IRL Incels -

[BitchWhereMyHug?]

I've been interested in incels for a while, would love to hear you guys' irl accounts of incels and their behavior.

Mine is a younger guy I decided to take to a party this past semester of college. I took him since he seemed okay( we smoked weed together before) and he asked about hooking up with girls and game. We get there and there is a good 100+ people at this house so we make our way to a firepit in the backyard where we start talking to two girls and you know what his first line was after a simple introduction? "You've got really nice shoes, how about I get a kiss?" and with her awkward silence he storms off never to be seen again throughout the night. Was gymcell though so I wasn't trying to get my ass beat so I didn't say anything

 

[PostRegretStressDisorder]

I befriended someone who I found out posted on Wizardchan.

He was an IRL incel. Only got laid by paying for prostitutes. His parents were supposedly abusive to him so I let him live with me, only to find out that instead of paying me rent like we agreed to, he spent it all on heroin every chance he got.

I kicked him out in less than a week.

 

[Kevin Spencer]

I knew a guy years ago who never dated. Only got laid once. But yeah, never had a girlfriend. Was kind of an odd fellow too, so that might have factored in. His whole family was kinda off too. His father once asked his lesbian sisters girlfriend if she had any Portuguese in her, then followed up with “would you like some?”

 

[Monika H.]

Guy who was in my company of friends at university. He was the oldest of the company (24 years old when we were all between 18 and 21). Nice enough at first, but then started to act like he was to steal and swoon away everyone's girlfriend. Creeped girls with his obsessive behavior (even mine who is already an off-putting and gloomy person herself), admitted while drunk that he was a virgin and it was all fault of the feminists.
Posted Facebook rants and rages whenever one of his friends got with someone.
Got invited to my (civil) marriage in last June and pulled off a really cringe scene, between all the idiotic jokes and the fact that he isolated himself mid post-ceremony party like a spoiled child would.
Did the same stunt at another's friend marriage with his knocked-up girlfriend, making thinly veiled jabs that we were all assholes who "stole" the "good girls" from him.
Needless to say, he's not being invited to another friend's marriage this July.

 

[BitchWhereMyHug?]

Guy who was in my company of friends at university. He was the oldest of the company (24 years old when we were all between 18 and 21). Nice enough at first, but then started to act like he was to steal and swoon away everyone's girlfriend. Creeped girls with his obsessive behavior (even mine who is already an off-putting and gloomy person herself), admitted while drunk that he was a virgin and it was all fault of the feminists.
Posted Facebook rants and rages whenever one of his friends got with someone.
Got invited to my (civil) marriage in last June and pulled off a really cringe scene, between all the idiotic jokes and the fact that he isolated himself mid post-ceremony party like a spoiled child would.
Did the same stunt at another's friend marriage with his knocked-up girlfriend, making thinly veiled jabs that we were all assholes who "stole" the "good girls" from him.
Needless to say, he's not being invited to another friend's marriage this July.

You would think that the level of self awareness he was operating on was that of a toddler. I see a common theme among incels, that is that they are usually narcissists without the accolades or appearance for the public to tolerate it.

 

[RG 448]

So I'll share an Incident my coworker, we will call her Steam, because she covered my shift on Friday because I was sick.

Steam is taller than me by a few inches, had waist length blonde hair, big brown eyes, blandly tanned skin, a face always resting in a bitchy look, big breasts, muscular, and long legged. She's not very bad looking to most of our customers and some of our workers. She's a very head strong woman who was working there longer than me and was the one who trained me in the job.

So the incel encounter happened last friday while our store was having a sale. Steam decided to cosplay the character Giriko from Soul Eater, the female version from the manga. This small detail is very important thanks to the fact that the character is somewhat unknown to people who don't read the manga, plus how she also attracts a certain neck beard.

Steam was standing by a store in our mall that was on the same floor as our store, this store was another neckbeard hot spot since it was a store with some popular anime, CDs, Movies, old TV shows, gaming cards, Gaming merch, etc. It was like a glorified comic store. But they were cool with our little store since Steam also works there as well. Naturally they let her come in to chat and share information about the sell. But Steam told me a lot of useless details but here is the neckbeard part of her story. Steam was about four or five hours into her shift and was talking to Cat Ears, the girl from the last power levelish story I shared, and that's when she meets a lovely neckbeard known around this comic store as Over Powered. So OP had came over to Cat Ears and Steam who were talking about how Cat Ears can get a job at our store; he blurts in with saying,
"Who are you supposed to be?"
"Me? I'm Steam, from [Insert Our Store Name] and I'm cosplaying Giriko from Soul Eater."
"No way! That's not even close to Giriko. Who are you actually cosplaying, M' Lady Steam?"
Steam at that point wasn't aware, she was used to being called M'Lady since it became a joke around our shop so she continued
"Giriko in the manga becomes a woman and I'm here to talk about a sale in my store where you can get a full manga set with the corresponding anime it has!"
"Yeah, how he turns into a woman is interesting! I really recommend reading the manga." Cat Ears piped up, helping Steam out as OP moved to actually acknowledge her. Steam describes his face as it growing dark red and his eyes lighting up with a creepy predator like light. It seemed like OP saw Cat Ears as a more formidable M' Lady instead of the bitchy faced Steam who probably could bench press the dude, her words not mine, and he started getting closer to Cat Ears.
"I shall read it, M' Lady, but whom may be the name of the gorgeous goddess that blessed me with her beautiful voice?"
This is when Steam realized this was a bad idea to talk to him.
"Cat Ears."
"M' Gorgeous Cat Ears, Can I ask you for your number?"
Steam had watched this guy close in to corner her in the small area until an old woman and a taller and more clean looking man called OP to come back to them.
Steam told me that she later found out that it was OP's mom and stepbrother who called him back; apparently he's done this multiple times before and mostly doing it to women who are smaller than him, nerdy, clearly weak, and very sweet looking. Cat Earsended up fitting that description while Steam didn't.

 

[Monika H.]

You would think that the level of self awareness he was operating on was that of a toddler. I see a common theme among incels, that is that they are usually narcissists without the accolades or appearance for the public to tolerate it.

Exactly. The guy was 24 and doing a CIKa type of course (junior course - you do it in 18 months, two years at max) and complained all the time he had been stuck in that course for three years.
Come on. I have never been a star student apart in History and Economics, but I started mine in October 2015 and finished it for Christmas 2016. And it wasn't just the same type of course - it was the same exact course.
Yet, he acted like the typical euphoric atheist/Smart Nice Guy. He always talked down to people while not even knowing what he was talking about.

 

[BitchWhereMyHug?]

So I'll share an Incident my coworker, we will call her Steam, because she covered my shift on Friday because I was sick.

Steam is taller than me by a few inches, had waist length blonde hair, big brown eyes, blandly tanned skin, a face always resting in a bitchy look, big breasts, muscular, and long legged. She's not very bad looking to most of our customers and some of our workers. She's a very head strong woman who was working there longer than me and was the one who trained me in the job.

So the incel encounter happened last friday while our store was having a sale. Steam decided to cosplay the character Giriko from Soul Eater, the female version from the manga. This small detail is very important thanks to the fact that the character is somewhat unknown to people who don't read the manga, plus how she also attracts a certain neck beard.

Steam was standing by a store in our mall that was on the same floor as our store, this store was another neckbeard hot spot since it was a store with some popular anime, CDs, Movies, old TV shows, gaming cards, Gaming merch, etc. It was like a glorified comic store. But they were cool with our little store since Steam also works there as well. Naturally they let her come in to chat and share information about the sell. But Steam told me a lot of useless details but here is the neckbeard part of her story. Steam was about four or five hours into her shift and was talking to Cat Ears, the girl from the last power levelish story I shared, and that's when she meets a lovely neckbeard known around this comic store as Over Powered. So OP had came over to Cat Ears and Steam who were talking about how Cat Ears can get a job at our store; he blurts in with saying,
"Who are you supposed to be?"
"Me? I'm Steam, from [Insert Our Store Name] and I'm cosplaying Giriko from Soul Eater."
"No way! That's not even close to Giriko. Who are you actually cosplaying, M' Lady Steam?"
Steam at that point wasn't aware, she was used to being called M'Lady since it became a joke around our shop so she continued
"Giriko in the manga becomes a woman and I'm here to talk about a sale in my store where you can get a full manga set with the corresponding anime it has!"
"Yeah, how he turns into a woman is interesting! I really recommend reading the manga." Cat Ears piped up, helping Steam out as OP moved to actually acknowledge her. Steam describes his face as it growing dark red and his eyes lighting up with a creepy predator like light. It seemed like OP saw Cat Ears as a more formidable M' Lady instead of the bitchy faced Steam who probably could bench press the dude, her words not mine, and he started getting closer to Cat Ears.
"I shall read it, M' Lady, but whom may be the name of the gorgeous goddess that blessed me with her beautiful voice?"
This is when Steam realized this was a bad idea to talk to him.
"Cat Ears."
"M' Gorgeous Cat Ears, Can I ask you for your number?"
Steam had watched this guy close in to corner her in the small area until an old woman and a taller and more clean looking man called OP to come back to them.
Steam told me that she later found out that it was OP's mom and stepbrother who called him back; apparently he's done this multiple times before and mostly doing it to women who are smaller than him, nerdy, clearly weak, and very sweet looking. Cat Earsended up fitting that description while Steam didn't.

Damn poor cat ears
But seriously who calls girls M'lady irl, should keep that to deviant art and reddit

 

[BitchWhereMyHug?]

Exactly. The guy was 24 and doing a CIKa type of course (junior course - you do it in 18 months, two years at max) and complained all the time he had been stuck in that course for three years.
Come on. I have never been a star student apart in History and Economics, but I started mine in October 2015 and finished it for Christmas 2016. And it wasn't just the same type of course - it was the same exact course.
Yet, he acted like the typical euphoric atheist/Smart Nice Guy. He always talked down to people while not even knowing what he was talking about.

Yeah ik exactly the type of guy you're talking about, my semi-estranged step brother who I havent seen in years is the same damn way. He used to walk around with a cane at 15 for the aesthetic with a fedora atop his greasy shoulder length hair.

 

[NOT Sword Fighter Super]

his first line was after a simple introduction? "You've got really nice shoes, how about I get a kiss?"

Sounds like somebody listens to Dick Masterson. Unfortunately, sounds like he also doesn't really understand the advice. I'm sure if he didn't storm right off, he would have asked her what he dad was like.

 

[kinglordsupreme19]

I guess I constitute a literal involuntary celibate, but that's not quite full inceldom. I like to think I have some quantity of self-awareness. The worst I ever got was a few awkward attempts to ask girls out. Never m'lady territory.

One story I do have was when I was at a meeting in a science-fiction literature club. I arrived and sat down, nervous since most people there were strangers, and here comes a seemingly normal dude 10 minutes late to the meeting; puffing and panting and in cycling gear. Cycling was common there, so I assumed he'd just arrived off his bike and hadn't had a chance to change. He seemed pretty normal, not fat or neckbearded, but then he proceeded to sit down and start removing his gear and then his shoes and socks. He got his bare feet out and then started putting them on the table next to me - he even had painted toenails. I was completely nonplussed and nobody else seemed to say anything, so I tried not to look or say anything. Then the conversation at the meeting turned to a book that he liked, and he talked in a monotonous tone that was sorapidthatyoucouldn'tdiscernindividualwords for around five whole minutes straight, and then fell silent and stared at the floor for ten minutes. At the end he started getting wincing at me and mumbling about how annoyed he was that not more people had voted for his book at the poll.

That one was pretty subtle, though. When I was a teenager I moved to a new school an hour away from home, and since I wasn't a social butterfly I fell into the back of the class with a nominally cool dude. Now you'd recognise him as a trademark incel, but back then he just seemed like a fat, slightly awkward, and earnest guy who liked manga, anime, and vidya. We just talked during breaks or register checks at the back of the class about games; a few weeks in out of the blue he starts talking about PKA stuff. I was nonplussed by it, so I just nodded along and waited for it to turn back to games. Then one week later he was gone from class and nobody seemed to know anything about him, and some people were regarding me with strange stares (a more SJW-y girl from the class approached me in the hall and said she'd keep her eye on me). After a month I found out the full story - apparently he got expelled because he started violently threatening another student and talking about some really fucked up shit during another class and had gotten overheard and was seemingly unrepentant about it. The school wasn't taking any chances (it was big, and they also were fairly respected and didn't want potential violence on their hands), so he got kicked out.

Another one is back from my university days. I used to attend some meetings for a club, and there was one guy who was pale, thin, with a scraggly beard, and strange-fitting clothing who seemed to be known and accepted there. He frequently approached the girls there and asked for a hug - most of them were uber-compassionate Christians, so they let him platonically hug them and pat them on the shoulder. He never went any further than that, but his conduct was weird and it infringed badly on the girls. At one point the club head stopped a talk midway through to tell him (politely) to stop and sit down, so I'm guessing he may have had behavioural problems that they knew about and were accommodating (again, uber-compassionate Christian types).

 

[Monika H.]

and with her awkward silence he storms off never to be seen again

 

[BitchWhereMyHug?]

Thought of another one I encountered. Not sure if he was an incel but I can assume no woman has or ever will let him near her vagina. So this guy, we're taking a class together, it's an intro class so there are a good bit of people there. He never really came to a class where attendance counted, but boy oh boy the day he did come in.

This fucker sits next to me of all people and the professor does her usual intro, "today we are going over chapter ____ , ect." and he leans over to me and says "I really wish this bitch would shut up." I did a lighthearted laugh to get him to leave me the fuck alone and he keeps mumbling to himself unintelligible shit I can't hear. So I think okay it's only an hour and he can't speak too loud while she's lecturing, so im safe.

WRONG

It's a class discussion day, and the discussion topic is, "Is it okay to use child labor from a village in Africa that permits it in their culture if you're an American business?" Well after a few normal responses the guy decides that he has a good answer for this moral conundrum. He says, "Well I would buy an AK-47 and kill all the villagers, and take their materials, because people are too dumb in Africa to have guns." The class goes silent and the professor has no clue wtf to say and before she can change the subject he chimes back up saying "Imagine killing all those people." I actually start getting scared this faggot is going to shoot up my class right then and there. Well he obviously didn't because I'm here typing this but for the remaining 15 minuets of class he goes on with his under the breath ramblings

 

[Gash Hound]

I remember back in highschool I knew a kid who was big into gaming & anime & conservative politics
- wore MLP shirts in public
- loved Glenn Beck and Alex Jones
- talked shit about liberals a lot
- room was wall to wall anime posters, cat girls, dirty dishes, and reeked like BO
- bad acne, pretty ponchy
- Anime profile picture on FB
- spent the night with a mutual friend just so he could steal the sister's panties
- generally condescending
Haven't talked to him since my freshman year of college, but im pretty sure that was the blueprint for an incel. His mom was fine
Cool kid underneath all the fag shit though, hope he's doing alright. it would bum me out big time to find out he was posting on incels.org or something

 

[SigSauer]

If you're ugly, just bang ugly women. Sure you can't bang models by virtue of your looks alone and obviously your personality is shit tier (see above) but you can still bang uglies, fatties, and crazies.

 

[Monika H.]

If you're ugly, just bang ugly women. Sure you can't bang models by virtue of your looks alone and obviously your personality is shit tier (see above) but you can still bang uglies, fatties, and crazies.

That's the bass, but as an average guy/toadman who has a pretty attractive wife, I can only say that it goes by chance, and I still can't believe my luck.
Long story short, if it happens it happens. It's just sheer chance on that.
That's why my friend incel/euphoric atheist hated me so much by the way.

 

[SigSauer]

That's the bass, but as an average guy/toadman who has a pretty attractive wife, I can only say that it goes by chance, and I still can't believe my luck.
Long story short, if it happens it happens. It's just sheer chance on that.
That's why my friend incel/euphoric atheist hated me so much by the way.

What I’m concerned about here is genetics. If you’re unattractive and you’re still managing to pick up all the good girls or if you just have shit genes and you somehow know how to find all the best pussy in town, then that’s a bad thing imo. Because you’re not spreading the best of genetics and you’re halting natural selection. I believe that the most attractive/intelligent/ should be selected to breed. I know of many incels who are intelligent or have a high iq, but are kinda geeks or loners.

Not everybody is meant for that. If you look at nature in particular wolves, you’ll notice that the Omega plays an important role in the pack structure. Note that I didn’t say beta, as incels aren’t betas. They help by allowing frustration to be vented out without actual acts of war breaking out, which would threaten the pack structure. So everybody of every class, be it alpha, omega or beta, plays their own role in the social hierarchy. Omegas have even been known to fight their way up the ranks.

EDIT: and one more thing that I left out. You can’t really help being an omega male. It’s something that you’re born into. In the same way how you’re born alpha. It’s something that is determined in your childhood. That’s what an Omega/Beta/Alpha is. Sure, it may be possible for an Omega to become a Beta provider, but you can’t go from being Omega to being Alpha. I’ve known of many guys who were Omega and tried to become Alpha/Chad by hitting the gym and focusing on their physical fitness, but even with their six packs and their muscular bodies on the inside they were still the same as they were before they got that gym membership; shy, socially awkward, introverted. The only attention they’d get from women was to simply be used (alpha women that is). The best you could go for as an Omega is to become a beta provider. That’s just how the hierarchy works.

I’m not shitting on betas/omegas/incels/introverts/loners/wwhatever, but that’s just how it is.

 

[Monika H.]

What I’m concerned about here is genetics. If you’re unattractive and you’re still managing to pick up all the good girls or if you just have shit genes and you somehow know how to find all the best pussy in town, then that’s a bad thing imo. Because you’re not spreading the best of genetics and you’re halting natural selection. I believe that the most attractive/intelligent/ should be selected to breed. I know of many incels who are intelligent or have a high iq, but are kinda geeks or loners.

Not everybody is meant for that. If you look at nature in particular wolves, you’ll notice that the Omega plays an important role in the pack structure. Note that I didn’t say beta, as incels aren’t betas. They help by allowing frustration to be vented out without actual acts of war breaking out, which would threaten the pack structure. So everybody of every class, be it alpha, omega or beta, plays their own role in the social hierarchy. Omegas have even been known to fight their way up the ranks.

Well, honestly, I've never had any other girl besides her, and I think it's more of a thing of chemistry since we get along so well and share a lot of passion and hobbies.
Talking of the incels, I don't think their problem lies with not being attractive and bad genes, but to their attitude in general.
They are generally entitled and demanding, without anything to offer in return.

 

[Gash Hound]

What I’m concerned about here is genetics. If you’re unattractive and you’re still managing to pick up all the good girls or if you just have shit genes and you somehow know how to find all the best pussy in town, then that’s a bad thing imo. Because you’re not spreading the best of genetics and you’re halting natural selection. I believe that the most attractive/intelligent/ should be selected to breed. I know of many incels who are intelligent or have a high iq, but are kinda geeks or loners.

Not everybody is meant for that. If you look at nature in particular wolves, you’ll notice that the Omega plays an important role in the pack structure. Note that I didn’t say beta, as incels aren’t betas. They help by allowing frustration to be vented out without actual acts of war breaking out, which would threaten the pack structure. So everybody of every class, be it alpha, omega or beta, plays their own role in the social hierarchy. Omegas have even been known to fight their way up the ranks.

EDIT: and one more thing that I left out. You can’t really help being an omega male. It’s something that you’re born into. In the same way how you’re born alpha. It’s something that is determined in your childhood. That’s what an Omega/Beta/Alpha is. Sure, it may be possible for an Omega to become a Beta provider, but you can’t go from being Omega to being Alpha. I’ve known of many guys who were Omega and tried to become Alpha/Chad by hitting the gym and focusing on their physical fitness, but even with their six packs and their muscular bodies on the inside they were still the same as they were before they got that gym membership; shy, socially awkward, introverted. The only attention they’d get from women was to simply be used (alpha women that is). The best you could go for as an Omega is to become a beta provider. That’s just how the hierarchy works.

I’m not shitting on betas/omegas/incels/introverts/loners/wwhatever, but that’s just how it is.

lol found the incel

 

[SigSauer]

lol found the incel

Is that Tariq Nasheed in your avi?