Inactive Kadeeliveslife / Kadee Konstantino - 200+ lb 'anorexic' malingering instagrammer who had every severe illness known to man; Heroin Addict

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Remember Julie T's obit? The one that waxed on and on about her parents fucked up relationships, none of whom were people who cared for her in the end, because they left her in adult foster care? And said nothing at all about Julie herself. Or that she died after repeated cries for help.

Kadie's is in the same vein, although way less fucked up and about her parents.
 

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Yeah, the obit was definitely quite telling. When a young person dies due to an accident or some kind of illness it's typical to get a line such as 'X passed away after a sudden/long struggle with illness' or 'X was taken from us suddenly in a car crash' or something like that. When more private reasons are involved very little is said.
I've had a few friends die from drug OD and they almost always have the same wording in the obit - "passed suddenly", "tragically taken from us", etc. with no specifics. Families are generally very embarrassed by it regardless if it was an accident, intentional, or if their drug use was known. They just don't want to broadcast it everywhere because it's not a very "dignified" death.
 

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I remember a while back in the thread she posted a picture injecting herself with Lovenox, which is a blood thinner.
It can also lead to Heparin-Induced Thrombocytopenia over long-term use, which can cause thrombosis(which ironically, is what it's supposed to treat), strokes, pulmonary embolisms, yadda yadda.

It's entirely possible that if she was still injecting the drug that could've been what did her in.
 

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I agree with most of you here, I think she tried to OD to gain some sympathy from people and went too far. Also like I mentioned before we don't even know the meds she DOES take she even needed and could have taken a toll on her heart or something.
That or she didn't realize how some prescriptions will interact with illegal drugs.
I had a friend who was a total addict. When I was still trying to help her and be a friend, I remember having to go through a bag of loose pills and seperate them while writing down what they are. She was on so many pills and was also buying and abusing prescriptions that weren't hers. She was so close to taking pills that shouldn't be mixed and could seriously harm or kill her. Fuck, even grapefruit juice and blood thinners or opiates can be bad. About a year after I gave her the drugs or friend ultimatum (she chose drugs) she o.d'd on xanax, percocets, and cocaine. Unknown to her there was also fentanyl in the mix (it was low amounts, probably residue on the percs). It can be only a few grains of salt sized bits of fentanyl that can kill you.

I assume it was just a bad mix of pills.
 
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That or she didn't realize how some prescriptions will interact with illegal drugs.
I had a friend who was a total addict. When I was still trying to help her and be a friend, I remember having to go through a bag of loose pills and seperate them while writing down what they are. She was on so many pills and was also buying and abusing prescriptions that weren't hers. She was so close to taking pills that shouldn't be mixed and could seriously harm or kill her. Fuck, even grapefruit juice and blood thinners or opiates can be bad. About a year after I gave her the drugs or friend ultimatum (she chose drugs) she o.d'd on xanax, percocets, and cocaine. Unknown to her there was also fentanyl in the mix (it was low amounts, probably residue on the percs). It can be only a few grains of salt sized bits of fentanyl that can kill you.

I assume it was just a bad mix of pills.
So she basically Placebo'd herself into an early grave.
All jokes aside, the poor girl's dead without ever growing up and living life. Lolcow or not, it is a tragedy. R.I.P Kadee, at least your sympathy cries will always be heard here.
 

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Remember Julie T's obit? The one that waxed on and on about her parents fucked up relationships, none of whom were people who cared for her in the end, because they left her in adult foster care? And said nothing at all about Julie herself. Or that she died after repeated cries for help.

Kadie's is in the same vein, although way less fucked up and about her parents.
I also thought that was particularly crappy of her parents to kind of gloss over Kadee's life entirely. She liked to dye her hair and read books? The fuck is she, 12? She was a grown adult and surely had to have done something in person worth throwing in there, like having worked at ___ for a living, was dating __, had hobbies outside of dying her hair (that's not even a real hobby...), etc. Instead it's mostly just a bunch of flowery language about the people who are still alive and asking people to give her sister money for college. I dunno, maybe I'm just a picky person but I feel as though Kiwis could have written a more unique and special obit for her, even if they had to exclude her cow behaviors. It's like her family didn't even know her, and that's sad.

I think her death must have been accidental, too. I don't remember her being much of a pain pill person but from what I gathered, she did like to drink a bunch. Alcohol, by itself, can be pretty poisonous to the human body in large enough amounts. If she had decided to have what she thought was going to be a casual night of getting wasted and doing fuck-all at the computer without realizing she'd taken a lethal cocktail of pharmaceuticals, that could have done her in. A LOT of regular old medications will fuck you up something fierce if you take them while drunk... especially benzos, and NSAIDs.
 

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I also thought that was particularly crappy of her parents to kind of gloss over Kadee's life entirely. She liked to dye her hair and read books? The fuck is she, 12? She was a grown adult and surely had to have done something in person worth throwing in there, like having worked at ___ for a living, was dating __, had hobbies outside of dying her hair (that's not even a real hobby...), etc. Instead it's mostly just a bunch of flowery language about the people who are still alive and asking people to give her sister money for college. I dunno, maybe I'm just a picky person but I feel as though Kiwis could have written a more unique and special obit for her, even if they had to exclude her cow behaviors. It's like her family didn't even know her, and that's sad.

I think her death must have been accidental, too. I don't remember her being much of a pain pill person but from what I gathered, she did like to drink a bunch. Alcohol, by itself, can be pretty poisonous to the human body in large enough amounts. If she had decided to have what she thought was going to be a casual night of getting wasted and doing fuck-all at the computer without realizing she'd taken a lethal cocktail of pharmaceuticals, that could have done her in. A LOT of regular old medications will fuck you up something fierce if you take them while drunk... especially benzos, and NSAIDs.
I know what a shit obit. Her whole life summed up into hair dye and books. Jesus, why even bother at that point. Makes you wonder if they are in a way, relieved.
 
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I also thought that was particularly crappy of her parents to kind of gloss over Kadee's life entirely. She liked to dye her hair and read books? The fuck is she, 12? She was a grown adult and surely had to have done something in person worth throwing in there, like having worked at ___ for a living, was dating __, had hobbies outside of dying her hair (that's not even a real hobby...), etc. Instead it's mostly just a bunch of flowery language about the people who are still alive and asking people to give her sister money for college. I dunno, maybe I'm just a picky person but I feel as though Kiwis could have written a more unique and special obit for her, even if they had to exclude her cow behaviors. It's like her family didn't even know her, and that's sad.
Given her history, I think this might have been the nicest thing her family could muster to say and still be honest.
 

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I think the obit is potentially very revealing. Could be a narcissist mother with Golden Child/Scape Goat dynamics between the sisters. Kaydee was the Scape Goat, which could explain her attention seeking behaviour. Making the funeral about the sisters education fund seems very odd, and could suggest a favouritism there. Not even Kaydees own funeral is about her, it's about the Golden Child sister. It's very sad if that's the case, she was fighting a battle she could never win.
 

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I think the obit is potentially very revealing. Could be a narcissist mother with Golden Child/Scape Goat dynamics between the sisters. Kaydee was the Scape Goat, which could explain her attention seeking behaviour. Making the funeral about the sisters education fund seems very odd, and could suggest a favouritism there. Not even Kaydees own funeral is about her, it's about the Golden Child sister. It's very sad if that's the case, she was fighting a battle she could never win.
My interpretation was that Kaydee's family are thoroughly aware of her hobbies, and that given that she had a reputation as a scammer, asking for money for the sister's education was a way of circumventing that. The alternative was that someone was running yet another scam completely without knowledge or permission from the family. But I have to say, your interpretation is very, very thought provoking.
 

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I think the obit is potentially very revealing. Could be a narcissist mother with Golden Child/Scape Goat dynamics between the sisters. Kaydee was the Scape Goat, which could explain her attention seeking behaviour. Making the funeral about the sisters education fund seems very odd, and could suggest a favouritism there. Not even Kaydees own funeral is about her, it's about the Golden Child sister. It's very sad if that's the case, she was fighting a battle she could never win.
In such situations the scapegoat is rarely close to the golden child because the golden child is willing to engage in narc behaviors to curry favor with the mother, and the scapegoat learns not to trust the sibling. Kadee was extremely close to her sister and had a loving relationship with her. There's something somewhere that made Kadee behave so badly but I'm not sure it was a narc mother. It seems more likely that Kadee had some small but important health issues as a child and grew to love the special attention being sick gave her from her family and the medical community.

A week before Kadee died, someone sent her mother proof that Kadee had faked being in a coma. Her mother was unsurprised but exasperated to receive this news and confirmed that Kadee was a faker and that she was not sick or in the hospital. The less than adoring obituary may come from a history of Kadee embarrassing her family, upsetting them with lies, and a genuine lack of life achievements. She spent all of her time faking online and binge eating. While they loved Kadee, there simply may not have been much positive to say about a short life spent lying, especially with her death coming so close to yet another revelation from a stranger that Kadee was still lying outrageously about her health. These days people routinely ask for money for a survivor's education so that's not that shocking. Plus knowing that Kadee was using lies about ill health to fleece people out of money and sympathy, redirecting funds to the sister's education may have been an attempt to prevent Kadee's final memory be that of receiving adulation in the form of flowers and stuffed animals, items loved by the more effusive fakers.

That obituary was likely fueled more from shock at her death and sadness realizing that Kadee may have died because she was hell bent on wasting her time malingering. They loved her but that doesn't mean they weren't aware of who she was and what she did.
 

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I think the obit is potentially very revealing. Could be a narcissist mother with Golden Child/Scape Goat dynamics between the sisters. Kaydee was the Scape Goat, which could explain her attention seeking behaviour. Making the funeral about the sisters education fund seems very odd, and could suggest a favouritism there. Not even Kaydees own funeral is about her, it's about the Golden Child sister. It's very sad if that's the case, she was fighting a battle she could never win.
It could even be the exact opposite, though. Sometimes the parents will perversely favor the badly behaving child over the one who tries their best to be perfect. It's hard to tell from the outside, even if it's fairly obvious the family had to be dysfunctional to some extent.