Or fourth, don't fuck around with married men.
Artcow Kimchi Cuddles / Tikva Wolf / Bethany Kurrus - "Shishkaboots!" Bethany Kurrus's Poorly Drawn Poly Tumblr Hipster Comic Approved by Sophie LaBelle
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Sister services, email, and search will continue to be negatively effected by the attacks. I made a thread to talk about it, if you're into networking.
Or fourth, don't fuck around with married men.
Bisexual women tend to be viewed as hypersexual, up for threesomes all the time, living sex toys, some kind of exotic adventure for a straight man who wants to live out his fantasy of watching two girls do it.
I have a friend whose husband had to cut off a relationship with his good friend, because once his friend found out my friend was bisexual, he kept making inappropriate comments to her husband about how their wives should fuck and they should watch, or how hot my friend was, or how my friend and her husband must have a bangin' sex life. A different friend of her husband told him that they should take a trip to New York City together and try to find prostitutes so my friend could fuck a girl in front of her husband.
She told me that she had asked her husband to stop telling people that she was bisexual. She said that she felt like these people started viewing her as her sexuality instead of viewing her as a person.
In reality bisexual women are not automatically inclined to want threesomes. Genitalia aside, it's a lot of communication and emotion that is very easy to get wrong, and if the "unicorn hunters" are a married/committed couple then the "unicorn" basically has to accept that she will always come second to the primary partner. And since part of being a "unicorn" means that she is unpartnered herself, it's not like she has her own primary partner to go home to and get that unconditional love from.
It's almost like building your expectations for sex around porn isn't a good thing.
A label that brands bisexual women as hypersexual sluts is unfair towards the vast majority of bisexual women. It's completely fair for someone like Tikva, who literally bases her entire personality and career on being a hypersexual bi chick.
Considering the wording of her comics, it makes perfect sense that she'd feel completely at home in a cult.
It's one thing to be a monogamous bisexual woman. That's totally fine.
But it's quite another to be a bisexual woman dating a married man and be shocked and appalled when they proposition a threesome. What did you expect when you're sleeping with a man you know is married??? How naïve can you get??
And why is a threesome such a terrible suggestion? I think you kinda waiver your right not to be seen as a slut when you get involved with married people.
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I agree. If you engage in openly slutty behavior and are known to be bi don’t be surprised if others will try take advantage of it. By advantage I don’t mean abuse, just try make their unlikely dreams reality. Threesome especially two ladies with one gentleman is very common fantasy and bisexual women open for it (especially nice looking ones) are not. If threesome isn’t your cup of tea, whatever it’s with this couple or at all, you can always say “no”. Getting asked for something you don’t want can be annoying but how else they are going to know? That’s just a price you have pay or you can modify your behavior and/or reputation if it’s too much.
May she find her own personal Jonestown someday
Every single problem Bethany has with relationships is Bethany. No amount of monogamy will fix that.
Comics are supposed to be funny. This is just preachy shit that the author is trying to use to preach about justifying her lifestyle in which she's obviously very insecure about.
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Her most recent post includes the story of a woman she treated the exact opposite. She has never apologized to that woman in person but continues to block her and speak for her. Good for the half assed apology but if she is helping any rape victim now it's because she actually likes them and her rapist isn't a friend of her best friend.
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I didn't want to give away too many details due to concerns of privacy, but what types of details do you want to know? I know everyone here knows kimchi cuddles is full of shit, but is supposed to be a "role model" for the Poly community, although the bar for that group is low anyways.
Before she posted that comic she should have reached out to the victim to say "hey I messed up a few years ago." But it wasn't about making amends, it is all about her looking good and "ethical.".
Years ago she DEFINITELY did a great job of silencing a "difficult" rape victim, because she made the mistake of being raped by Tikva's close friend's roommate. The local "safe place poly group" was hosted by Tikva's friend at the home where he lives. I'll have you guess how well the victim was heard when she named him and when she requested that poly group be led by someone else and doesn't take place where the rapist lives. After disclosing his name to the online poly ethical group, mods made a post removing the right of anyone to name names publically in that group. Did it help that one of the mods is very close friends with the rapist? Tikva was also a moderator of this online group. Tikva met with the rapist to hear his side but not the victim, I bet she's scared of anyone who wants to hold her accountable. Remember, he is a beloved friend of someone close to Tikva.
The victim got very angry and hurt and everyone was still friends with the rapist. She was messy, loud, and not polite enough. And Tikva, along with her entire group, did nothing.
Given that Tikva is admitting she should have kicked him out gives me the indication that this man has hurt someone else. They were never going to believe that first victim. Tikva is claiming to make amends by now helping someone else entirely, who she claims the comic is about. I'm guessing this victim wasn't raped by a guy everyone loves. In fact in this case I believe this new victim was backed up by other women and most certainly wasn't raped by a close friend of the community. Now Tikva sees her opportunity to Make A Stand Against Rape. This one's a lot easier for her to deal with and look Good as well.
At least she draws troons the way they actually look like. I wouldn't want sex troll to the far left on the upper right corner in my personal space even if it was a men's bathroom.
Edit: My dumbass didn't realize I was on the first page, disregard this. Either way, she's fucking crazy and I hate how webcomics have made these types of people have a larger platform than they should.
I'm not even a little bit surprised to learn about this.
To supply you some context, Tikva's cult involves breaking down people's perfectly normal and healthy sexual and emotional boundaries and shifting the burden of discomfort and jealousy to those feeling it, not to those instigating it. I'm willing to believe that a person involved with this cult would try to minimize her own victimhood and be averse to pursuing her rights under law; after all, she's been conditioned to consider the feelings and wishes of everyone else in the cult above her own needs.
Feminists carry on endlessly about "rape culture" where it's not, but it is precisely what we have here: a culture that facilitates victimization.
The drawing style in these, when paired with the text, just irritates me somehow.
I think the problem as that approaching a very serious and complex issue via comics with no real visual talent to speak of is a self defeating paradigm. It's like if you were in a combat zone and your corporal got his position of leadership by being really good at Doom.
If there's absolutely no weight in your aesthetics, why would anyone reading a comic attribute weight to your words? Write a fucking essay, faggot.
Edit To Add: If the cause is THAT important to you and you NEED to make comics (maybe for the sake of mass appeal), why not just learn to draw? It's not that hard, it just demands persistence. If the issue at hand is truly what defines you, why the fuck would you let a universal skillset hold you back?
Maybe it's not important enough to this loser.
I think the problem as that approaching a very serious and complex issue via comics with no real visual talent to speak of is a self defeating paradigm. It's like if you were in a combat zone and your corporal got his position of leadership by being really good at Doom.
If there's absolutely no weight in your aesthetics, why would anyone reading a comic attribute weight to your words? Write a fucking essay, faggot.
Edit To Add: If the cause is THAT important to you and you NEED to make comics (maybe for the sake of mass appeal), why not just learn to draw? It's not that hard, it just demands persistence. If the issue at hand is truly what defines you, why the fuck would you let a universal skillset hold you back?
Maybe it's not important enough to this loser.
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