Jude Valentin / Judy Valentin / MermaidQueenJude / MerQueenJude - Professional complainer, hates thin people, obese

For what it's worth, if the "NotYourBefore" hashtag is Jude's main claim to fat fame, it looks like even that star is fading; as of right now, the last time anyone on Twitter used that tag was in December. And she no longer even "creates" YouTube videos whining about how the world isn't kissing her ass sufficiently; all she does is stream video games IF she feels like it.

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And the tweet from December says "Well fatty, you sweat faster with that BMI" in german, not even positive at all. Made me laugh a bit ngl
 

HamFan

Hi, guize! OK, so
Jude is the cover photo for that Bitch Media story. Apparently, Jude's fame as a fat influencer is entirely because she started the #NotYourBefore hashtag.

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Jude would have been the one to start that. She is obsessed with other people's weight and diets, because she is not truly ok with how fat she is.

How self-absorbed do you have to be to take someone's weight loss as a personal offense? It really just make it obvious that you are unhappy about your size.

Jude celebrated with a "day off" which sounds identical to the days she "works":

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Jude's body just looks like it hurts. The draggily-ass titties pulling on her back, the fat choking her neck. Too bad the cause is all a mystery.

And, once again, she is asking people on social media to do the work necessary for her to achieve her "goals."

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Also again, she makes her demands for a job without really saying what she has to offer, just what she wants to get out of it.
 

QuokkaCaptain

The happiest of all the marsupials
And I've never in my life met anyone who has declared that they deserve to be happy who wasn't a raging narcissist. Most people realize there are no guarantees in life. You can be an absolute saint and still have bad things happen in your life. Only a few lucky people get to have jobs they love. Most normal human beings do lots of things that they don't really enjoy because it makes it possible to have things they need/want -- like a house, clothing, food, etc. Work should be tolerable, but it is unrealistic to expect it to be joyful. Does she really think the bus boys at the Thai restaurant are joyful about their job? What would happen to society if everyone refused to do jobs that didn't bring them joy? Would anyone clean toilets or pick up trash or pick fruit for minimum wage? Do those people not deserve to be happy?

Eh, narcissists or people who've been hitting the self-help movement a little too hard. There are some (lol, millions) genuinely naive people who eat, sleep, and breathe those idiotic self-help books like The Secret that basically say "If you think happy/good thoughts, you will become happy/good things will happen to you." They think that by saying "I deserve to be happy!" means that the universe will pat them on the head and say "Good on you, honey, for realizing what you deserve: Here's your reward!"

Jude is obviously on the narcissist end of it, but the self-help industry is built off the backs of both them and the hopelessly naive/gullible/privileged kind that will swallow whatever makes them feel good about themselves.
 

Pineapple Fox

For conversations sake
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Courtesy of Jude V; I love that Jude for sure chose this photo to be the one for the article and it’s so unflattering, only the lingerie shots could be worse than this lol
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Those are some sad tits, and what is going on with her neck/chin area?
Everything is awful.
 
Specific instructions: GET A JOB, Jude. Click on this link, which will take you to all of Indeed dot com's part-time job listings in Brooklyn. (At your age you should actually be looking for full-time work, but baby steps, baby steps.) Click on the links for various jobs and follow the instructions to apply.

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Trust me, honey, that's not what makes you a burden.

I second that. Perhaps she should have this set as her alarm.

 
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Angry New Ager

Farting for God soon
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That's not C-PTSD. That's either mental exceptionalism or utter laziness where you only do what you have to and nothing more. In Jude's case, it's probably both.
I'm convinced it's part of her Narcissism.

First, Narcissists are so self-absorbed, they only think of others' desires or needs when doing so will get them something they want.

Second, "Well, why didn't you say so?" is a classic Narc manipulation tactic. It's all about keeping others off-balance and shifting blame onto them when the inevitable conflict arises. Ultimately, treating others as if they are totally unreasonable for expecting her to do basic household tasks without specifically asking her to do so is a way to get them to stop asking her to do anything at all. When you have to make sure to spell everything out, even when making even simple requests, that shit gets exhausting; it becomes easier to just do the job yourself. And that's exactly what Jude wants others to do.

Successful Narcissists are at least able to give a little, and act as if they care about others' wants and needs, in order to get what they want. They can recognize the value in making those trade-offs. But Jude is so monstrously self-centered, she can't anticipate others' genuine needs and desires, or bring herself to give in order to get. Everything flows in one direction, and it's always toward Jude. Even while pretending that the Mermaid Kingdom exists to help and support its members, it's really all about making Jude look good and getting her the life she believes she deserves, with as little effort as possible.

By the way, did she ever donate to, respond to, or "signal boost" Lilith Fury's plea for rent money, given how Lilith donated to Jude's apartment fund? I'd check, but Ive got to leave in a few minutes and don't have time to look.
 
I'm convinced it's part of her Narcissism.

First, Narcissists are so self-absorbed, they only think of others' desires or needs when doing so will get them something they want.

Second, "Well, why didn't you say so?" is a classic Narc manipulation tactic. It's all about keeping others off-balance and shifting blame onto them when the inevitable conflict arises. Ultimately, treating others as if they are totally unreasonable for expecting her to do basic household tasks without specifically asking her to do so is a way to get them to stop asking her to do anything at all. When you have to make sure to spell everything out, even when making even simple requests, that shit gets exhausting; it becomes easier to just do the job yourself. And that's exactly what Jude wants others to do.

Successful Narcissists are at least able to give a little, and act as if they care about others' wants and needs, in order to get what they want. They can recognize the value in making those trade-offs. But Jude is so monstrously self-centered, she can't anticipate others' genuine needs and desires, or bring herself to give in order to get. Everything flows in one direction, and it's always toward Jude. Even while pretending that the Mermaid Kingdom exists to help and support its members, it's really all about making Jude look good and getting her the life she believes she deserves, with as little effort as possible.

By the way, did she ever donate to, respond to, or "signal boost" Lilith Fury's plea for rent money, given how Lilith donated to Jude's apartment fund? I'd check, but Ive got to leave in a few minutes and don't have time to look.
Yeah, it just outlines her self absorption. It's kind of like when you leave the room to get yourself a drink or something. Most people would ask others in the room if you can get them something while you're up as a courtesy. It's a basic human thing to do. It's something most of us do not need to be told to do. We care about the comfort of those around us and we respond appropriately to their needs or wants. Jude doesn't have that particular facet to her personality. It's alien to her. It's certainly NOT C-PTSD, if anything, folks with that disorder tend to bend over backwards to avoid conflict and please those around them. I actually don't believe for one second that she has C-PTSD anyway because her actions and lifestyle totally fly against all conventional wisdom regarding the symptoms and how they typically manifest. I think she's simply a lazy narcissist. A spoiled brat who's parents felt sorry for the situation she came from and overcompensated to the point that they've made her useless.
 

Punkinsplice

An cermet and I talk shit about you
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Ok, anyone with multiple cats knows that one cat is not going to sit quietly while you feed the other one. You feed one cat, you are feeding any that are around and hear the can opener. I feel like she chose this example for a reason. Is she sequestering Orion to feed him and letting the family cat starve? Does she have to be told to feed Orion or other pets? That ain't PTSD, that is sociopathy. Fuck you Jude!
 

YourMommasBackstory

Gosh, I hope I’m safe it this suit!
how can you not feed a family animal if you know it didn’t have a meal? Knowing that animal is starving and it can’t get food by itself is basic of empathy. And why she should be told to feed her cat, assuming there is Orion and family cat in the house. Like, that’s your kitten, you raised him, you should see by yourself that he’s hungry.
 

Not me

It's a me, Meeoow!
how can you not feed a family animal if you know it didn’t have a meal? Knowing that animal is starving and it can’t get food by itself is basic of empathy. And why she should be told to feed her cat, assuming there is Orion and family cat in the house. Like, that’s your kitten, you raised him, you should see by yourself that he’s hungry.

Orion is just a cute prop for her narcissistic ass so she doesn't have to interact with humans who talk back.

edit to add: She is 0 capable of affection. Once Orion will be an adult cat she'll just drop him because he stopped being oh so cute. She neither pays for him, nor does she do vet visits or check ups.
 
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By the way, did she ever donate to, respond to, or "signal boost" Lilith Fury's plea for rent money, given how Lilith donated to Jude's apartment fund?

No, she did not. Although as of yesterday, Lilith is still trying to signal-boost her own pleas for assistance, without any help from her Mermaid Majesty. (The tweets above and below the post are included in the screenshot solely to show the date):

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ETA; Elsewhere in the Mermaid Kingdom, Jude's BFF Arielle is also making posts which IMO are a spectacularly bad idea for any would-be job-hunter to post where potential employers can see them:

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Counter-argument: if you can't handle reading an email draft before you send it, and making the minimal effort to delete unnecessary punctuation and change "y'all" to "you all" or "all of you," NO professional organization is likely to be "doin business" with you.
 
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Angry New Ager

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No, she did not. Although as of yesterday, Lilith is still trying to signal-boost her own pleas for assistance, without any help from her Mermaid Majesty. (The tweets above and below the post are included in the screenshot solely to show the date):

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Thank you. And this comes as absolutely no surprise.

Jude's self-absorption aside, it really doesn't help Lilith's fundraising efforts that she's such an angry, hateful, bitter, and thoroughly unpleasant individual. I get the impression that if I sent her $20 she'd roll her eyes and say, "Is that all? Gee, fucking thanks." Fatties may follow her, but do they actually like her? I kind of doubt it. And if they do, they're probably massive failures with no money, just like Jude's followers. There's no blood to be had from those stones.
ETA; Elsewhere in the Mermaid Kingdom, Jude's BFF Arielle is also making posts which IMO are a spectacularly bad idea for any would-be job-hunter to post where potential employers can see them:

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Counter-argument: if you can't handle reading an email draft before you send it, and making the minimal effort to delete unnecessary punctuation and change "y'all" to "you all" or "all of you," NO professional organization is likely to be "doin business" with you.
Just when I think Arielle has proven the depths of her stupidity, she surprises me anew. Good lord. This is a woman who has whined on Twitter about how impossible it is for her to get a job due to not having a car and having disabling arthritis, and who has described her living situation as so horribly toxic and abusive that she needs to get out. Yet here she is, willfully throwing away a chance to earn some money of her own because she can't stop being a stupid teenager with a bratty attitude long enough to even get hired.
 
Just when I think Arielle has proven the depths of her stupidity, she surprises me anew. Good lord. This is a woman who has whined on Twitter about how impossible it is for her to get a job due to not having a car and having disabling arthritis, and who has described her living situation as so horribly toxic and abusive that she needs to get out. Yet here she is, willfully throwing away a chance to earn some money of her own because she can't stop being a stupid teenager with a bratty attitude long enough to even get hired.

I'd sympathize with her if she were talking about employers complaining because she actually said "y'all" while speaking, especially in a job interview or any other nervousness situation. But maintaining a professional tone in an email is far easier. And making a point of using multiple exclamation points when she knows that violates professional norms is, as you pointed out, proof that no matter how stupid these idiots get, they always manage to find a way to out-stupid themselves.

Hey, Arielle! Next time you and your friends check this thread, here's some advice for you: using lots of exclamation points doesn't mean you're fighting injustice or uplifting oppressed minorities, and it's not cute or quirky. It doesn't make you a cool badass who lives by her own code; extra punctuation is just really fucking annoying. See?

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Hey, Arielle!!! Next time you and your friends check this thread, here's some advice for y'all! Using lots of exclamation points doesn't mean you're fighting injustice! Or uplifting oppressed minorities! And it's not cute or quirky! It doesn't make you a cool badass who lives by her own code! Extra punctuation is just really fucking annoying!!!!! See????
 

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