I order 3x. I then completely refashion it into a flowy tank top or short dress. There are lot of videos online about turning mens into womens. Find what style you want first so you know what size to order. It has less to do with YOUR size and more with how much material is needed to create what you want. For anything good, you have to sew but there are some no sew options.I get them a size bigger than I am in women's sizes, or at least big enough to fit chest and hips, and then take the side seams in where it's baggy at the waist, that usually does the trick.