon enough basic human decency to leave people alone who do not want contact with him. YOU, on the other hand, are honestly fucking scary.