Misophonia -

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Misophonia, literally "hatred of sound", is a rarely diagnosed disorder, commonly thought to be of neurological origin, in which negative emotions (anger, fright, hatred, disgust) are triggered by specific sounds. The sounds can be loud or soft.

People who have misophonia are most commonly angered by specific sounds, such as lip-smacking, slurping, throat-clearing, nail-clipping, chewing, drinking, tooth-brushing, breathing, sniffing, talking, sneezing, yawning, walking, gum-chewing or popping, laughing, snoring, swallowing, gulping, burping, clicking dentures, typing, coughing, humming, whistling, singing, certain consonants, or repetitive sounds.[13][14] Sufferers experience fight/flight symptoms such as sweating, muscle tension, and quickened heartbeat. Some are also affected by visual stimuli, such as repetitive foot or body movements, fidgeting, or movement they observe out of the corners of their eyes. Intense anxiety and avoidance behaviour often develops, which can lead to decreased socialization. Some people feel the compulsion to mimic what they hear or see.[15] Mimicry is an automatic, non-conscious, and social phenomenon. It has a palliative aspect, making the sufferer feel better. The act of mimicry can elicit compassion and empathy, which ameliorates and lessens hostility, competition, and opposition. There is also a biological basis for how mimicry reduces the suffering from a trigger.[6]


Individual reports of extreme emotions in response to triggers have been empirically validated by measuring the skin conductance of misophonic individuals exposed to sustained trigger stimuli.[1] Skin conductance began increasing 2 seconds after trigger onset and continued to increase for the duration of the trigger.
[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Misophonia]
[http://www.misophonia.com/symptoms-triggers/]

Misophonia is something I've suffered from my whole life, repetitive sounds and fidgeting bothering me for some reason I hadn't understood until diagnosis. But even then, I don't know what causes it or why certain sounds bother me and some don't. For example, tapping, humming, and soft singing bother me most, while others hear water dripping or people chewing something crunchy and go completely off the wall at the sound. It makes them want to either lash out or run away.

It's stated on the homepage of http://www.misophonia.com/ that it's not a hypersensitivity to sound, but instead an emotional/psychological response. In my experience, that's true, but it's still an odd concept.

Thoughts?
 

Resident Tranny

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I've had it my whole life as well and it's only worsened as I've aged. Chewing, slurping, the "mhms" and "ahs". The weird part, or at least I think it's weird, is that for some reason I enjoy ASMR videos with tapping, brushing, and crinkling.

One of my family members likes to slurp on his fingers after eating hot wings and words cannot describe how much I want to freak the fuck out. It's a very sucky and lonely thing to have.
 

ZehnBoat

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I've had it my whole life as well and it's only worsened as I've aged. Chewing, slurping, the "mhms" and "ahs". The weird part, or at least I think it's weird, is that for some reason I enjoy ASMR videos with tapping, brushing, and crinkling.

One of my family members likes to slurp on his fingers after eating hot wings and words cannot describe how much I want to freak the fuck out. It's a very sucky and lonely thing to have.
hmm, yes
 

NumberingYourState

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I have to have white noise to sleep at night. I don't have Tinnitus, but I had it once during a nasty bout of Strep Throat, heard endless ringing I was up for days. Couldn't stop listening to white noise afterwards, anxious that I could hear that damned ringing noise at any moment again. Couldn't stand sleeping without it in my own room.

Live too damn close to one of those emergency siren/Doppler towers that sound off after every other three weeks. Grateful that it doesn't happen every single day, like in some states apparently, but now every time it shoots off I improvise (stupid unhealthy) methods to block the sound.

Can't just move elsewhere either.
 

yasscat

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Yeeeep. I know this feel. (Shout out to synesthesia for making it worse.)

I cannot fucking stand the sound of coughing, to the point where I involuntarily glare at people when they cough, even just once. I feel terrible about it, because obviously I know people can't help if they're sick, but jesus fucking christ that sound drives me up the damn wall.
 

ZehnBoat

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Oh yeah, big time. Some folks I suppose can handle it depending on the sound, but I'm one of the ones that absolutely can't listen without getting bothered by it.
i don't think i can ever get into your head.
I'm an audiophile.
not in the "I buy overpriced audio equipment that doesn't have any noticeable improvement" way
but in the "I like to hear things" way
I love to listen to things (i'm getting close to powerleverling i think)
although small things, little sounds are a favorite.

Yeeeep. I know this feel. (Shout out to synesthesia for making it worse.)
oh my god
i am grateful i don't have synesthesia
i know a lot of other musicians say it's great.
but it sounds like shit
 

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It's a mixed bag. It's awesome when writing music. Shitty when you're surrounded by small children shrieking.
I actually feel terrible about another sound driving me up the wall being small children's voices. They can't help it and children are prone to talk a lot and make noise, but I have too much trouble sticking around kids for long.

Hell, and that thing about needing to sleep with white noise on? I have to do that too, or else I'll notice every little sound around me as I try to sleep.
 

ZehnBoat

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It's a mixed bag. It's awesome when writing music. Shitty when you're surrounded by small children shrieking.
tbh, making music is the thing that makes it sound shit.
it sounds like it would be a somewhat limiting factor since you want your experiences to link well together or something like that.
i'm happy fiddling with knobs and making noises that sound interesting and new to me.
i don't really want something to get in the way of that
 

Tookie

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Loud chewing (especially gum) and whistling are surefire ways to drive me out of my mind. Whistling is more like nails on a chalkboard to me while gum chewing makes me fantasize about becoming a mass shooter.
 

Goddessoftheshire

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I can't stand it when people chew it drives me up the wall. I'm also one of those people that have to play white noise to get to sleep at night, or I can hear every little sound in my home. I have always been this way as long as I can remember.
 

Silver

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I once had a bout of involuntary shaking and stress that lasted an entire class period because some jackass at my table wouldn't stop smacking his gum with his mouth open. I don't know that I have full misophonia but god if some shit doesn't get to me.

I'm also in the white noise club. I can sleep without it, but it's a lot more difficult. To make things worse, if the white noise is either a) rhythmic (even including like noise machines that have loops that can be identified) or b) human voices, I end up hyperfocusing on those aspects and cannot sleep at all. The white noise has to be purely a sound mass.
 

Too Many Crooks

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The sound of people clicking their tongues infuriates me for some reason. I also hate the sound of tapping, and soft humming.
 

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So white noise is common to listen to with you all? I wonder why it doesn't affect anyone as strongly as say, someone humming or breathing through their mouth. Even static can get on one's nerves. Is it because it's just pure sound without a noticeable break?

Oh, how many of you always listened to white noise? I have since I'd been very young, and nowadays can't sleep without it. If I go on vacation, my white noise machine is coming with me.
 

NumberingYourState

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White noise machines are the most practical due to their likeness to rushing winds or waters, without a pattern buffer. Natural Noise in the Brown/Red spectrum have an almost intoxicating lull as it doesn't reminisce of 'gross' or 'tacky' noises. Download Relax Noise 3, hook your device up to a portable speaker, and set it to double generator mode on Red Noise for best results.
 
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Putato

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It seems to also be a genetic thing. My mother, sister, and I all have it. I personally hate chewing and nail clipping. I've also read somewhere (citation needed) that it has a connection to people who can hear higher frequencies than average.
 
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