Royal Skull
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I have a male friend who was close to me, who is completely in love with another one of my friends, my best friend, who is a girl. Important note, she is also a lesbian. Nothing weird about that. But things get complicated. See, my BFF likes to cuddle with people, and one of those people who she cuddles with is my male friend. The thing is, me and another one of my friends, who is also an extremely close friend of hers, have catched the guy doing things to her taking advantage of how completely unconscious she is while she sleeps, doing things like kissing her face, whispering in her ear things like "I love you" and such, and putting his hands near her private places, like her legs or near her breasts. Our BFF seems to acknowledge this, and doesn't give it too much importance, but us as friends are really worried about how bad this is for her and the guy. We feel she is in danger sleeping with him, knowing he has had episodes where his hormones have beaten his common sense, like trying to touch her butt while she slept, and we fear he might scale the situation up to a much more serious action. This might be a bit of an exaggeration but one can never know what might happen.
The girl has always been indirect about it, but she has made clear to us she holds no deeper feelings towards the guy, yet he is still deluded about his chances with her, always following her around everywhere she goes, only talking to her, almost stalker-like.
What is your role in all of this? Well, me and my non-lesbian friend plan on talking to the guy about how this situation is no longer bearable for us, and express our concerns about what he has done, and who knows maybe still does, to her while they sleep. Thing is, we aren't sure about how to go about it: how we should talk to him, in what tone, if we should talk with our BFF and him, long etcetera.
I need your advice in how to treat this complicated dilemma, and what is the right thing for us to do in this situation: if we should talk to him or not, if we should talk with both of them, if we should tell our BFF beforehand we talk with the guy, and so on.
Kiwifarms, help us. You're our only hope
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TL;DR: guy likes lesbian, lesbian doesn't, they cuddle tho but guy abuses her body in doing so, we're tired of this and we want to end it by talking to him, but don't know how, need your help.
The girl has always been indirect about it, but she has made clear to us she holds no deeper feelings towards the guy, yet he is still deluded about his chances with her, always following her around everywhere she goes, only talking to her, almost stalker-like.
What is your role in all of this? Well, me and my non-lesbian friend plan on talking to the guy about how this situation is no longer bearable for us, and express our concerns about what he has done, and who knows maybe still does, to her while they sleep. Thing is, we aren't sure about how to go about it: how we should talk to him, in what tone, if we should talk with our BFF and him, long etcetera.
I need your advice in how to treat this complicated dilemma, and what is the right thing for us to do in this situation: if we should talk to him or not, if we should talk with both of them, if we should tell our BFF beforehand we talk with the guy, and so on.
Kiwifarms, help us. You're our only hope
.TL;DR: guy likes lesbian, lesbian doesn't, they cuddle tho but guy abuses her body in doing so, we're tired of this and we want to end it by talking to him, but don't know how, need your help.
