Privilege and agency are linked. If you have privilege, your failings are your fault. If you lack privilege, you also lack agency, therefore your failings are not your fault and the world must change to suit you.I also still get a big kick out of the fact that HAES/FA bullshit is for fat women only. Fat guys need not apply. Maybe if they’re on the LGBTQ+ spectrum and that is a big, fat maybe. So for all the talk about beauty standards, at the end of the day it’s about fat girls not wanting to be with fat guys, a supreme irony if I ever saw one.