I mean in general there is nothing funnier than an authoritarian far-left extremist trying to tell me he is a punk, right after trying to police what language im allowed to use.Why he's so desperate to make "now that's fucking punk" a thing 6 months after anyone cared about cyberpunk is such a mystery. Punk's been dead for at least 30 years and it was never a fat man in a wig crying that people didn't call him "miss", it was always a fat man in a wig saying "you don't think I'm a woman, fine. But i'm enough of a man to fuck you in the ass whether you want it or not"
The only "punk" thing about these people is that they look like a crackhead fell into a bunch of random paintbuckets. And since that has become the standard uniform for the far-left, it does not even have the same meaning as it used to be back when punk was still a thing.
Who would have thought playing "The emperors new clothes" with severely delusional people would not improve anything, least of all the lives of said delusional people ?You know, beyond the very dystopian aspect of living in a world where people will lie to your face to such a degree, this cocooning of non-passing trans' has a negative effect on all trans' people.
You are your own worst critic, that is true of most things for anyone who likes to do things well, and this goes for trans' people as well, many will be harsher with their passing than others. Of course, this is a natural human tendency and there are very logical reasons for that (You are "primed" to know you should in all likelihood look like the opposite sex, you know what flaws to look for, etc.), but where this gets vicious is that from the moment you become aware people can lie to you so blatantly, it is extremely hard to get out of this "I do not pass" box.
Because from that point on, how can you tell ? You can't really trust yourself because the self body image can get distorted hard (Just look at anorexic people), and it can be hard to tell from strangers you meet because you can not pass but still get treated as a woman (Case in point: Nobody would think Jim wants to be greeted as a man, and most people will thus greet him as a woman, but nobody would think he actually is female either), and now even people you should be able to rely on (And I don't mean your family or close friends, let's be real, you don't want to drop that bomb on someone you love, I mostly mean people from the trans' community, or internet community at large, who should know better) for the truth will not tell it to you.
You are left with no reliable reference point at all, and it is very destructive.
Calling Jim "mam" would be like "helping" a scizocow by spotting the gangstalkers with them.
It would be like acting like a suicidal person should really die because thats what they think is best for themselves.
Its not help at all. Its mercilessly stomping these people further down the rabbit hole of their decreasing sanity and completely twisted self-image,
just so that some soyboy can feel those sweet 15 seconds of lessened existential guilt on his morning twitter routine.