Those are all symptoms of any personality disorder. I believe she has npd not bpd which are similar in ways but completely opposite in how one perceives themselves. Npd have grandiose sense of self, bpd see themselves as worthless/burden ect. She's way too entitled and self absorbed ect.Oh, she most certainly has BPD. There is no doubt in my mind watching how she manipulates and grooms, how she lashes out, how she takes on the grandiose "plans", constant resetting of goal posts, the rapid moving in with new partners. There's no damn way she doesn't have BPD. She presents every single symptom. We'll never know for sure, though, because she's got this booboo.