Plagued Nice Guys -

NotSendingTheirBest

YOU SEE TO SOMEONE, SOMEWHERE, OH YEEAH...
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@NotSendingTheirBest Given your massive victim-complex, the fact that you repeatedly hyperfocus on the trivial details of our posts while ignoring their overall message, continue to make excuses for your situation, and seem to take figures of speech literally, I think I'm starting to understand why you don't have a girlfriend.
Well, I am on Kiwi Farms after all. :biggrin:
 

Popoto

Carbly Hydrated
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To bring the fucking thread back on track, let us examine why nice guys should not get laid:


I’m a late-20s woman. I recently went on few dates with a “nice,” cute guy, and we hit it off enough that I invited him up after the third date. When we started having sex, all was fine—uninspired maybe, but fine—until, when we were marching to the finish, he started saying pretty horrible things to me. First it was “whore,” then “you like that, you stupid slut?” and then one other thing I’m not even going to type. I was extremely turned off and wish I had said so immediately—if he had been paying attention to my face at all, he would have noticed. It was weird after, and he left. He is now texting me as if he’s confused why I was distant. I know I should have told him on the spot, but I was kind of stunned. Is there any hope with a guy who thinks it’s normal to do that? Does any man really think this is what a woman (or a man, for that matter) wants to hear, unless they’ve asked to be degraded? Others have told me this is more of a tic than anything for a lot of guys. Like, really?

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Rebis

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Yeah that’s just a guy that’s spent way too much time paying attention to male fantasy content and not enough time paying attention to actual women. Some women actually do get off to that sort of name-calling, but that’s not “first time we have sex” shit.

I’m not even sure if that’s technically “nice guy” material but I think it stems from the same root cause; guys learning about life from porn, hollywood movies, and anime instead of learning what real life is actually like.
 

BigRuler

lmao bottom text
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Popoto

Carbly Hydrated
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this isnt even nice guy(tm) content, this is just some roastie writing an article about one of her random hook-ups being into porn-inspired dirty talk lol
It's the "he is now messaging me as if he has no idea" that gives the classic nice guy vibes and their bipolar swings between leaking soy and screaming for tendies.

Once he thought he got it hook, line and sinker, the mask dropped.

Also, nice outing yourself as a Nice Guy there.
 

CamelCursive

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for reference, these are nice guys(tm):

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This guy's kinda cringy, but overall it's that bio that needs work- expecting a woman to shave her legs, take a shower, and not be a used-up whore? That's... pretty standard shit. But then again, feminists have problems when women are expected to be responsible adults. If anything can convince me that women should go back to being property and housemaids, it's feminism. Luckily, I ignore feminists more often than I ignore any complaining woman.
 

Cryonic Haunted Bullets

Niemals schlafen! Alles Lügen!
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FierceBrosnan

Still 100% Daddy, don't ever think otherwise.
True & Honest Fan
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Sex is not a masturbation session, you can't just say or do whatever you feel like to get yourself off without any regard to the other party.
Right? It's good to know what your partner is into before you whip out the dirty talk and sock puppets. Which if you're getting to the point of hooking up SOMEONE should have already said something about what flies with them in the bedroom. I've never had spontaneous dicking just happen, there is always some lead up, always talk, always seeing what each other are into before anything happens. So that being said if the author and the dude already had these convos and he still went full porntard in the middle of sex then yeah he's a douche.
 

CamelCursive

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I actually knew a guy who was a 'nice guy' and had to rehabilitate this faggot before he pulled the trigger on himself. And I mean that literally, because I was the only dude that ever talked to him.

Truth of it was, he was a guy with a single mom and two whiny older sisters- and trust me, they were the exact sort of gashes that were always alone and miserable, the sort that you don't want your girlfriend to know because their opinion is always that you're a piece of shit and she needs to leave you (misery loves company).

And this dude was always "that guy friend" that girls used to dump their emotional baggage onto, but never gave him the time of day. They'd just tell him how awful their boyfriends were, and he'd sit there and say "that's so awful, I could never do that to you!" - a real subscriber to the "believe all women" before it was a thing. To him, these girls he liked were always angels that could do no wrong- despite the fact that every time he came swooping in to comfort these girls, they'd have their ankles behind their ears in a few hours for that "asshole" boyfriend.

No, really- this pussy would go and "be there for them" and then give the bitch a ride to her boyfriend's house.

I don't have 'game', I'm not a smooth charmer, I'm not a Chad- but I'm no virgin, and I don't struggle to find it if I'm looking for it- and that's because I had mentors and positive male influences/role models, and I learned from watching and listening that a LOT of women can sense insincerity and weakness. I had women explicitly tell me they'd complain to a guy, but tell them something where she was obviously in the wrong- just to see of the dude had enough balls to actually say, "Well, you were wrong" in some way or another. Some things I learned the hard way, but fortunately I learn faster than the average exceptional individual.

It wasn't hard to help him, once a few people sat down with him (including some actual women that weren't using him). This guy didn't reach that point where he says, "Being nice fails, they all like assholes, so I'm gonna treat them all like shit!" Well, yeah, it works sometimes because some women do like an asshole that makes them upset so they can have a pity-party, but then that's basically category Epsilon-6 THOT-enabling, according to the manual and has been considered a Patrol-response event since the Wilson-Engersol event of 1996.

He just took some time, and focused on doing what he enjoyed. He stopped being some girl's bitch and pity-pillow, and actually started to ask them for help just to see what they'd do (surprise, they never had time when he needed them). I'm actually proud of this faggot, because to this very day- I've heard him tell his son and daughter- "If you're not getting what you're giving, then you're just throwing it in the trash".
 

NotSendingTheirBest

YOU SEE TO SOMEONE, SOMEWHERE, OH YEEAH...
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I actually knew a guy who was a 'nice guy' and had to rehabilitate this faggot before he pulled the trigger on himself. And I mean that literally, because I was the only dude that ever talked to him.

Truth of it was, he was a guy with a single mom and two whiny older sisters- and trust me, they were the exact sort of gashes that were always alone and miserable, the sort that you don't want your girlfriend to know because their opinion is always that you're a piece of shit and she needs to leave you (misery loves company).

And this dude was always "that guy friend" that girls used to dump their emotional baggage onto, but never gave him the time of day. They'd just tell him how awful their boyfriends were, and he'd sit there and say "that's so awful, I could never do that to you!" - a real subscriber to the "believe all women" before it was a thing. To him, these girls he liked were always angels that could do no wrong- despite the fact that every time he came swooping in to comfort these girls, they'd have their ankles behind their ears in a few hours for that "asshole" boyfriend.

No, really- this pussy would go and "be there for them" and then give the bitch a ride to her boyfriend's house.

I don't have 'game', I'm not a smooth charmer, I'm not a Chad- but I'm no virgin, and I don't struggle to find it if I'm looking for it- and that's because I had mentors and positive male influences/role models, and I learned from watching and listening that a LOT of women can sense insincerity and weakness. I had women explicitly tell me they'd complain to a guy, but tell them something where she was obviously in the wrong- just to see of the dude had enough balls to actually say, "Well, you were wrong" in some way or another. Some things I learned the hard way, but fortunately I learn faster than the average exceptional individual.

It wasn't hard to help him, once a few people sat down with him (including some actual women that weren't using him). This guy didn't reach that point where he says, "Being nice fails, they all like assholes, so I'm gonna treat them all like shit!" Well, yeah, it works sometimes because some women do like an asshole that makes them upset so they can have a pity-party, but then that's basically category Epsilon-6 THOT-enabling, according to the manual and has been considered a Patrol-response event since the Wilson-Engersol event of 1996.

He just took some time, and focused on doing what he enjoyed. He stopped being some girl's bitch and pity-pillow, and actually started to ask them for help just to see what they'd do (surprise, they never had time when he needed them). I'm actually proud of this faggot, because to this very day- I've heard him tell his son and daughter- "If you're not getting what you're giving, then you're just throwing it in the trash".
You're a wonderful human being and a good friend. Hope your faggot returned your help and kindness ten-fold.
 

Crunchy Leaf

cronch
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This guy's kinda cringy, but overall it's that bio that needs work- expecting a woman to shave her legs, take a shower, and not be a used-up whore? That's... pretty standard shit. But then again, feminists have problems when women are expected to be responsible adults. If anything can convince me that women should go back to being property and housemaids, it's feminism. Luckily, I ignore feminists more often than I ignore any complaining woman.
he only showers a couple of times a week! don't expect what you don't offer.
and if you don't shave your legs, your girlfriend isn't obligated to do so either, on the same principle. i mean i assume you're a fag because the only men on kiwifarms who get laid easily are so I realize this doesn't apply to you personally but still.
 

CamelCursive

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he only showers a couple of times a week! don't expect what you don't offer.
LOL I missed that.

I knew a guy that subscribed to this mindset, because "It's bad for your skin, you're not supposed to". Of course, this was in the Corps and back then... you could do some rough shit like have the MP's come and 'clean him up' at the PMO detention center. Yes, they use the hose and restrain you while they scrub you.

The MP's called it a "training opportunity" (they have to do that to some detainees). We called it "a valuable lesson".

I can't even imagine wearing the same pair of underwear for more than 12 hours, much less not taking at least one shower a day.
 
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Crunchy Leaf

cronch
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LOL I missed that.

I knew a guy that subscribed to this mindset, because "It's bad for your skin, you're not supposed to". Of course, this was in the Corps and back then... you could do some rough shit like have the MP's come and 'clean him up' at the PMO detention center. Yes, they use the hose and restrain you while they scrub you.

The MP's called it a "training opportunity" (they have to do that to some detainees). We called it "a valuable lesson".

I can't even imagine wearing the same pair of underwear for more than 12 hours, much less not taking at least one shower a day.
I've seen guys online say they wash their hair with dish soap because it's cheaper. I am sure they whine about how women don't like it.
 
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CamelCursive

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You're a wonderful human being and a good friend. Hope your faggot returned your help and kindness ten-fold.
He was young and stupid, and it's not rare and everyone's guilty of some degree of this shit. I did the same "nice guy" shit a couple of times before I learned how it was just doing myself no favors- and even worse, it actually doesn't actually help the person you're trying to help (and let's be honest, many times you're not trying to help for selfless reasons when you're doing this). It can actually cause a person to develop a lot of negative patterns of behavior without ever having to resolve their own issues.

I didn't do it because I cared about him so much, I did it because quite honestly it was just fucking disgusting to watch and I couldn't let a THOT-Enabling event like this perpetuate until it became a full Cobalt-Class contamination like the Parkinsdale Convergence of 1987.

No, really- it was fucking agonizing and obnoxious. But we actually became friends, and he's happy and we laugh about it sometimes when we catch up on holidays.
 

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