Kelly Lenza / LividLipids / softbodytendermind / ass_child - "Radical body liberationist”, Intentionally Repulsive, Uber woke 40-something SJW influencer wannabe, doxed her former therapist for getting WLS and later accidentally doxed herself

Reepicheep

True & Honest Fan
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Not me

It's a me, Meeoow!
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Not sure how to rate this because it's simply wrong. We do not live in a world that wants you to suffer. It's yourself that makes that suffering on your own.
I can't believe she is so inept doing such a simple task like stepping on a scale to get health care. I can't believe she is SO incapable of real life stuff. It's a lot like this:
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Bibbity Bobbity

Bleh.
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Here is my interpretation of her refusal:

It's not that Kelly cares about the number. Heavens, no! It's that when the medical staff knows her weight, this *irrelevant piece of information* will be part of her medical record. Her weight will then provide them with ammunition/excuses to label her as supermorbidly obese, and a cascade of interventions she doesn't want/hurt her feelings may be triggered. Once the label is applied, *everyone knows* the supermorbidly obese get substandard care. The doctor will blame all ailments on her weight.

So she won't participate in the medical-weight-industrial complex. Which is not the same as being refused health care.

It's hard to put myself in her mindset, so I could be wrong.
 

Gramlol

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When I went to my monthly MD appointment last month (schedule 2 meds woo) the nurse led me directly to the exam room and I said, "What, no scale today?" and she replied "Nah... unless you really WANT to?" I said, "Oh no, I'm good thanks!" and that was it. (The clinic has been having scale functioning issues for months.)

Even though it's a new MD for Kelly she's seriously overreacting about the whole thing. She could tell them that she doesn't want to know her weight and close her eyes while on the scale. But the doctor NEEDS to know weights for new patients simply for accurate dosage of medications. And she fucking KNOWS that, but instead she's using it for persecution points.

W/E bitch. Enjoy being undermedicated!
So far as I can tell, a certain amount of the fat activist position seems to be the idea that weighing at the drs (even if the patient doesn't see their weight) is de-facto bad, because then the dr would judge them/offer them subpar treatment due to their weight. And that 'obesity' and their weight would then go into their records, causing subpar treatment from then on out.
This, of course, rests on the crazy assumption that drs couldn't tell just on sight that obesity is an issue for the patient, that just by glancing at Kelly, the dr would rightly be concerned that their weight is too high.
It's like the argument that 'BMI doesn't work because bodybuilders and NFL players have overweight BMIs!' when, on sight, the fat activists making this argument uhh, on sight alone, do not resemble The Rock or a bodybuilder.

It's like if they or the dr doesn't have a specific number to attach to their weight, if this isn't recorded, then they won't be perceived as obese by the dr- and won't receive the coveted magic cure treatment that thin people supposedly receive.

These are arguments also featured on the infamous Ragen Chastain card from her website, to hand out to drs. One question on the card also being, 'what would you recommend for a thin patient presenting with my symptoms' and 'the stress of weight stigma, such as would be induced by weighing me, contributes to stress-related inflammation and disease, for conditions wrongly attributed to weight alone [the old 'weight stigma causes T2 diabetes, high blood pressure, sleep apnea, obesity hyperventilation, etc]'.

All dumb person lunacy, beliefs that Kelly subscribes to. If only the dr doesn't know her exact weight, the dr will someone -not notice- she is obese.
 

Little Dark Age

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Here is my interpretation of her refusal:

It's not that Kelly cares about the number. Heavens, no! It's that when the medical staff knows her weight, this *irrelevant piece of information* will be part of her medical record. Her weight will then provide them with ammunition/excuses to label her as supermorbidly obese, and a cascade of interventions she doesn't want/hurt her feelings may be triggered. Once the label is applied, *everyone knows* the supermorbidly obese get substandard care. The doctor will blame all ailments on her weight.

So she won't participate in the medical-weight-industrial complex. Which is not the same as being refused health care.

It's hard to put myself in her mindset, so I could be wrong.

I agree this is probably what she's thinking but nigga the doctor has eyes lmao. I wonder if she knows that there are notes a patient can't see, maybe something like "patient verbally combative, estimated morbidly obese, presents with mild to moderate non-psychotic paranoia and persecution complex"
 

JuniperFalls

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These are arguments also featured on the infamous Ragen Chastain card from her website, to hand out to drs. One question on the card also being, 'what would you recommend for a thin patient presenting with my symptoms'

I know a woman with a normal BMI who was always in pretty good health until a couple years ago, when she started having some horrendously painful back problems and, long story short, turns out she's old enough to have developed a form of arthritis that does something bad to the discs in her spine. (She feels fine now, thanks to a combination of meds and physical therapy, plus some alterations to her diet. The downside is, she will probably have to take those meds, do those physical therapy exercises and follow that diet every day for the rest of her life, if she wants to avoid another recurrence of literally crippling pain, or worse.)

At any rate, once the doctors finally figured out what was wrong with her, and how to treat (but not cure) her pain problems, they told her she was relatively lucky to be a normal healthy size. If she'd been fat (or if she'd spent her life doing a heavy-lifting type of job), chances are, she would have developed those disc problems years earlier, and they'd be much worse. Now, she is extra-careful to avoid gaining weight from the "middle-aged spread" because she knows if she gets fat, it's not just that she'll look worse and outgrow her clothes. That extra weight will also make her spinal condition worse, cause greater damage to her back and neck, and possibly have the damage spread to her legs and knees.

I mention all of this because I am now indulging in a little fantasy: Kelly or Ragen or some other HAES cow develops the same disc-arthritis problem as my friend, and when they demand "what would you recommend for a thin patient presenting with my symptoms" they are given the same advice as my thin-patient friend: do these precise and vigorous physical therapy exercises at least twenty minutes per day every day forever, avoid certain foods (including most junk foods and fast foods) known to cause inflammation, do not let your BMI get any higher than 23 or 24 maximum, do drink a lot of water but do not drink a lot of sugary or alcoholic liquids, and don't, like, start wearing heavy backpacks or lifting heavy boxes or anything else that adds an extra one or two or three hundred pounds to the weight your skeleton has to support.

(I know, there is no chance any "fat friendly" doctor willing to take these obese snowflakes as patients will be honest enough to say this. That's why I called it a fantasy.)
 

behavioral swamp thang

raw is law
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Does Kelly honestly expect us to believe that doctors in America aren't used to seeing fatasses every single day? I'm sure the waiting room is full of bariatric chairs and half the nurses are overweight.
I just wanna let Kelly and the world know about these inclusive chairs that are popping up in every waiting room across america. I giggle every time.
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Little Dark Age

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I just wanna let Kelly and the world know about these inclusive chairs that are popping up in every waiting room across america. I giggle every time.
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The last time I went to an office ALL BUT ONE of the chairs were like that! Neither of us are petite skinny legends but I still was able to sit side by side in one with the person who gave me a ride. How long until they give up and just put in massive benches?
 

I call shenanigans

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I just wanna let Kelly and the world know about these inclusive chairs that are popping up in every waiting room across america. I giggle every time.
I had a medical appointment at a hospital last week and was shocked to see the size of one chair in particular in the waiting area. I would have taken a photo if someone wasn't sitting in it. The chair was so large and solidly made that it had to have a pair of wheels attached to the rear legs so it could be moved by cleaners. There was a quite elderly frail lady occupying this chair with most other seats unoccupied. I found myself contemplating just what some of these HAES fatsos like Kelly would have said had they come in and found the special super morbidly obese chair being used by someone that didn't need it. We all know there would be words exchanged, if not with the chairs occupant then with a staff member. However, if a fellow passenger complained to a staff member about having to share their paid for plane seat with a megafat, all hell would break loose...they'd be recorded and the video posted to Instagram before the planet even started up the runway.
 

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