Losing people to transgenderism support thread - Support group for trans widows and other people who lost loved ones to troonism

[Nami-Swan]

I'm around an industry infested with troons. This story isn't heartbreaking since it was just a coworker but will spoil this just in case...

Spoiler: Just in case...

I worked with a guy at my company who was kind of a loose cannon. Coworkers were afraid to approach him about some work related things because he'd eventually flip out on you and make you feel like shit. He was also an outright socialist/commie which was annoying but he was fun to talk with about sports. He was also married to a fatty writer for an online leftist rag "news" site. The guy ended up getting fired because people were sick and tired of his shit, and the awkward thing was his boss was a close friend of his.

I hadn't heard anything about him after awhile until about 2 years later I found out he went full troon. Haven't talked to the guy since, and I hopefully never will again.

I live in a pretty blue hellhole megacity, but I've been pretty lucky to have made a lot of based and well-adjusted friends, so I don't really interact with people who are likely to join the troon train. Is it a bubble? Sure. But I sure as hell don't want to be around those kinds of people. I did meet another troon at a convention a few times and she was an insufferable Antifa sympathizing asshole who spend the entire time in the airbnb watching policial videos and talking shit about conservatives. This is also why I spend as little time as I can on discord unless it's with close friends or crypto related channels.

 

[chickenbutt]

They're hungry for another Tommy Tooter thread, since Thomas is close to kicking the bucket.

Wait, what happened to the dog molester? Last I checked he was still sperging away happily, quarantined in the safety of his subforum. Did he eat something out of the garbage again, or did he contract E. Coli from one of his disgusting trysts with another hobo?

I live in hope. For satan's sake I hope hell has Febreeze.

 

[NerdShamer]

Wait, what happened to the dog molester? Last I checked he was still sperging away happily, quarantined in the safety of his subforum. Did he eat something out of the garbage again, or did he contract E. Coli from one of his disgusting trysts with another hobo?

I live in hope. For satan's sake I hope hell has Febreeze.

Eh, you'll never know, at this rate. He isn't exactly that big on cleaning, for some reason.

 

[Gravityqueen4life]

One of my oldest friends just started calling himself cute and talking about how he wants breasts. I know this road too well. I took a shot immediately.

When will it end, Kiwis? When will the troondom end?

call him a faggot before its too late.

 

[Ser Prize]

So my sister just started testosterone.

She was always really miserable and overly aggressive so this will suck.

 

[Pokemonquistador2]

So my sister just started testosterone.

She was always really miserable and overly aggressive so this will suck.

Wait till she finds out what it does to her sex drive. Also, her pussy pass will get revoked and she'll be forced to get by on her own merits, which will come as a shock to her if she was the type of girl who expected people to listen to her because vagina.

 

[AMHOLIO]

So my sister just started testosterone.

She was always really miserable and overly aggressive so this will suck.

If you still live with her I am extra sorry for the loss and the loss of precious time to her being awful to you. If not I'm still sorry but take comfort in being away.

 

[Ser Prize]

If you still live with her I am extra sorry for the loss and the loss of precious time to her being awful to you. If not I'm still sorry but take comfort in being away.

She just moved back in. It's not fun.

She argues just like a woman, too. If you point out anything that's wrong she'll immediately get huffy and storm away, like a spoiled fucking 13 year old.

 

[AMHOLIO]

She just moved back in. It's not fun.

She argues just like a woman, too. If you point out anything that's wrong she'll immediately get huffy and storm away, like a spoiled fucking 13 year old.

Ouch. Godspeed, hope you're able to gray rock that bitch as hard as possible when you can even if she pushes your buttons, and hope you find more emotionally mature women and men to be around to balance your humors or whatever medical jargon they use nowadays.


@ everyone in this thread, hope santa brings you all good news or good prospects by the end of this month. You guys are autistic transphobe shitlords but I wish warm tidings this winter, from the hardcore muslim brotherhood of you to the most euphoric of r/atheists. Thanks for being mostly civil to each other and giving each other advice. I don't have much of a dog in this race in spite of creating the thread but I'm glad to see those who do give people troo and honest khantent and advice to each other.

 

[teriyakiburns]

I made a stupid mistake.

I went to check out an ancient fandom forum I used to inhabit on the regular, just to see if anyone was still around. It's fucking infested. All the regulars I used to know are some sort of "genderqueer" or spouting the same stock phrases in every post. There's one guy, a real fixture of the place, who moved to the US a few years back. Used to be sane. He's completely trooned out now. Gender and tranny flags everywhere, constantly harping about how female he is, the works.

The past truly is a foreign country and you should never, ever go back to it. Ever.

 

[DumbDude42]

Wait till she finds out what it does to her sex drive. Also, her pussy pass will get revoked and she'll be forced to get by on her own merits, which will come as a shock to her if she was the type of girl who expected people to listen to her because vagina.

nah this doesnt happen
pussy pass stays active until she gets to the point where she 100% passes as male and also people legitimately do not know about her trans status. only then will the pussy pass be revoked, but this is basically impossible to achieve so realistically she will keep it for life no matter how much she larps as a man

 

[Trans Ted Kaczynski]

I'm losing my best friend in the world to gender shit and my heart is broken.

Spoiler: Moping

When we met as teens she was awkward, self-conscious, and obviously gay. Over the course of about fifteen years I got to watch her transform into an amazing woman- smart, funny, interesting, and comfortable in her identity as a butch lesbian. She's the closest friend that I've ever had (the kind where we basically shared a brain) and watching her blossom was seriously one of the happiest times in my life. Then she moved to an area notorious for its genderfuckery, and everything went to shit.

As long distance friendships usually go, we didn't talk regularly, but we saw each other at least once a year, which made the gradual changes noticeably stark. A couple years ago she started going by "they". Okay, cool, I was into trans rights at the time, but I remember still feeling vaguely disappointed. I figured that I would support her in this new phase of self-discovery, but I did assume it was just a phase. New clothes, progressive pronouns, all easily undone when she finally figured out that being trans wasn't a magical cure-all to her problems.

For a long time that's all it was, until suddenly she had a gender therapist. Who, in typical gender therapist fashion, was totally willing to sign off on extreme medical procedures after one or two visits instead of talking her through her sudden discomfort with being a woman. I was shocked when I heard my friend was going on T- she had never had any interest in masculinity, or any desire to transition to male, so what the hell was the point? She was already very androgynous, and I couldn't shake the feeling that there was some kind of social pressure behind this choice. It came out of nowhere and moved alarmingly fast.

I knew I couldn't change her mind, so I quietly supported her, and when she made the choice to get a double mastectomy (cutely named "top surgery" of course) it wasn't a surprise. She had always hated her chest, and I had sort of half-expected at least a breast reduction in her future, so that actually set off fewer alarms than the T. It wasn't until I saw the aftermath that it hit me how severe of a procedure it was- she had horrific scars across her chest, nothing at all like breast reduction scars. Somebody had artlessly mutilated my best friend's healthy chest, all over this sudden trend that has young women cutting their tits off. I still feel sick when I think about it. Somehow she's happy with the results, and I hope that never changes.

As rough as the surgery was, the final nail in the coffin for me was visiting her after some time on T and hearing her new voice. I knew that it had changed, but I had no idea how it would feel to talk to her and hear a squeaky teenage boy voice come out. I loved her voice- it wasn't especially pretty, but it was my best friend's voice which made it one of my favorite sounds in the entire world. And now it's gone forever.

I'm never going to hear her voice again, and I can't fucking get past it. Her old voice is ingrained in my mind, and it's just gone. I'm never going to hear my best friend talk shit or call me an idiot again.

Her personality took the longest to change, but it finally started to go too. Everything is gender shit now. Everything is problematic. Her presence online is just gross overly-sexual art and photos of a mutilated torso. Our conversations are sad shells of what they used to be. The person that I watched blossom is fading, and I have to pretend to be okay with all of it.

We used to talk about traveling together. I'm finally making enough money to make that happen, and now I don't think it's going to. Her existence is a political statement that can only exist in a very specific environment or it all falls apart, navigating new cultures together would be a nightmare.

I've always secretly hoped that one day she'd get over this and detransition, but now I don't even know what I hope for. She's so far gone that she can't go back, she'll always have weird body hair and a prepubescent boy's voice. I'm terrified of what might happen if she ever comes to and realizes how severely she's damaged herself.

I'm just so fucking sad and angry over the whole thing. I hate this movement, and I hope that everyone who's promoting it burns.

 

[ダダダダ]

there might be a lot of powerleveling so i'll try to hide as much as i can
i've been in a lot of circle groups and always had one or two friends transition in each of them, majority ive split up with because of how much they've changed
over the course in years
these are all middle school stories but around my age being trans was like a trend or something

Spoiler

So this particular friend was a really good friend of mine, we met in middle school and it was my first year in that school. We both liked drawing and i was the one who inspired her to stop drawing on art bases and draw everything free hand, it was until in the middle of that same year she came out as trans FtM i was 13 so i didn't think much of it other than she's gonna be a different gender now and maybe its just a phase. As the years went on she slowly started changing and became sort of an sjw... and became more serious about her gender, she also started to care less and less about our friendship i felt like i was the one trying to save it most of the time, eventually i just gave up trying and she got mad but then promised she'll do better as a friend. We don't talk as much anymore as every time we made up she just goes back to being her normal self and doesn't even talk to me. A lot of her other friends have said the same thing, how she isn't consistent with her friendships and just doesn't do anything other than cater to her girlfriend. Now she begs money on her social media so she can move away from her home.

Another middle school friend, when i first encountered her she was a huge anime fan and claimed to be HALF japanese so she didn't consider herself the term weeb/weeaboo, and also only became my friend because i was Asian so there were already red flags. again it was middle school so i didn't think much of anything, she told me she was questioning her gender and thought she might be a guy but still liked being a girl. Eventually this new girl (also FtM) joined my school and probably converted her to become trans, i lost her for a few months and didn't start talking to her again until summer break, still the same as ever but as time went on her obsessions became unhealthy and i noticed a lot of patterns. She had a spam account on instagram where she would constantly thirst for fictional characters and complain how she had no friends, one day i got blocked on all my accounts and that was the end of that.

Both of these people have unhealthy copes like kinning fictional characters to represent themselves or self project on said characters, they sort of became like the people you'd see in the sjw art thread.

Anyway thats my story sorry its so lengthy.

 

[Ser Prize]

there might be a lot of powerleveling so i'll try to hide as much as i can
i've been in a lot of circle groups and always had one or two friends transition in each of them, majority ive split up with because of how much they've changed
over the course in years
these are all middle school stories but around my age being trans was like a trend or something

Spoiler

So this particular friend was a really good friend of mine, we met in middle school and it was my first year in that school. We both liked drawing and i was the one who inspired her to stop drawing on art bases and draw everything free hand, it was until in the middle of that same year she came out as trans FtM i was 13 so i didn't think much of it other than she's gonna be a different gender now and maybe its just a phase. As the years went on she slowly started changing and became sort of an sjw... and became more serious about her gender, she also started to care less and less about our friendship i felt like i was the one trying to save it most of the time, eventually i just gave up trying and she got mad but then promised she'll do better as a friend. We don't talk as much anymore as every time we made up she just goes back to being her normal self and doesn't even talk to me. A lot of her other friends have said the same thing, how she isn't consistent with her friendships and just doesn't do anything other than cater to her girlfriend. Now she begs money on her social media so she can move away from her home.

Another middle school friend, when i first encountered her she was a huge anime fan and claimed to be HALF japanese so she didn't consider herself the term weeb/weeaboo, and also only became my friend because i was Asian so there were already red flags. again it was middle school so i didn't think much of anything, she told me she was questioning her gender and thought she might be a guy but still liked being a girl. Eventually this new girl (also FtM) joined my school and probably converted her to become trans, i lost her for a few months and didn't start talking to her again until summer break, still the same as ever but as time went on her obsessions became unhealthy and i noticed a lot of patterns. She had a spam account on instagram where she would constantly thirst for fictional characters and complain how she had no friends, one day i got blocked on all my accounts and that was the end of that.

Both of these people have unhealthy copes like kinning fictional characters to represent themselves or self project on said characters, they sort of became like the people you'd see in the sjw art thread.

Anyway thats my story sorry its so lengthy.

Quick question: were these girls all into shipping homo stuff?

 

[ダダダダ]

Quick question: were these girls all into shipping homo stuff?

YES! absolutely, especially the second friend she'd constantly talk to me about her yaoi ships. im pretty sure now they both hate that term but still draw blatant gay art

 

[Ser Prize]

YES! absolutely, especially the second friend she'd constantly talk to me about her yaoi ships. im pretty sure now they both hate that term but still draw blatant gay art

Then that explains it. I've seen many, many yaoi obsessed fujos who decided they want to be "uwu aidens".

 

[Muttnik]

I'm losing my best friend in the world to gender shit and my heart is broken.

Spoiler: Moping

When we met as teens she was awkward, self-conscious, and obviously gay. Over the course of about fifteen years I got to watch her transform into an amazing woman- smart, funny, interesting, and comfortable in her identity as a butch lesbian. She's the closest friend that I've ever had (the kind where we basically shared a brain) and watching her blossom was seriously one of the happiest times in my life. Then she moved to an area notorious for its genderfuckery, and everything went to shit.

As long distance friendships usually go, we didn't talk regularly, but we saw each other at least once a year, which made the gradual changes noticeably stark. A couple years ago she started going by "they". Okay, cool, I was into trans rights at the time, but I remember still feeling vaguely disappointed. I figured that I would support her in this new phase of self-discovery, but I did assume it was just a phase. New clothes, progressive pronouns, all easily undone when she finally figured out that being trans wasn't a magical cure-all to her problems.

For a long time that's all it was, until suddenly she had a gender therapist. Who, in typical gender therapist fashion, was totally willing to sign off on extreme medical procedures after one or two visits instead of talking her through her sudden discomfort with being a woman. I was shocked when I heard my friend was going on T- she had never had any interest in masculinity, or any desire to transition to male, so what the hell was the point? She was already very androgynous, and I couldn't shake the feeling that there was some kind of social pressure behind this choice. It came out of nowhere and moved alarmingly fast.

I knew I couldn't change her mind, so I quietly supported her, and when she made the choice to get a double mastectomy (cutely named "top surgery" of course) it wasn't a surprise. She had always hated her chest, and I had sort of half-expected at least a breast reduction in her future, so that actually set off fewer alarms than the T. It wasn't until I saw the aftermath that it hit me how severe of a procedure it was- she had horrific scars across her chest, nothing at all like breast reduction scars. Somebody had artlessly mutilated my best friend's healthy chest, all over this sudden trend that has young women cutting their tits off. I still feel sick when I think about it. Somehow she's happy with the results, and I hope that never changes.

As rough as the surgery was, the final nail in the coffin for me was visiting her after some time on T and hearing her new voice. I knew that it had changed, but I had no idea how it would feel to talk to her and hear a squeaky teenage boy voice come out. I loved her voice- it wasn't especially pretty, but it was my best friend's voice which made it one of my favorite sounds in the entire world. And now it's gone forever.

I'm never going to hear her voice again, and I can't fucking get past it. Her old voice is ingrained in my mind, and it's just gone. I'm never going to hear my best friend talk shit or call me an idiot again.

Her personality took the longest to change, but it finally started to go too. Everything is gender shit now. Everything is problematic. Her presence online is just gross overly-sexual art and photos of a mutilated torso. Our conversations are sad shells of what they used to be. The person that I watched blossom is fading, and I have to pretend to be okay with all of it.

We used to talk about traveling together. I'm finally making enough money to make that happen, and now I don't think it's going to. Her existence is a political statement that can only exist in a very specific environment or it all falls apart, navigating new cultures together would be a nightmare.

I've always secretly hoped that one day she'd get over this and detransition, but now I don't even know what I hope for. She's so far gone that she can't go back, she'll always have weird body hair and a prepubescent boy's voice. I'm terrified of what might happen if she ever comes to and realizes how severely she's damaged herself.

I'm just so fucking sad and angry over the whole thing. I hate this movement, and I hope that everyone who's promoting it burns.

I hate how often this thread gets me teary-eyed.

 

[LillWeeb]

Then that explains it. I've seen many, many yaoi obsessed fujos who decided they want to be "uwu aidens".

dang i know are girl who is troonning out, and not did start the T yet, but wants to be called Aiden, seems like its always that name, always

 

[Ser Prize]

dang i know are girl who is troonning out, and not did start the T yet, but wants to be called Aiden, seems like its always that name, always

They go for inoffensive names. Kai, Aiden, etc. In my sister's case she wants to be known as 'Gabe'.

 

[ダダダダ]

They go for inoffensive names. Kai, Aiden, etc. In my sister's case she wants to be known as 'Gabe'.

Other common trans names I came across was Kyle, Eli, and Alex