Most hurtful thing someone said to you - Bonus points if it came from a loved one

[Monika H.]

After the "nicest thing" thread, let's make the opposite.
Kiwis, what's the most hurtful thing someone said to you? Something that gave you the feeling of your heart being slashed by a bunch of thorns? Did they end up regretting it, after seeing how they hurt you?

Share your stories.

 

[Dolphin Lundgren]

A year after my mother died from Cancer I get a letter from my father. In the letter he says that my mother wanted me to become closer to Jesus and find God again. (I now realize that my mother wouldn't have done something like this and it's probably my father talking.)
It's the most hurtful thing ever said for me because it made me feel tons of guilt for not pretending to be religious when my mother was sick. And it's the most fucked up thing anyone ever said to me after she died.

Also the worst thing: My father texting me saying that I killed my mother. (Basically "you killed your mother, you're the reason she died. You murdered her.") ETC. It really hurt to even have that said after I lost a person I was close with my whole life.

(I don't know if he regretted it. I cut him off after the texting incident.)

 

[skiddlez]

What are you doing with all this information anyway?

 

[RG 448]

“You’re the sexiest man I’ve ever seen.”

I couldn’t believe a super model would just assume my gender like that...

 

[IV 445]

Well, my mom once called me a “son of a bitch”. she realized her mistake before she could take it back and laughed.

 

[Monika H.]

What are you doing with all this information anyway?

Just want to share some stories and let people talk. Maybe vent, if they feel like it.

 

[skiddlez]

none of it effects me.

I wish an English book would affect you.

Edit: >when you diss someone so hard they eat a fucking ban

 

[BILLY MAYS]

"Your mom gay"

 

[m0rnutz]

Slut ex got pregnant. When I asked her when it happened, she blamed it on me over her getting drunk at a party. "You shouldn't have messaged my mom" It wasn't my kid.

Next relationship had BPD. Never could tell the truth and would block me at a moment's notice only to pretend they never did it. Told them I was done, got "I don't care".

Had a friend cut me off for my conservative perspectives. When they were going through relationship drama, I messaged the other party. Friend got angry and started to smear me as a pedophilic woman-beater. Everything he was.

I don't have much luck with people.

 

[Black Waltz]

Someone I once considered my best friend pretty much said that I was an annoying creep and that we had nothing in common.

 

[8777BB5]

I hope you know that you're the reason abortion is legal!

 

[Sissy]

"Im gonna kill you, tranny!"

 

[ES 148]

"ur baned forevr" - ROBLOX mods

 

[Black Waltz]

"ur baned forevr" - ROBLOX mods

oof

 

[AcornsAreForever]

My mother called me her "little failure" and said she'd never loved me, that most of the time, she barely liked me. I thought she had said it out of anger, but years later we were talking about that day and she confirmed it. When I asked why, she looked at me like how could I possibly ask such a thing. She blinked and said it was because I was born. Alrighty then. Like that was my choice. Then again, this is the same bitch who stood around watching while my father beat me. It was such fun being the scapegoat child!

And she and my father wonder why I've cut them out of mine and my family's lives .As my Chihuahua always says "FUCK THAT SHIT! They never deserved you anyway!"

 

[MaxiMax]

I don't really give a fuck about anything so it's not really easy to hurt me. Combined with my really low self esteem and I'm pretty much immune from this sort of things... I just shrug off and continue with my day without really a care about something like this.

The few times I was hurt by someone was ironically when people didn't say something to me.
I can always roll with someone scolding me and saying "mean things" to me. But someone being so fed up with my shit that they don't even bother to talk to me or to react to what I doing... The silent treatment... Yeah... It happened only two times in my entire life and it was the most awful feeling I've ever felt.

But for one of this occasion I totally deserved it, so in insight it was the right call to make for him.

 

[HIVidaBoheme]

My dad found out i liked other guys before I came out, and told me it made him sick and is unnatural.

He recently apologized, but i let him know how much it hurt.

 

[From The Uncanny Valley]

My ex-friend said she loved giving up on me and called me an emotionally manipulative abuser...just because I called her a bitch.

 

[Black Waltz]

My ex-friend said she loved giving up on me and called me an emotionally manipulative abuser...just because I called her a bitch.

mine called me that too

 

[MarvinTheParanoidAndroid]

Most hurtful thing said to me? Gonna be a while before I find it.