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BigRuler

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To be fair, the things most women care about are boring and shitty. Quite a few have no real interests or passions at all.
nah
it's true that some common male interests (science and tech, DIY related stuff around the house) are a lot more useful and valuable than some classic female interests (fashion and beauty, celebrity gossip)

but plenty of things many men care about are equally boring and shitty as the womens nonsense: capeshit movies instead of romcoms, sportsball on TV instead of sex and the city, anime and video games instead of romance novels and telenovelas, etc.
 

NotSendingTheirBest

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nah
it's true that some common male interests (science and tech, DIY related stuff around the house) are a lot more useful and valuable than some classic female interests (fashion and beauty, celebrity gossip)

but plenty of things many men care about are equally boring and shitty as the womens nonsense: capeshit movies instead of romcoms, sportsball on TV instead of sex and the city, anime and video games instead of romance novels and telenovelas, etc.
Literally just said that a few pages prior. However, with the women their generalized-ness is more pronounced because they're more emotional and they select partners.
 

FierceBrosnan

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You're both right. It's a twofold issue. Social norms change, interactions change, and while there are general behavioral societal guidelines, every person is different so what is okay with me isn't okay with PETA or the Girl Scouts. That shit can get frustratingly confusing at times because you never truly know what another person will accept until you really get to know them. And some people are just oddballs by nature so they'll have a harder time clicking with someone and it makes socializing and dating less fun that having teeth pulled.

Then on the flipside from the nurture standpoint we've got individuals that were either abused ( emotinally, physically, sexually, take your pick) throughout their formative years so they have a warped view on what is right and wrong in any relationship. Or they grew up in a household where their parents were awful to each other so they grew up thinking "yeah okay this is how mom and dad acted" so that's what an adult relationship is to them. Then you've got your Elliot Rodger types that had everything given to them and their sense of entitlement grew into full blown sociopathy ( or he was always just fucking nuts, hard to say once they take some 9mm aspirin).

Combine these things with our always online, everything right now, super entitled, and super quick to judge culture and you're going to have a geneeration of young men and women ( and whatever the fuck in between because it's current year go nuts) that have absolutely no idea how to interact with each other in a healthy way.

So Tl;dr: shit sux and I'm really overthinking this.
 

AnOminous

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This thread is a really good honeypot for baiting bitter nice guys, huh? :story:
The kind of people who go into a thread to make fun of a specific species of sped and then get angry because they literally are that species of sped are often also blind to the irony of their situation. Nice guys are even worse than Kiwi furries who at least usually get the irony.
 

NotSendingTheirBest

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I don't get the type that writes treatises in Nicese and Incelese though.

I know why people write long screeds but why speak like a sped too? What is their thought process when they do that?
 

Spl00gies

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Don't be a dick but don't be a pussy. It's quite straightforward in any human relationship. I understand that there are black and white thinkers in all aspects of life/goals/desires but it's really quite simple.

It's just not that hard.

donate to good causes and do good deeds without telling others, look after your parteners' and friends' interests as well as your own. Stop pitting your lack of self-esteem and self-respect against those you put on some bejewelled pedestal, norm the fuck up for once and get along with it like most people do (even tards - watch any episode of 'The Undateables' and prove me wrong). Nice boys are undateable and could do with learning some dating tips from some actual speds that are often genuinely considered to be a lower class of citizen yet often manage to find love, happiness and fulfillment in adult romantic relationships while contributing in some meaningful way to society.
 

NotSendingTheirBest

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I'm convinced that the only women some of the current posters in this thread know are from a 1980s sitcom.
Majority of men and women are, to an extent, sitcom characters.

Sitcoms exist because we like to laugh at our exaggerated selves, pretending it's not us.

But when you remove the laugh track, men and women are shit, looking out for themselves and to get others, before they get you.
 

Crunchy Leaf

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To be fair, the things most women care about are boring and shitty. Quite a few have no real interests or passions at all.
I'm assuming your mom cares about you a lot then, hunh? Good for you!

nah
it's true that some common male interests (science and tech, DIY related stuff around the house) are a lot more useful and valuable than some classic female interests (fashion and beauty, celebrity gossip)

but plenty of things many men care about are equally boring and shitty as the womens nonsense: capeshit movies instead of romcoms, sportsball on TV instead of sex and the city, anime and video games instead of romance novels and telenovelas, etc.
Sewing and cooking are the most classic female interests of all, which are equally useful if not more than woodworking, and are what's comparable to 'DIY stuff related stuff around the house'. I don't understand why men think women only care about makeup, but, nice guy honeypot thread is what it is.
 
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Crunchy Leaf

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maybe among 80+ year old grannies lmao
but that's obviously not the demographics we were talking about here
oh yeah sorry I forgot that Europeans don't have the same 'homemade/craft revival' thing that America does right now where young people are inexplicably becoming interested in knitting/canning/other pioneer type activities
 
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NotSendingTheirBest

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oh yeah sorry I forgot that Europeans don't have the same 'homemade/craft revival' thing that America does right now where young people are inexplicably becoming interested in knitting/canning/other pioneer type activities
Do you mind a proof for your words? About DIY revival in America.
 

Poop Chute

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There are literally fucking classes you can take to improve social skills. If you're an adult in this day and age and still act socially inept, it's your own goddamn fault.
 
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There are literally fucking classes you can take to improve social skills. If you're an adult in this day and age and still act socially inept, it's your own goddamn fault.
I can only imagine the autism content of such a class... Learning social skills from a fucking college professor?

"First lesson: Snap instead of clapping because blablabla"
"Second lesson: Love the ladycock"
 
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Poop Chute

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I can only imagine the autism content of such a class... Learning social skills from a fucking college professor?

"First lesson: Snap instead of clapping because blablabla"
"Second lesson: Love the ladycock"
Real classes from therapists and behavioral intervention groups, not community college sperges.

They go over things like body language, eye contact, appropriate conversation starters, how to understand when someone is politely trying to get away, normal shit that most people intrinsically know but they just don't get. It can be a very valuable resource but the catch is people need to have enough self awareness to actually use it.

Or, they can just continue to bitch that girls want what they do too; someone they get along with that they're actually attracted to. What harpies.
 

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