Here's a short anecdote: I know a dude who's average-looking at best, nerdy as hell, and went multiple years without a date. He met an equally dorky lady at a geeky social event, they hit it off, and they got married this year.
Also incels believe they should be drowning in pussy, they are not happy with only settling down! Only normies and betas do that! Chad gets 10 BJs per day, why can't they get it to?!