Well part of it is the "T" - that part pushed their way to the front and now steers the whole culture. Someone decided (them, probably) to let their mentally ill selves run things, and this group that's what, less than 10% of the gay community and less than .003% of society has started to screech the loudest, and fills everything they touch with loathing and IdPol.I feel as if I live on a different planet than these people. There are two types of gay. People like myself and my partner who live regular lives, have respectable jobs in the community and the respect of our neighbors, even if they don't care much for what we do in our own home, we aren't shoving it in their face either and they respect us as hard working and polite people.
The other type of gay people are psychos who spend most of their day trying to out victim each other so they can claim more pity-bux. Whatever happened to just being yourself? Nobody is able to develop interesting personality traits and skills anymore, they demand allies on the basis of victimhood instead of being liked for being an interesting person. I don't know at what point mental illness became acceptable but it's destroying society daily because these people are let loose to inflict themselves on others.
Being LGBT these days is an embarrassment.