Losing people to transgenderism support thread - Support group for trans widows and other people who lost loved ones to troonism

[Vingle]

I don't use preferred pronouns (I use 'they' for all trans-identifying people).

But do you use they for the ones that actually want to be referred to as they? I would call them it. Don't really think anyone wants to be referred as that, and you can't really be caught in using that for passive-aggressive reasons because "I don't know what pronoun to use", and you don't get paid to care.

 

[Aaa0aaa0]

But do you use they for the ones that actually want to be referred to as they? I would call them it. Don't really think anyone wants to be referred as that, and you can't really be caught in using that for passive-aggressive reasons because "I don't know what pronoun to use", and you don't get paid to care.

I am sorry to inform you that some tards do.


Just searching it/its on twitter gives you examples.


I use they/them or their original pronouns for these people. I am not calling someone a fucking it in conversation, it is too goddamn confusing.

 

[Sinner's Sandwich]

and I hope it doesn't impact the videos he makes.

It will. It always does.

 

[Buster]

I got a couple of stories like this.

First one, Friend A, was a guy I met in middle school. Weeby autist, but he at least had enough social awareness to not make a total fool of himself. He and I bonded over our shared interest in video games (particularly RPGs, nobody else I knew was into RPGs so it was a big deal to me then).
He and I were tight and I considered him one of my best friends throughout my teenage years. After high school, he went to college, and I got a job. We still found time to hang out when we could, and for a while, everything was fine. But during his fourth year at college (I don't remember what he studied), he suddenly changed. One day, he tried to talk to me about what gender "means", and I really had no idea what to say to him. The next day, he "came out" as "agender", and I tried to humor him as best I could.
Over the next couple of years, we quickly drifted apart, and every time I saw him, he'd always want to talk about social issues and politics, even when I was clearly not interested in doing so. He became humorless and just a drag to hang out with in general.
I haven't spoken to him in a few years now, he just doesn't seem interested in being my friend anymore.

The second, Friend B, was a guy I met around the time A came out as "agender". He was similar, a weeb and an autist with whom I bonded over video games. He and I were, again, good friends for a few years, until a couple of years ago when he came out as...you guessed it, agender!
By this point I had become more than a little jaded, so I said something like "Yeah, that tracks". B got extremely upset over this, refusing to let it go, and eventually attempted to manipulate me into becoming transgender too, at which point I said fuck it and cut him loose.
Last I'd heard he's now "transfeminine non binary" and asks for "she/it" pronouns.
How the fuck does this keep happening to me?

On a more positive note, there's Friend C. Friend C is also "non binary" (more honestly, FTM transgender) and he (I'm gonna gender him as he asks, fuck you) is the greatest friend I've ever had. He was already trans when I met him, and he's super chill, super fun, and never talks about political shit.

But for real how the fuck did this become my life

 

[Vingle]

But for real how the fuck did this become my life

You aren't judgemental enough, you consider a troon one of your best friends.
It's called karma.

 

[DiscoRodeo]

I got a couple of stories like this.

First one, Friend A, was a guy I met in middle school. Weeby autist

The second, Friend B, was a guy I met around the time A came out as "agender". He was similar, a weeb and an autist with whom I bonded over

But for real how the fuck did this become my life

I feel for you man, but- there's def a pathology thats infecting tons of people, and it hits the weeby type especially hard moreso than others. Tbh, Ive got theories Im not going to go into here, but could just be the issue that anime has become incredibly moe influenced, isekei soaked, and theres just too much hentai now

 

[Had]

(before anyone asks, yes, the government is in fact paying a guy to take me to the gym)

Bro I gotta get me this deal, free gym membership and government mandated gym buddy.

 

[90theguy]

I've met about 3 that eventually trooned out


one was this wannabe game designer who eventually trooned out and became a suicidal wreck most likely trooned out due to family issues

one was this autist twitter dude who trooned out likely due to outside influence

might be more but i'm not sure

 

[Desu Mountain]

Bro I gotta get me this deal, free gym membership and government mandated gym buddy.

Technically he's not paying for my gym membership. I say technically because he's been a member of the gym for so many years they're allowing him to take one person in with him for free.

 

[Marshal Mannerheim]

My fiance's youngest sister. She's going down the nonbinary route but with how my mom in law accepts it this kid may end up going down deeper into this lunacy. It sadly started when this girl was only around ten, but it first started as "coming out as a lesbian" even though the kid hasn't really given a shit about doing anything but hide in her room watching dumb youtube/tiktok shit. It evolved into the trans bullshit once puberty started to affect her. It's obvious she's just uncomfortable, but no, god forbid you try to tell this kid otherwise.

Despite being "nonbinary" and wanting to be called a they/them, she doesn't do anything to make herself look less feminine. It's all e-girl fashion or stupid cosplay shit relating to Danganronpa. Worst part in my opinion? The girl doesn't wash her fucking hair. I've seen it be an absolute greaseball of a dyed mess and the most she'll say about it is how she "doesn't know what to do about it."

I just want to scream.

This is basically what happened to my sister. She was a tomboy, started watching Tiktok and declared she was a lesbian, then several months later started calling herself non-binary.