RMQualtrough
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I don't have any attitude.What I argued was quite possibly the opposite of egocentric. I’m saying you’re being egoist by assigning everyone your pessimistic outlook on life.
You don’t know what these people who lived these horrible, awful lives thought of their situations. Maybe they found respite in their awful situations and were able to be content in the end. I’ve been to countries where running water was rare, yet people managed to overlook the fact most basic necessities were basically luxuries and find a way to be content.
Your definition of “bad” is purely subjective. What may be a fucked existence for you may be a state of absolute euphoria for someone else. You’re coming in here with your doomer attitude and just assuming everyone who doesn’t have it as good as you do is wallowing in their own misery so you can feel better about your shit attitude. I’m sorry to tell you that you’re wrong. Most people in relatively bad situations would disagree with your assessment and think existence holds more good than bad.
Because perspective is subjective, the situation people are in is fully mental. Generally because of the way we are made, people in shitty situations tend to not have good lives as a general rule (but there are exceptions of well off people like Robin Williams). Because of this, many parents will not have a child if that child has a high chance of being born seriously deformed or disabled.
Why if people in such situations are magically happy would anyone ever choose to do that? From that unborn child's perspective, existence never exists. And that is the decision most people make. Even happy disabled people tend to not have kids if they are told their child will have the same disease. Why? I thought they were super happy?
What is being proposed really, is that it's okay that some people (and animals) are born to endure suffering just so the lucky ones who get some level of joy from life can have that joy. From most people's perspective that is great and worth it because it is not them. But the negative spin on the heads/tails flip is not made equally.
If someone offered a coin flip chance at either living, say, 50 years of the rest of your life in constant never ending bliss, or 50 years in constant never ending pain and terror, not many people would flip the coin. Technically it is neutral because the extremes should balance, but they don't... Same with existence, it's a rigged flip.
If you and everyone you know in your family etc has an enjoyable existence, that does not mean existence itself is a positive. It just means you got lucky. You do not have to care about this, and actually it's irrelevant in real terms because preventing existence is impossible. So you can just live and die and be happy and w.e. you won the coin flip. This is a philosophical question and purely cerebral.