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So 23 Male here. Since a long time I've been dating this superb girl. She's funny, intelligent, attractive and so on. I'm truly having a blast with her.

Now I knew beforehand she was pre-op, something that didn't bother me much, until we had our first time. I'm a bit disgusted by myself to allow myself to be so affected by this.

Thing is I've always been a little insecure about my penis size, but never to the point like I feel now. She has a bigger penis, which wouldn't be such a problem if the difference between us was small. But it isn't; she a lot bigger than me, which sort of makes me feel emasculated...

I know it's all on me! I shouldn't be so affected by it but it simply does. I was wondering if people have similar experiences...

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So 23 Male here. Since a long time I've been dating this superb girl. She's funny, intelligent, attractive and so on. I'm truly having a blast with her.

Now I knew beforehand she was pre-op, something that didn't bother me much, until we had our first time. I'm a bit disgusted by myself to allow myself to be so affected by this.

Thing is I've always been a little insecure about my penis size, but never to the point like I feel now. She has a bigger penis, which wouldn't be such a problem if the difference between us was small. But it isn't; she a lot bigger than me, which sort of makes me feel emasculated...

I know it's all on me! I shouldn't be so affected by it but it simply does. I was wondering if people have similar experiences or have thoughts and ideas that can help me build confidence.

I don't want to ask her really, she has enough dysphoria as is. I don't think putting this on her is A) fair and B) helpful.
 
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So 23 Male here. Since a long time I've been dating this superb girl. She's funny, intelligent, attractive and so on. I'm truly having a blast with her.

Now I knew beforehand she was pre-op, something that didn't bother me much, until we had our first time. I'm a bit disgusted by myself to allow myself to be so affected by this.

Thing is I've always been a little insecure about my penis size, but never to the point like I feel now. She has a bigger penis, which wouldn't be such a problem if the difference between us was small. But it isn't; she a lot bigger than me, which sort of makes me feel emasculated...

I know it's all on me! I shouldn't be so affected by it but it simply does. I was wondering if people have similar experiences or have thoughts and ideas that can help me build confidence.

I don't want to ask her really, she has enough dysphoria as is. I don't think putting this on her is A) fair and B) helpful.
You are not dating a girl you see, you are dating a dude that's your problem. Go out with a real woman so you wont encounter any penises.
 

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You are not dating a girl you see, you are dating a dude that's your problem. Go out with a real woman so you wont encounter any penises.
I had a relationship with a post op girl(she had had srs a few months before we met) and I have a micropenis. It's like one inch big and less than 3 inches erect. When we had sex she was dominant and got on top while I laid there. She would tell me how pretty I am and stuff like that. She put my tiny dick inside her and never said a bad thing about how small I was. She loved me. She knew I was intersex. But I felt kind of weird because I was concerned if she was going to be satisfied. But she was! She literally jumped up and down after we had sex. We both lost our virginity lol. I guess size doesn't matter because she was crazy about me.

In your case I can understand because I was embarrassed and afraid for someone to see me naked. I was also born with only one testicle. So basically half of normal. But it's not like this is your fault or my fault. It just happened. I was never manly or anything like that so I've always liked being small down there. It makes wearing panties easy. No tucking! But I still didn't like others to see it and I've had doctors embarras me to my face,"wow you're very small and what happened to your other nut"? That was actually said to me by a doctor when he gave me a hernia check!
 

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Well does it?
If you're a top, then it doesn't matter so much. Just put the thing in a chastity cage and forget about it. Unlocking her every so often if she's a good girl is also a fantastic way to help her develop Stockholm syndrome if that's your thing.
If you're a bottom, then bigger is actually better.
 

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No, you could have a tube of tennis balls hanging down and if you believe its feminine, it is. Lets not body shame each other for things we can't control <3
 

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So, bio women can "grow" penises apparently. Women bodybuilders who take a lot of testosterone sometimes see a lot of growth in their clitoris to the point where it actually becomes a chode. No, I'm not shitting you.

How about that trannys? REAL feminine penises!
 
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