LGBT Kiwis -

Sprig of Parsley

Damnation dignified
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Like it or not, lesbians don't face even 10% of the backlash and stigma that gay men do. Gays are seen as being weak or compromised, feminised men and that goes for bisexual men too, which is why I (kinda flippantly, kinda not) said they're just homos that won't commit. The social ostracism for being a lesbian is way lower, so the barrier to experimenting is lower. Chicks experimenting or being bisexual is seen as exotic and hot but if a teenage boy blows his best mate, they're both likely to get bullied out of existance for it.

There's a lesbian in our book club who won't shut up about how hard it is being a woman, and how just being female made her the most oppressed. I asked her if she'd ever had to hide the fact that she was a woman to keep a job or a friendship, and she didn't speak to me for months.
You made the horrible mistake of reminding a special snowflake that she might not actually have had the worst hand in the world dealt to her, and robbed her of her precious "BIGGEST VICTIM EVAR" status
 

Ted_Breakfast

What'll it be, boys?
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To be fair to Sprig, bisexuals are treated pretty shittily by LGT. They're too straight for gays, too gay for straights and apparently huge unethical sluts who will be betray you for the other gender just to be assholes. The rest of LGBT is quite promiscuous though, obviously.
The only winning move if you're bi is just to deny it. Even if your love says they trust you, there will always be this niggling doubt in their minds that you won't be able to be monogamous and content, and that will subtly influence their behavior in destructive ways.
 

Fagatron

ArchFedora
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How common is the bi scumbag trope in reality?

I can only profess to know three self described "open" bisexuals (all men) reasonably well and to be honest they are promiscuous and disloyal. Jeez, theres one whose been dating someone for nearly three years who keeps trying to drag me back to theirs or a hotel every time they have a drink and we're together, despite them knowing my boyfriend fairly well.

I'm sure there are monogamous bisexuals, but so far in my personal experience the trope has held true. If they're with a woman they'll lurk on Grindr, if with a guy they're still on the hunt for a woman too.

Maybe I'm just lucky?
 

boku-chan

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Bisexual (previously: ~pansexual~ during tamblr phase) but was prison gay for a while just because I'm picky with the opposite sex
I personally think everyone has the potential to be at least a little gay/bi under specific circumstances but some would rather not awaken the gay within them and that's fine, especially now when "LGBT inclusivity" is so pushed by the mainstream

The only winning move if you're bi is just to deny it. Even if your love says they trust you, there will always be this niggling doubt in their minds that you won't be able to be monogamous and content, and that will subtly influence their behavior in destructive ways.
Your partner will only feel doubt if they're insecure in which case they'd be wary of you cheating with the opposite sex anyway. Being bi just doubles their insecurity since now you could ideally cheat with anyone and not just half of everyone.
 

Feline Darkmage

Queen Trap Tank, the Vice Catto
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The only winning move if you're bi is just to deny it. Even if your love says they trust you, there will always be this niggling doubt in their minds that you won't be able to be monogamous and content, and that will subtly influence their behavior in destructive ways.
Unless they're bi too and understand that the cheating thing is just a meme and not always reflective of reality.
 
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