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Clintonberg

Grabbed by the Pussy
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It's nice to have a vision that you and your SO can strive for as a couple but you both have to accept that relationships take patience and compromise. It's a day by day process and it should stay like that. Granted, goalposts and boundaries are an absolute must when it comes to a relationship between two people but the expectations shouldn't be front and center all the time or else everyone involved is going to be miserable. I know trust can be a hard thing to give another person when you're intimate and vulnerable, but you should try to push the thought of harbored secrets out of your mind. Deal with problems as they come and don't treat every one like a death sentence to the relationship. There's going to be ups and downs, a lot of them. Otherwise, relax and be yourself.

Congrats tho. I hope your relationship is nothing but healthy and prosperous. :p
 
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Faket0Fake

Handsome Prince
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This shit is why I’ve given up on dating all together. It’s hard to find someone who’s not poly, and even those who swear they’re monogamous end up getting sucked into the poly mindset. Both serious relationships I’ve been in ended with the other person suddenly deciding they’re poly. At least my ex-girlfriend had the decency to tell me before she started chasing dick behind my back.

It doesn’t help that the poly community is very good at suckering in people who are confused, naive, and unsure, which a lot of LGBT people are when they first start dating.
The LGBT community in general has a lot of issues with this culture of everyone having sex with everyone in the community and pressuring young people figuring out who they are to join in. A lot of people feel peer pressure to fit in and end up messed up from feeling used and endless bad relationships. I remember my first time in a gay club. I was really excited to finally be able to go and be out and proud, wasn't lot before I regretted it though. It felt like being a piece of fresh meat circled around by hyenas, from the minute I walked in I was hounded by several older women who were intent on plying me with drinks and attention in the hope of having sex with me. I remember being really upset afterwards because I just wanted to meet and socialize with people like me.

My first relationship was a mindfuck of being controlled and constantly cheated on with a girl incapable of returning affection and I found the local LGBT community was very dishonest and mostly interested in what you could do for them. After several crappy flings I pretty much gave up on relationships but it was when I wasn't trying to find somebody that I did find somebody who was worth caring for.

All experiences help you grow and I think it can give you real perspective on LGBT issues and SJW psychopaths ruining the community. Eventually you'll meet somebody who is down to earth and real, it just takes time to wade through the swamp.
 

Underestimated Nutria

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I am either asexual, no sex drive, autistic , or all of the above.

Asexuals totally don’t count as LGBT, so who am I kidding. :story:
I don't mean to be rude but I know a bit about this. You are almost certainly just unfit and poorly socialized. Start exercising and taking care of yourself and nature will do its thing. Of course a lot of asexuals don't have libido problems at all, evidenced by the fact that they seek masturbatory relief, but even sour-grapes-assexuality can only be helped by the above. Good luck.
 

JoyQ

“politically obsessed rtard”
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I don't mean to be rude but I know a bit about this. You are almost certainly just unfit and poorly socialized. Start exercising and taking care of yourself and nature will do its thing. Of course a lot of asexuals don't have libido problems at all, evidenced by the fact that they seek masturbatory relief, but even sour-grapes-assexuality can only be helped by the above. Good luck.
Other than personal experience what evidence do you have of this?
 

Evian Les Rutabaga

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Stfu you enjoy cocks for your anus. You are homosexual male don’t pretend like you are “better” than other homosexual males. Jesus Christ homosexual men can be so catty.
Why should everyone prefer twinks? If we don't, it's not a matter of being "better"; it's a matter of being human: something I occasionally recommend.
 
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