He wont listen. If hes 36 and still acts like a shitty 17 year old then it's far too late. If he hasn't gotten a clue yet then he wont. It's cynical to think this but unfortunately it's the only optimism I can share if you want to call it that. Far too many people have tried to help this dude and far too many times hes done this bullshit and then some. Trying to help a 36 year old, grown ass adult to do the most basic things is a waste of fucking time. He should have gotten his shit together literal years ago.

