Kelly Lenza / LividLipids / softbodytendermind / ass_child - "Radical body liberationist”, Intentionally Repulsive, Uber woke 40-something SJW influencer wannabe, doxed her former therapist for getting WLS and later accidentally doxed herself

[AbraCadaver]

HAES communities regard people, especially those who had previously drank the bopo koolaid, who get WLS to be absolute traitors.

Health At Any Size Except Smaller Than Me.

 

[I call shenanigans]

HAES communities regard people, especially those who had previously drank the bopo koolaid, who get WLS to be absolute traitors.

Of course they do, because the more people accept that morbid obesity is not healthy, the less there are left behind in the megafat clique, which means less voices to flood media with their crock of shit messages, and the more the fats stand out drawing even more negative attention to themselves. The fact that so many are changing their tunes as time passes and their health outcomes become worse, means the message they are/were trying to sell is flawed. And letting their supporters see these alleged traitors back pedal is tantamount to blasphemy.

Everytime I hear a morbidly obese person proclaim they are happy with their body, I know I'm seeing a liar. Not being prepared to step on a scale just proves they are embarrassed by the number they know will show. Hardly body positive is it! The HAES and Bopo movements are as much about bleeding every last cent they an out of the obese as the diet industry is. They are equally opportunistic parasites.

 

[babyTAP]

September 2020 - Kelly finds out her weight while in the hospital due to whatever fatty problem was aggravating her at the time. Notes she weighs the same as she did three years prior. This bitch is so defiant. To me, this further bolsters my opinion that this isn't about Kelly having shame-based anxiety or guilt about the number on the scale. The big bitch doesn't care (going as far as to paint finding out she wasn't even fatter as validating - ). It's entirely about control. And boredom. The privilege of being able to bounce around "shopping" for a practice that will swallow her bullshit is un-fucking-real.

 

[MrHoneyBadger]

"My body and measurements are larger but the weight is the same? "Highly doubt that.
Almost as much as "don't lose weight while dieting".

 

[LonesomeDud]

My body and measurements are larger but the weight is the same? Highly doubt that.
Almost as much as "don't lose weight while dieting".

No. She definitely knows she weighs the same. She knows this by refusing to weigh in. That's how it works.

 

[I call shenanigans]

My body and measurements are larger but the weight is the same? Highly doubt that.
Almost as much as "don't lose weight while dieting".

If true (highly doubtful) it would just mean less muscle and more fat...certainly nothing to be happy, let alone gloating about.

 

[krazy orange cat]

No. She definitely knows she weighs the same. She knows this by refusing to weigh in. That's how it works.

If I don't weigh in, my weight hasn't changed, just like if I don't go to the doctor I'm perfectly healthy. HAES logic in action.

 

[blue gopher snakes]

Late but felt compelled to make this comment anyway.

Don’t sit in those bariatric chairs in the waiting rooms if you can possibly avoid it. Find a normal human sized seat if you can and stand if you’re able and there’s no normal chairs available.

How many deathfats on this site alone have complained about not being able to clean up in the bathroom? How many whine about fatphobic showers and toilet seats and how they have to buy bidets and incontinence underwear and fungal cream? The type of person that requires a wider chair with a more robust frame is gonna leave a (hopefully invisible) snail trail of shit and urine on the cushion after they rock back and forth and finally gain the momentum to stand when their name is called.

Let the fatties have those chairs. They deserve them, after all.

 

[Little Dark Age]

Late but felt compelled to make this comment anyway.

Don’t sit in those bariatric chairs in the waiting rooms if you can possibly avoid it. Find a normal human sized seat if you can and stand if you’re able and there’s no normal chairs available.

How many deathfats on this site alone have complained about not being able to clean up in the bathroom? How many whine about fatphobic showers and toilet seats and how they have to buy bidets and incontinence underwear and fungal cream? The type of person that requires a wider chair with a more robust frame is gonna leave a (hopefully invisible) snail trail of shit and urine on the cushion after they rock back and forth and finally gain the momentum to stand when their name is called.

Let the fatties have those chairs. They deserve them, after all.

I always look around desperately to find the non-bariatric chair, but I shit you not, some waiting rooms only have one or two regular sized chairs now! If you're an utter shitlord like me, make a big show of sitting at the edge of it. Better yet, if someone is accompanying you, wedge both your asses into it. They really are ridiculous and obscene.

 

[HamFan]

A lot of these HAESers don't want to be weighed because it "triggers their ED." Their "ED" is always just, "I used to diet." Diets are "disordered" because restriction (and self-control, apparently) is unhealthy, as is any discomfort or guilt.

So anyway, they can't be weighed, because they have to further appropriate anorexics- if they see the number, they'll spiral back into their disordered habits. In other words, be tempted to diet again.

So, really, they're admitting the real reason all along- if they see the number, they'll feel bad about their weight.

 

[Tathagata]

My body and measurements are larger but the weight is the same? Highly doubt that.
Almost as much as "don't lose weight while dieting".

Maybe at her weight and age, her body is falling apart and her measurements reflect that? Deathfat studies is still a relatively new field. Perhaps this is just what happens regardless of weight gain.

 

[Honeycrispsky]

Maybe at her weight and age, her body is falling apart and her measurements reflect that? Deathfat studies is still a relatively new field. Perhaps this is just what happens regardless of weight gain.

It's transparently obvious her scale freak outs were in fear of seeing her weight (and gaining weight, which she thought she had), but now that she accidentally got weighed and is fine with it, there are no worries. Well, except for all the doctors offices she harassed in the past two-plus weeks.

The post quoted up there is from September 2020, not current/recent- as far as we know, Kelly is still terrorizing every doctor's office she hasn't (yet) been banned from.

And speaking of docs, I really do wonder if Kelly is alluding to her former therapist in that post about former life WLS blah blah....I tend to think yes, but the possibility of it being someone else is also pretty fucking funny. Imagine having multiple people in your life improve themselves and hating them for it yet not realizing you're the problem there, very quintessential Kelly.

 

[FarmerKhourtney]

Truly don’t understand the HAES/stunning and brave/insert bs here/attitude but then someone asking them to get on a scale sends them to a suicidal place

 

[Reepicheep]

 

[Not me]

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oh , it's just words strung at each other but not really making sense.
And "devils"? I thought she is incapable of religion. So, don't use the word if you don't believe in it my dear HAES SJW STU.
Just out of context "Octavia Butler's God is change" WTF???? None of those words make sense Kelly!

 

[Reepicheep]

 

[fishing bird]

The belly resting on the sink

 

[Not me]

Kelly, your boobs are trying to escape. That's how hot you are. Not! You can not not even rest your belly on the sink. You are a behemoth and behemoths are never hot unless your name is Leviathan.

 

[Diet Coke 4 Life]

I know I'm not the only one who saw it.

 

[FarmerKhourtney]

Please don’t report me after I’ve threatened suicide for attention