As crazy and as obnoxious as JDR can be, I can't ever get too mad at her because she seems mostly harmless (aside from the questionable tactics she recommends on trangender.org for people questioning their gender), and she's wildly creative, moreso than the majority of her critics. I'd much rather have a conversation with her than most of the people that go out of their way to troll her. She really is an internet legend.
Still there's a very good chance transgender.org has permanently ruined at least one young life.