Agreed 100. Rolling over on a floor mattress won't cut it. (or maybe it will.)The smartest thing is for her to hire a in home nurse for healing. The incision is not a joke and I can't see Becky properly caring for her.
The only problem is that Amber WILL NOT relinquish control, no matter the relationship. She had problems growing up in foster care, snuck food, defied rules. She resents that period in her life and was able to run free with youtube. A nurse would be great for Amber, but left to her own devices she is going to develop a case of "too dainty/allergic.to diet, can't eat unless 'good' food" real quick.