Horrorcow DESMOND IS AMAZING / desmondisamazing / Wendylou, Andrew, & Desmond Napoles - Child being abused/sexualized by parents for financial gain, and fame.

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Trig.Point

I wouldn't start from here.
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I don't care about the kicking, and I'm sure a lot of people here really do want to document this stuff in case the child ever wants to prove it happened and talk about it from a social perspective, it's just conspicuous to have a 10 year old or whatever on a site meant to mock selfish adults
The title of the thread anchors the whole thing on his mother, the subtitle makes it clear who's actually responsible.
Child being abused/sexualized by parents for financial gain, and fame.
 

Fullmetal Autist

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I don't care about the kicking, and I'm sure a lot of people here really do want to document this stuff in case the child ever wants to prove it happened and talk about it from a social perspective, it's just conspicuous to have a 10 year old or whatever on a site meant to mock selfish adults
It does feel a bit tricky to understand. I see where your view comes from. Although the real "cows" in this situation are the parents, people are still making fun of Desmond's account, and by extension Desmond. The reason people will suggest you to read the whole thread or OP, is because it will show that most people on this board are more concerned for Desmond/mad at Wendy than they are making fun of Desmond himself. A sane person realizes that anything Desmond does will be effects of the abuse/pimping from Wendy. So his behaviors are less funny, and more sad, because of what it reflects. Thus why they would name this board "horrorcow."

Someone else had said to read the Schofield thread, it is extremely long but you may simply like to read the first post in that thread. Maybe it is counter intuitive, but I think many people (myself included) participate in such threads, or make them, in order to bring light an unfortunate situation--so that it can be helped the victims. In Schofield case particularly, I don't doubt that certain social media postings documented/archived on the Farms were helpful when it came to spreading awareness about Susan Schofield.

That is just my opinion, anyway. I think there is a lot of things on this site that stand out from each other, and different types of people/different intentions with every thread. But I have learned this from lurking some time, and from posting a bit. It is not something so apparent when you first meet the site.

ETA:
Is that like Cuties being a sophisticated critique of child sexualization?
No, it would be more like a blog that talks about how Cuties is a sexually exploitative film, and shows some pictures or dialogue from the film as evidence to make their case.
 

PolexiaAphrodisia

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No, it would be like a blog dedicated to each child actor with extensive clips of every appearance they made anywhere
...no. It would include clips of the times they were sexualized in the movies. Clips of random other appearances wouldn't have to do with the theme of "these children were sexualized in Cuties/Mignonnes".

Desmond's "amazing" persona, his whole media presence, is an ONGOING sexual and emotional exploitation. So yes there are a lot of photos and videos here, because it's all examples of how his persona has become sexualized and inappropriate.

You seem more concerned with us removing the videos and photos than with what is really happening to Desmond. If I were a tinfoil hat Kiwi I would think you're someone on Piggylou's side sent to do some "infiltrating" garbage.
 

Slowboat to China

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Nobody here wants Desmond hurt. The parents are the ones being discussed and criticized. Things like Desmond's makeup and wardrobe are, I think, legitimate topics of discussion--as indicators that these aren't things he's choosing on his own. If the kid was really passionate about drag, we'd see him experimenting, improving, trying lots of things. Instead, he's clearly being used as a surrogate or clotheshorse by his mother, and the makeup and costumes reflect that.

And not to add to the autism pileup, but yeah, count me for one more on the "kids who played dressup across gender lines" thing. I distinctly remember arguing with my brothers over who got to wear the old Army helmets when we played war in the backyard. A little messing around is one thing, and I think a lot of imaginative kids do it, particularly if it's a mixture of boys and girls. Desmond could have gotten into his mom's makeup or wardrobe once or twice ... and she decided to run with it, and here we are. Poor kid.
 

Tasty Tatty

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Even if Desmond does enjoy doing drag (he obviously doesn’t), none of the outfits he is being forced to wear by his mother are ever age appropriate or look like something a modern child would enjoy wearing. He is always dressed as some cheap 90s crackwhore (..)
I think the most in your face example is the American Horror Story picture.

The show actually has a trans character, a man who enjoyed dressing as a woman and later adopted the full identity and called himself "Liz Taylor".

But no, Desmond was dressed as Sally, the actual cheap 90s crackwhore of the show, the one that ended up killing her two friends during a self-induced heroin trip in the middle of an orgy and then was raped by a demon with a drill-shaped penis as a punishment, the one I'm sure Wendy would have love to hang out with or be herself.

I don't know what's worst in this situation, that she dressed her child as Sally because she thinks she's cool or that Desmond actually asked this...
 

Thanatos

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I think the most in your face example is the American Horror Story picture.

The show actually has a trans character, a man who enjoyed dressing as a woman and later adopted the full identity and called himself "Liz Taylor".

But no, Desmond was dressed as Sally, the actual cheap 90s crackwhore of the show, the one that ended up killing her two friends during a self-induced heroin trip in the middle of an orgy and then was raped by a demon with a drill-shaped penis as a punishment, the one I'm sure Wendy would have love to hang out with or be herself.

I don't know what's worst in this situation, that she dressed her child as Sally because she thinks she's cool or that Desmond actually asked this...
I genuinely thought Piggylou was trolling us (and all her critics) when she dressed Desmond as a literal 90s crackwhore. It’s as if she’s aware people are on to her, but also knows she is getting away with it and is flaunting it.
 

gaystoner

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For the record, this is the monster that raped Sally, the character Desmond dressed as:

The quote was "I love her story" in reference to the AHS batshit insane Trans character. The familiarity with the subject and obvious lack of boundaries makes me believe Desmond has seen most if not ALL seasons of AHS as they potentially premiered. I guess this is my projection of thought but i feel like Wendy went "its just like Goosebumps" and exposes her child to M rated content.

For comparison this scared the literal shit out of me when I was 8


Desmond was marching in pride parades already and making a GMA appearence by 11. Hes probably seen AHS.
 

ChaChaHeels:BlackOnes

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Call me a conservative if you like but IMO the only way a preteen should be watching 18* rated horror movies is behind their parents back.

I’m not stupid enough to believe that everyone strictly follows the ratings (I’m ancient so used to have to get older looking friends to rent 18 rated video tapes for me) but your parents enabling and encouraging exposure to adult material causes additional fuck ups to the developing brain. Knowing you are viewing something your parents wouldn’t want you to watch insulates you from accepting demon-rape (and by extension, non-demon rape) as normal.
Paedophiles often start out the grooming process by showing underage kids pornography. The kids are naturally inquisitive, if a bit scared and the adult encouragement fucks with their ability to reject it (or to eventually discover a version of it that works for them as an individual, because the early exposure is tied up with it’s relationship to an abusive adult).
The allegations made against Michael Jackson are a clear example of this.

It works with other stuff too - kids sometimes shoplift, that’s a relatively normal thing to do when you are young and the impulse control part of your brain hasn’t developed yet. If an adult uses you as part of stealing-to-order organised crime shoplifting gang, the likelihood of growing out of the natural phase and developing proper, healthy adult impulse control diminishes.

So a little boy in lipstick and a feather boa is a normal phase that most kids will just grow out of - what happens to the brain when your mum makes you keep wearing that feather boa way beyond the normal stage of development, and makes you globally famous for wearing it?

Sadly, the answer to that question is only going to become apparent by watching Desmond in the coming years.

Personally, I‘d like to see him eventually come out as straight, marry a woman thinner and significantly more attractive than his mother and moving to the suburbs under a new name, getting a job in accountancy or property surveying etc.
Not because I’m a homophobe but because there is no better way to get revenge on an abusive, overbearing parent than by rejecting everything they tried to teach you and being happy and successful in your own quiet way.
The most effective way to rebel against Wendy is by being as boring as fuck (and by being financially stable enough to raise your own family but not having enough to keep crazy momma afloat as well).

*AHS Hotel episodes are a mix of 15 and 18 age ratings
 

gaystoner

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Call me a conservative if you like but IMO the only way a preteen should be watching 18* rated horror movies is behind their parents back.

I’m not stupid enough to believe that everyone strictly follows the ratings (I’m ancient so used to have to get older looking friends to rent 18 rated video tapes for me) but your parents enabling and encouraging exposure to adult material causes additional fuck ups to the developing brain. Knowing you are viewing something your parents wouldn’t want you to watch insulates you from accepting demon-rape (and by extension, non-demon rape) as normal.
Paedophiles often start out the grooming process by showing underage kids pornography. The kids are naturally inquisitive, if a bit scared and the adult encouragement fucks with their ability to reject it (or to eventually discover a version of it that works for them as an individual, because the early exposure is tied up with it’s relationship to an abusive adult).
The allegations made against Michael Jackson are a clear example of this.

It works with other stuff too - kids sometimes shoplift, that’s a relatively normal thing to do when you are young and the impulse control part of your brain hasn’t developed yet. If an adult uses you as part of stealing-to-order organised crime shoplifting gang, the likelihood of growing out of the natural phase and developing proper, healthy adult impulse control diminishes.

So a little boy in lipstick and a feather boa is a normal phase that most kids will just grow out of - what happens to the brain when your mum makes you keep wearing that feather boa way beyond the normal stage of development, and makes you globally famous for wearing it?

Sadly, the answer to that question is only going to become apparent by watching Desmond in the coming years.

Personally, I‘d like to see him eventually come out as straight, marry a woman thinner and significantly more attractive than his mother and moving to the suburbs under a new name, getting a job in accountancy or property surveying etc.
Not because I’m a homophobe but because there is no better way to get revenge on an abusive, overbearing parent than by rejecting everything they tried to teach you and being happy and successful in your own quiet way.
The most effective way to rebel against Wendy is by being as boring as fuck (and by being financially stable enough to raise your own family but not having enough to keep crazy momma afloat as well).

*AHS Hotel episodes are a mix of 15 and 18 age ratings

Hotel is like one of the hardest Horror Stories to stomach regardless of ratings. I did eventually convince my Mom to watch The Haunting at a young age...the Haunting seems so mild to even one episode of AHS
 

Fullmetal Autist

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Hotel is like one of the hardest Horror Stories to stomach regardless of ratings. I did eventually convince my Mom to watch The Haunting at a young age...the Haunting seems so mild to even one episode of AHS
Honestly...call me old fart, but for someone who just turned 13, I don't think any seasons of AHS are appropriate. Not because of the gore, but because of the shit like rape, incest, school shootings, sexual deviancy, human experiments...I mean, I can't think of a season of that show that doesn't have at least ONE topic, that is totally unsuited for under 15's no matter how you spin it. Watching behind parents back is one thing, like the other user said, but something with these themes I would NEVER show to a child Desmond's age and be like, "see? this is good and cool."

I just hope Desmond hasn't seen the other seasons of AHS...I didn't seen Hotel, but I know the first four seasons are not for children in any way.
 

Thanatos

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The most effective way to rebel against Wendy is by being as boring as fuck (and by being financially stable enough to raise your own family but not having enough to keep crazy momma afloat as well).
It’s too bad Fat Whore Wendy most likely pissed away all of Desmond’s savings from his “Drag Kid” appearances and he will have to start from scratch once he reaches adulthood.
 

AnOminous

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Call me a conservative if you like but IMO the only way a preteen should be watching 18* rated horror movies is behind their parents back.
I agree in general too not just because of the implications in this thread but because they were a lot more fun to watch when you knew you weren't allowed to.
 

LesbianSleepoverParty

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Honestly...call me old fart, but for someone who just turned 13, I don't think any seasons of AHS are appropriate. Not because of the gore, but because of the shit like rape, incest, school shootings, sexual deviancy, human experiments...I mean, I can't think of a season of that show that doesn't have at least ONE topic, that is totally unsuited for under 15's no matter how you spin it. Watching behind parents back is one thing, like the other user said, but something with these themes I would NEVER show to a child Desmond's age and be like, "see? this is good and cool."

I just hope Desmond hasn't seen the other seasons of AHS...I didn't seen Hotel, but I know the first four seasons are not for children in any way.
It's like every season they try to find a way to be even more fucked up and gruesome. Which is fine, but it's not appropriate for preteens.
 

Thanatos

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Anyone else find it ironic that this event Desmond was honored in is presented by a children's Health Care company?
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Why does Fat Whore Wendy keep using that photo to promote Desmond? He looks freakishly ghoulish and practically unrecognizable. It's probably one of his worst pictures, and that really says something.
 

Mrs Paul

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Now I really want to start watching AHS. ( And isn't that the dude who played all those weird killers on Law & Order?)
 

gaystoner

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It's like every season they try to find a way to be even more fucked up and gruesome. Which is fine, but it's not appropriate for preteens.
AHS is good tv...just not at all for kids.
Why does Fat Whore Wendy keep using that photo to promote Desmond? He looks freakishly ghoulish and practically unrecognizable. It's probably one of his worst pictures, and that really says something.
...that doesnt seem healthy. Kids should look forward to growing up and changing.
 
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