Fetishes - Where do they come from? Are they harmful? Who really cares?

Why? (obligatory cancerous poll)

  • Sexual liberation & degeneracy

    Votes: 12 34.3%
  • Childhood exposure

    Votes: 16 45.7%
  • They just wanna be edgy n contrarian

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • They're actually trolls just pretending to be retarded

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Other

    Votes: 7 20.0%

  • Total voters
    35

Never Scored

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If it's something that can realistically be done between two consenting adults and it's not difficult to find a willing partner, I think fetishes are perfectly fine.

If you're into licking your wife's feet or asshole or she's into you pissing on her or something, you're probably fine. If you're into something that can't realistically be done outside cartoons like eating people whole or that drives all potential partners away like cuckoldry or full on poly shit, you're probably fucked in the head.

Just keep it to yourself though, god damn. If your wife shoves a dildo up your ass and you both like it and have a healthy marriage otherwise, good for you, but I don't understand why you have the urge to tell everyone.
 

Terrifying Organisms

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Gary Wilson believes that a lot of fetishes come from our need to seek novelty and variety, which is extremely easy to do with high quality, free porn that now includes basically any and all of the weirdest shit you can think up.

He says that having a pull to the same video over and over again you become desensitised. Same thing with categories. If you watch 30 hand jobs, you're going to want to see what foot jobs might be like. Eventually you're jerking off to trans-furry shit and you can't understand how you could ever possibly have this 'ingrained' or 'intrinsic' 'fetish'.
 

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Dwight Schrute

Murder, not mukduk.
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One fetish I've seen floating around is inflation? Fattening? Whatever the fuck it's called. Basically you feed a bitch paste and make them puff up like a balloon.

But that doesn't come near as fucked up as vore. Holy shit, is vore something of a maniac's dreams.
 

Cactus Wings

Coughing for Cash
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A lot of fetishes boil down to power balance, even vore. You force someone down your dick to become your semen, somehow. Of course that's to do with dominance or "look, you became the passion-toy of someone inferior" or whatever. My only real gripe with vore is that whenever I've met a decent person into it, it's all they're into. Not sex, not dicks, not women, only eating people and being "uwu soft" about it.
One fetish I've seen floating around is inflation? Fattening? Whatever the fuck it's called. Basically you feed a bitch paste and make them puff up like a balloon.

But that doesn't come near as fucked up as vore. Holy shit, is vore something of a maniac's dreams.
Knew this one faggot who's first sexual experience was him trying to shive a bike pump up his friends ass hoping it'd inflate them. While it's very possible to noticeably inflate a stomach, not with a fucking bike pump.
 

Dwight Schrute

Murder, not mukduk.
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Knew this one faggot who's first sexual experience was him trying to shive a bike pump up his friends ass hoping it'd inflate them. While it's very possible to noticeably inflate a stomach, not with a fucking bike pump.
Jesus Christ, please tell me you're joking.
 

Jewelsmakerguy

Domo Arigato
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Knew this one faggot who's first sexual experience was him trying to shive a bike pump up his friends ass hoping it'd inflate them. While it's very possible to noticeably inflate a stomach, not with a fucking bike pump.
Fucking what? Did he read a bunch of Dobson comics before coming to that decision?
 

Just a fag

the AGP of it all
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A lot of fetishes boil down to power balance, even vore. You force someone down your dick to become your semen, somehow. Of course that's to do with dominance or "look, you became the passion-toy of someone inferior" or whatever. My only real gripe with vore is that whenever I've met a decent person into it, it's all they're into. Not sex, not dicks, not women, only eating people and being "uwu soft" about it.
it's also something to remember that the word fetish comes from an item or object thought to have magical properties or to be used in rituals. bringing up the power balance you mentioned, sometimes I wonder if the persons engaging in their fetish subconsciously view it as a way to dehumanize their subject and merely "use" them, like you would an item or object; their singular purpose being to be used as a source of pleasure and nothing more.
 

The Demon Pimp of Razgriz

Still Pimpin
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it's also something to remember that the word fetish comes from an item or object thought to have magical properties or to be used in rituals. bringing up the power balance you mentioned, sometimes I wonder if the persons engaging in their fetish subconsciously view it as a way to dehumanize their subject and merely "use" them, like you would an item or object; their singular purpose being to be used as a source of pleasure and nothing more.
I've thought about that too, but I probably wouldn't go that far. I think most fetishes are just sexual targeting disorders, in that people have gone through some kind of event or trauma leading to them focusing their sexual arousal at non-sexual things, like feet, or they are drawn to something that is tied to sexuality but they've become fixated on it in a way outside the norm.
 

I Love Beef

お前わもう。。。。。満でるー!!!!
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I'm into some serious shit, but I'll say this:

If you are into a potentially harmful and dangerous fetish because you wish to do that for a sexual activity but can't in reality, you need your head checked. If you lust over realistic projection through images and portrayals than pick it up to be turned on with what is merely shown and digest it with your own creativity and imagination along with your libido, you need your head checked and priorities straightened. If you can't discern reality from fiction, congratulations, you're a lolcow, see you soon. If you plan on hoping to do said harmful and dangerous fetishes onto others in the future, I hope you are offed for the sake of the human race. If you feel you can't get with anyone other than under the age of consent, congratulations, you're a pedo, go die somewhere far away.

I'm sure what I am into that turns me on is more in line with the term aphrodisiac than fetish, now that I think about it, but that's a discussion on its own. I powerleveled somewhere, but that's a scavenger hunt you'll have to do on your own as well.
 

Malagor the dank omen

Drakwald's most coveted goat
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One fetish I've seen floating around is inflation? Fattening? Whatever the fuck it's called. Basically you feed a bitch paste and make them puff up like a balloon.

But that doesn't come near as fucked up as vore. Holy shit, is vore something of a maniac's dreams.
Feederism. It's a fetish about feeding a woman to such a degree that she cannot even wipe her ass without someone's help.

Personally, i don't get how people get into some serious fucked up shit like armpits or feet, or even more fucked up stuff like inflation, vore or furry stuff. May be a trauma, may be some event in their childhood... But unless i get the full story, i cannot wrap my head around them.

As for me, i'm too degenerate for vanilla people but too vanilla for proper degenerates.
 

Sigma

Eighteen Inches
True & Honest Fan
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I think there are maybe two types of fetishes. Ones that awaken as a kid and ones that maybe show up later. I'm quite sure that if it manifested as a kid, it's more likely to stick around permanently. Other fetishes might be more so about mixing things up, as far as I know? I don't have much experience regarding it besides personal experience however.
 

annoyingfuck

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sometimes I wonder if the persons engaging in their fetish subconsciously view it as a way to dehumanize their subject and merely "use" them, like you would an item or object; their singular purpose being to be used as a source of pleasure and nothing more.
'girldick' anyone?
 
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