Horrorcow DESMOND IS AMAZING / desmondisamazing / Wendylou, Andrew, & Desmond Napoles - Child being abused/sexualized by parents for financial gain, and fame.

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interalia

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That poor child is pumped full of drugs :stress:
Is Desmond underweight? As my comments in the brand new Deathfats forum can attest I am not a fan of how obesity is normalized in our society, but there is legitimate stuff to be said about how undereating is normalized in the fashion world, as well as how prevalent uppers are in the club world. I've seen Party Monster and I'm familiar with Alig, and influences like that seem to be the type to consciously teach kids disordered eating as a requirement for making it in the modelling world. Kids need to eat a comfortable surplus for growth and should naturally be a bit chubby cheeked.
 

JohnMc

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stuffandthings

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How is this allowed? I just watched a recent vid from him on Twitter and he clearly looks strung out on amphetamines or something. Apparently CPS has looked into this kid a bunch of times and report nothing. What is going on?
Get your kid diagnosed with ADHD and you can get the amphetamines for free!

Mommy says you need an extra dose today, because it's such a busy day. Tomorrow I'll let you sleep, promise.
 

JohnMc

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That poor child is pumped full of drugs :stress:
How is this allowed? I just watched a recent vid from him on Twitter and he clearly looks strung out on amphetamines or something. Apparently CPS has looked into this kid a bunch of times and report nothing. What is going on?
Because NY has become as retardedly Liberal as CA. Plus Shamu has her LGBT shielding as well.
 

JohnMc

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biledriver

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That poor boy's neck looks ridiculously thin. I think it's more likely that he doesn't eat much rather than (street) drugs--- but for some reason, I remember it being stated that he has ADD. Maybe he takes Adderall? I don't like implying that sort of thing without anything to back it up though. Just a guess. I agree with @interalia though, he's surrounded by influences that would kickstart an eating disorder in anyone remotely self conscious. Or perhaps he doesn't like to eat when under a lot of stress and pressure. Mummy doesn't seem very chill, despite her blunt insistence that she is.

Those are some of the most depressing pictures of a child at an amusement park I've ever seen. Jesus. For a while I've optimistically hoped that maybe, he does have real friends his age, they just don't want/aren't allowed to be in any photos that would be posted online. This set here practically confirms that he doesn't though. He seems like a nice kid.
It just occurred to me that even other Woke Parents (tm) and their indigo babies probably don't want to hang out because it always includes his mother. Or he does things that weird them out, because of his mother. (stress sigh) (:_(
 

biledriver

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Nobody that is chill ever says they are. I've never met a chill person that goes around telling people how chill they are.
Exactly my thought. Sorta like shouting about how straight you are probably implies some latent faggotry, she rants about how everything's JUST FUCKING FINE without any insight into how unhinged and defensive she sounds. This whole deal is unfortunately Freudian and gross.
 

Fullmetal Autist

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I have just read this thread. The video of Desmond in the park talking about he was attacked was really disturbing to me. Video is scripted (you can see he reads from a paper on the table at his lower left). He does not seem comfortable or confident in this situation for a number of reason


1. Desmond often looks off to the side of the camera on his right, likely where his parent(s) sitting, for confirmation after speaking—he looks down (at script) and to hide that he is reading, fills this time with some hand movements and filler like “um” or “like”, and then he looks up and to his right when he is trying to focus on saying the script correctly. After this he always looks back to the camera to make sure his mother approves of how he said it. When he says “what else, what else, let me make sure I got everything” each time, he is referring back to the script to check the next talking point (you can see him do this, at 5:54, 6:30, 7:28 ). Towards the end of the video you can see him really relying on what is written on the script, and coughing to cover up the fact that he’s reading lines (this starts at 8:41, that he’s clearly reading directly off the script, until the end of the video).


Starting at 2 minutes of the video, you can see JUST how heavily Desmond references the script.

-Particularly at 2:20, he says “you should be ashamed of yourself.” Then he looks to the script, and reads off “you know what’s abusive? My parents forcing me to do sports when I don’t like sports, that’s abusive.” And then he looks to the camera, likely so he can read his mother’s expression and look for approval.

-He uses words like “right?” and other affirming-type questions, looking at the camera/person filming for confirmation: (about forcing him to do sports being abusive) he asks “that’s like an example I guess, right? That’s a pretty good example.”

-2:49, speaks and then looks down at the script, starts the new topic of how he won’t be able to get a job and will have to work for $15 an hour; he says he is “nervous” because of the hate online, but he is smiling while he says this, which makes it come off like he is just reciting.


2. I see that his mother is conditioning him to feel attacked by the public—at 3:50, “your hate comments are causing this” or “you’re causing my dream to go down the toilet”, are scripted phrases Desmond’s mother has written, not only so her son can reiterate the feelings about having her parenting criticized, BUT most importantly to condition Desmond into believing that everyone hates him (except mom), everyone is trying to make him fail (except mom), and everyone WANTS him to fail (except mom) so he BETTER succeed or else everything falls apart, and this would prove those haters right, meaning he really is all these bad things…this rhetoric is being used to brainwash Desmond and it is an abusive technique.

A good parent would say to him that no matter what others say he needs to view himself positively and have a sense of self. But instead she is making him believe concretely, through having him profess this in a script and film it, that his worth is based in whatever comments people say about him. So she is priming him to not have stable sense of self and to need confirmation/permission from others that he is Good…mom will always offer him this confirmation, and he will thus not be able to separate from her, his self-image is too dependent on her. The mother is imparting her own low self-esteem, paranoia and fear of persecution onto Desmond. I would not be surprised if she has some kind of psychological disorder, and that we are watching in real time a stunning example of how mental illness is behaviorally inherited.

At 4:50, he talks about how his mom is “not a stage mom because she’s like, scared of the stage” and you can tell he looks happier here somehow? Totally in contrast to the rest of this video, there is almost a real joy in his face when he talks about his mom, to his mom. She probably has a very positive reaction whenever she hears Desmond talking about her in a positive light (or at least the light she wants to see herself in), as she is likely a narcissist, she would use her child to boost her own self-esteem…we have seen her do this in many ways already, by making Desmond into the person she wishes she was when she was a teenager (probably giving him the life she always thought she wanted since her own childhood, so by definition a stage mom). Desmond gets pleasure and reassurance from buffering his mom’s ego, because he sees that it makes her genuinely happy.

3. Real issue, is that Desmond should not have to address these things, especially online for everyone to see. He should not have to say the word “pedophile”, “prostitute” or “rape” in defending himself, let alone being informed of all this drama online that has to do with the mother, not with him. The criticism are directed to her, not Desmond, they are accusing her of mistreating her child. These negative comments should clearly not be shown or addressed to Desmond if they have the words “pedophile”, “prostitute”, and “rape” in them. They are clearly. Addressed. To. The. Mother. Desmond is 12 years old…he is clearly uncomfortable in just saying these words, I imagine he feels awful and scared with his mom explaining the meaning of these words and forcing him to form an opinion on those things. She should be protecting her child from that kind of knowledge, not sharing the hate comments she gets with her young son. This strikes me as a type of covert incest, when the parent relies too much on the child as a friend/therapist for their problems, involving them in adult issues that are clearly no place for children. The mother has used Desmond as a shield for the criticism she knows she will get, hoping that he will be able to deflect it because he is an innocent child.

Desmond says, “why are people calling CPS and ACS-- or whatever it’s called, I don’t know…” he definitely know what they are called, because he is probably old enough by now to understand, but even more because he has just read it from the sheet that his mom made for him. Again she is involving him on the side of this issues that aren’t for children to worry about. Further, Desmond is made to say that he’s not on drugs, and he takes “medicine” but is not on drugs… holy shit, look at the way his eyes dart around at this time as compared to the rest of the video. This is around 6:20.

4. Possibly the most disturbing and telling to me, of this video, is the following. After mentioning certain things, he suddenly gets distracted. It is especially worrying, though, that he does this right after saying that he’s never been raped or had sex (6:43), he starts looking up at the tree right after he says this and then he goes, “oh, I was just looking at a squirrel” before changing the topic to saying that people call him disgusting, and making some jokes about haters. The second time he gets distracted is at 7:57 where he interrupts what he is saying to say “oh hi squirrel!” when the squirrel runs past him. He was just saying how he is allowed to have a private life at home, at school, and with his friends, pauses and looks at the script, then says “yeah, it’s just not fun, like, having people do that to you…” and then he gets distracted by the squirrel. Then he continues saying that it’s not nice to have people say this stuff to him, he looks at the script, and reminds his fans that if they do see someone getting attacked that they should step in.


5. On Desmond’s speech: his impediment is not as bad as I assumed by reading this board, now that I have heard him speak in video. He speaks not like he is mentally delayed, but like he has little socialization with others his age since he was a YOUNG child. Children who are neglected or isolated by parents will probably speak like this. I knew a person who would literally devolve into a different voice, like baby speak, when they were around the abusive parent (up until young adulthood). Desmond may not always speak in this voice, but it is likely how he is comfortable speaking, when he addresses the public—possibly because this is the voice he uses with his mother, and it would make him feel safe.

People have said on this board, and in fact it has been documented by academics and practitioners, that the developmental delay caused by trauma can be so severe that it is nearly indistinguishable, at times, from the delay caused by genetic problems, high-level autism, or brain damage. I believe that the way he looks and acts is largely due to how he was raised and potential emotional distress he experiences, though this does not rule out brain damage because neglect/trauma can also cause physical brain damage (especially if it happened at a young age). It is because the neural pathways destroyed by trauma can be rebuilt, that I do have some hope for Desmond. But this is only if he is removed from the parents.

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He seems like a smart and perceptive kid beneath what is scripted here in his words and actions, he is aware that he is acting (you can tell from how often he looks to the side, to really think, before coming back and speaking something vapid and scripted)
As much as it is awful to say, I really hope he’s as uncomfortable as he seems in these videos at times, because that would be a sign that he’s aware something is wrong with how his parents treat him. Whether intentional or not on Desmond’s part, I can see nonverbal cries for help throughout just this video. But I also see him getting more comfortable with this sassy, aggressive character that his mother created for him, a horrible way of speaking that truly reminds me of those 2010’s preteens like Jessi Slaughter, even Bad Bhabie etc., who would go online unsupervised, and make videos cursing out the public and acting “tough.” Most teens will go through that phase but it is so important that the parents don’t encourage it. For Desmond it’s as if his mom is not just encouraging, but FORCING it. She is turning him into a nasty, defensive person if she truly imparts this way of thinking onto her son. It is already being normalized by him because it is the way she acts, and the child learns most early ways of behaving “appropriately” based on how people act in the family at home—even MORE so, if the child is not sent to school or otherwise socially/behaviorally isolated, and instead presented with socially inappropriate behavior as the norm—as it seems Desmond has been.



Sorry that the post is so long. Probably has been said before on this thread, a lot of the things I mentioned above already. The New York CPS are useless, and though others on this thread have said it is not so easy to homeschool/take your child out of regular school in the US, I have to say unfortunately it is very easy to do this is you are determined--ESPECIALLY in New York State. If the child attends just enough school they will not be in trouble, as long as the authorities views the parents/homelife as "acceptable" (aka a majority group, like Caucasian, and if they are "upper middle class" as Desmond's family). Something should be done about the educational neglect first, by authority, but I do not think they will do anything.




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