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[polonium]

My two cents: I tend not to make friends with gay men because they're too faggy and catty. They get on my nerves more than women sometimes. I would rather have no friends than all gay friends, because conversation always seems to veer towards sex, no matter how calm and decent it begins.

This is exactly where I'm at.
I'm absolutely sick of people who find out I'm gay being surprised at how "normal" I am, because the vast majority of gays are degenerate fuckups. The idea that having a healthy, loving relationship with your partner is somehow the exception for your group is sickening to the soul.
There's only so much exposure to that culture that you can take before it starts to eat away at you.

 

[SouthernBitchBob]

I would love to share a beer or 12 with you sometime!

I *know* you mean preening over strawberry daiquiris while talking about TV shows and debating silicone vs water lube betchhhhh.

Okay I'm stopping. There was a little dry heave there.

 

[Kornula]

I *know* you mean preening over strawberry daiquiris while talking about TV shows and debating silicone vs water lube betchhhhh.

Okay I'm stopping. There was a little dry heave there.

I have plenty of White Claw to wash out that after taste...

 

[SouthernBitchBob]

This is exactly where I'm at.
I'm absolutely sick of people who find out I'm gay being surprised at how "normal" I am, because the vast majority of gays are degenerate fuckups. The idea that having a healthy, loving relationship with your partner is somehow the exception for your group is sickening to the soul.
There's only so much exposure to that culture that you can take before it starts to eat away at you.

When I find myself getting jealous of the taken or married gays I've met, I also remember that they're all in "open relationships", cheating on one another, or clearly shacked up so they could have a default to crawl back to when they're having a scant night slutting around.

It takes the edge off the jealousy knowing they're only using the superficial trappings of the kind of relationship that I'd want myself.

 

[Had]

I'm a lesbian, so count me as one for the team

Jamie pull up lesbian abuse statistics

 

[Vingle]

Was bored and I need some time to get awake enough to get out of bed. Ended up with a fag telling me to go to therapy, because I mean pride has become a homophobic thing now.
Hate crime against gays are just increasing, but nothing is done about the niggers. Because "muh racism". So the fact that it's publicly flagged, it's just rude and they promote hatred.

I'm fine regardless, because I'm NEET and I only care for showing it in their faces.
Have fun getting your faces punched, happy pride.

 

[Wallace]

This is exactly where I'm at.
I'm absolutely sick of people who find out I'm gay being surprised at how "normal" I am, because the vast majority of gays are degenerate fuckups. The idea that having a healthy, loving relationship with your partner is somehow the exception for your group is sickening to the soul.
There's only so much exposure to that culture that you can take before it starts to eat away at you.

The number one philosophy of progressive online culture is "my feelings are all that matters", no matter what virtue it tries to cloak itself with. IMO, too much living online has created a generation of sociopaths who see other human beings as sources of narcissistic supply to be consumed and discarded. Not people, just things. Tools to pleasure yourself with. With that mindset, why would they want a relationship? Do troons have 'relationships' with their dilators?

 

[Vingle]

Do troons have 'relationships' with their dilators?

Probably, if you got one delusion already. It's an easy way for another to creep in.
It literally hurts to keep reopening a wound that's supposed to grow shut. So it's a way of deluding itself to think of a bad thing as something good. "My little womanizer is making me into a true woman".

 

[Coelacanth]

Yikes, this thread is more HIV positive than Hunter Biden's next retroviral appointment.

Random_text.txt anyone?

My two cents: I tend not to make friends with gay men because they're too faggy and catty. They get on my nerves more than women sometimes. I would rather have no friends than all gay friends, because conversation always seems to veer towards sex, no matter how calm and decent it begins.

This is exactly where I'm at.
I'm absolutely sick of people who find out I'm gay being surprised at how "normal" I am, because the vast majority of gays are degenerate fuckups. The idea that having a healthy, loving relationship with your partner is somehow the exception for your group is sickening to the soul.
There's only so much exposure to that culture that you can take before it starts to eat away at you.

Same here. I'm bi and if someone I know finds out about it they become really, really cautious because of how volatile the LGBTQAWTFOMGBBQ+ community tends to be. I can understand why, but it saddens me that people try to teeter around subjects that they think will offend me.

You know that episode of South Park where everybody becomes Metrosexual? That's the sort of shit I had to put up with in the circles I used to be a part of. Literally all they'd post about was their sexuality, or the sexuality of the characters they made for RPs and shit. In fact I'd get kicked out a lot for asking if we could talk about things that don't involve what's in your pants or what gives you a boner for being "homophobic".

 

[Hermann the German]

Random_text.txt anyone?

You can quote me if you like.

I can't believe you stayed in friend circles with queeroids like you're describing though. I've always just hung out with other misfit groups of low-key degenerates like myself

 

[SouthernBitchBob]

You can quote me if you like.

I can't believe you stayed in friend circles with queeroids like you're describing though. I've always just hung out with other misfit groups of low-key degenerates like myself

I like to think of it as an occasional sanity check. "They couldn't possibly be as obnoxious as I made them out to be. I was definitely exaggerating it...oh yep, nevermind. Yes they are. It wasn't my imagination."

 

[Dandelion Eyes]

Yikes, this thread is more HIV positive than Hunter Biden's next retroviral appointment.

My two cents: I tend not to make friends with gay men because they're too faggy and catty. They get on my nerves more than women sometimes. I would rather have no friends than all gay friends, because conversation always seems to veer towards sex, no matter how calm and decent it begins.

I'm happy with finding me a contented husky guy, similar to myself, and being the piston to his valve, if you catch my drift. Doesn't need to be more complicated than that. Just because I fuck dudes doesn't mean I need to watch RuPaul and want drag queens to teach children to be sex-positive.

That said some of you on here aren't too bad for the most part. 7/10 would have drunken conversation again

I still tend to think that the majority of homos are regular men and neither effeminate sissies nor hypermasculine beras. But I know too few of them to confirm or debunk this belief.

 

[Hermann the German]

I still tend to think that the majority of homos are regular men and neither effeminate sissies nor hypermasculine beras. But I know too few of them to confirm or debunk this belief.

I am basing my opinion on the amount and types of gay men I've personally encountered.

I live out in the sticks, not some big city, mind you. But I'm sure it's different depending on where you're at and the sort of people you get to know and hang out with.

 

[Kornula]

When I find myself getting jealous of the taken or married gays I've met, I also remember that they're all in "open relationships", cheating on one another, or clearly shacked up so they could have a default to crawl back to when they're having a scant night slutting around.

It takes the edge off the jealousy knowing they're only using the superficial trappings of the kind of relationship that I'd want myself.

I know of only one gay couple that is 99% monogamous. They seem to be quite content. In fact, I recall both of them saying they stopped going to the gay bars becasue every single gay man tried to get their relationship to "open"

Mind you, I lost touch with them shortly after 2016 as they both have a severe case of TDS

 

[Coelacanth]

I can't believe you stayed in friend circles with queeroids like you're describing though. I've always just hung out with other misfit groups of low-key degenerates like myself

A lot of it was me clinging on to the futile hope that there was at least one group who wanted to have fun RPing and other geeky things like I did when I was a kid/teen. The last group I got kicked out of last year (which gave me the biggest slap across the face I've had in a long time) pretty much showed me continuing to beat the dead horse wasn't working out and I had to let the past go.

Thankfully I've now got Dwarf Fortress to fill the void (even if Toady suffers from TDS and planning to put troon dwarves into the game) and tbh I'm happier without the need for friendship.

 

[Hermann the German]

A lot of it was me clinging on to the futile hope that there was at least one group who wanted to have fun RPing and other geeky things like I did when I was a kid/teen. The last group I got kicked out of last year (which gave me the biggest slap across the face I've had in a long time) pretty much showed me continuing to beat the dead horse wasn't working out and I had to let the past go.

Thankfully I've now got Dwarf Fortress to fill the void (even if Toady suffers from TDS and planning to put troon dwarves into the game) and tbh I'm happier without the need for friendship.

That's a shame, man. Sorry you weren't able to find some normal folks in this fucked up world of ours. Tbh I've kinda given up on making close friends, I've been finding that working on myself and being a better me, living and enjoying each day, has been way more fulfilling on the whole.

 

[SouthernBitchBob]

That's a shame, man. Sorry you weren't able to find some normal folks in this fucked up world of ours. Tbh I've kinda given up on making close friends, I've been finding that working on myself and being a better me, living and enjoying each day, has been way more fulfilling on the whole.

That's one of the best places to start. I'm lucky enough to have known my best friend since middle school. The last time I started gaining weight I tried that "metabolism slows down after 25" thing. Her: "Don't even try that with me. It's maybe 20-50 calories a day at most. You're gaining weight because you're overeating, fatty. Put the fork down." She keeps me honest.

 

[CivilianOfTheFandomWars]

I had like three hookups, then met a great guy and just kind of fell into a relationship with him. Much more comfy than hookups and definitely less weirdness.

 

[Nauseated Courgi]

Personally, I try to be a good friend to the people I associate with. "Treat others how you would want to be treated" and all that. If they don't appreciate it, then that's their loss.

 

[UntimelyDhelmise]

Few months ago I finally found an online gay group that was tolerable. Some degree of free speech (at least compared to what you'll find in just about any other alphabet soup circle), group size wasn't gargantuan so I could actually get to know folks, and I was able to speak my mind on heavier topics without getting my head bitten off.

...Unfortunately it's an open server so the numbers rapidly bloated and now it's the same mega-sized faceless group as any other and has become insufferably hugboxy to where every goddamn post is some variation of "uwu" or "yaaas queen." Why did I even bother...

The whole experience has done nothing but further cement my hatred for other gay people. It's frustrating because I love cock, but half the time anymore the moment I get that post-nut clarity it's just instant disgust over how I can't stand the overriding majority of the very thing I just coomed to. I know other sane fags exist out there, but they're all but impossible to find because they aren't going to spell out that they feel the same ways towards other men compared to the obnoxious rainbow spewers.