Peace Please? -

[Optimus Prime]

So, is the war still on?

Anyways, like @Optimus Prime said, Jay just wants to feel superior to us.

I don't think it ever ended for him.

 

[Fashhole]

I think he was trying to make us confess that we are just as fucked up as him with our own life problems. Thus, as we are no better than him, what right do we have to be jerks and bullies to him doing whatever the fuck he wants?

So, is the war still on?

Anyways, like @Optimus Prime said, Jay just wants to feel superior to us.

If we have bad things about us and he has bad things about him we're even. You know, assuming he's autistic, *he could have the inability to see the difference between our "bad" and his "bad."

...You're probably right XD

 

[OBAMATRON]

If we have bad things about us and he has bad things about him we're even. You know, assuming he's autistic, his could have the inability to see the difference between our "bad" and his "bad."

...You're probably right XD

He's a huge smug narcissist. We'll never be even with him. He's going to go do some gymnastics to pump himself up vs. us.

 

[sikotik]

He seems to be starting to use Chasethehedgehog's playbook. The war will never end, but he's always going to be "winning".

 

[GREEDY FIREMAN]

Jay, if you're still reading this I have one piece of parting advice: do not go to war with the "trolls!" Kicking up a stink over this can attract some terrible people. If you think the screencapping, occasional obnoxious remark or fake girlfriend is bad, you're in for a big surprise. There are people who will dox you, hack your computer, call your house at all hours of the day and night, harass you in public, and once that door is open it cannot be closed!
Please, if not for your sake then for your family's, reconsider this declaration of war.

 

[klystron]

I finally got around to watching the Mandy birthday video. He sounds a lot like Chris when he's not over-driving his microphone. I really loved the sigh after the "cradle you" comment. Reminds me of that old Chris vid where he made the hourglass shape and said "delicious" then sighed. The resemblance is uncanny. Also why are Jay's eyes all over the place? Look into the camera.

 

[autism420]

I feel as though this can only escalate from here.

 

[Gorogoroth]

Yeah, well, he should've got a paddling for touching up that kid, that's what I reckon. Things could've got real "epic" real fucking quick for old Jay; I think he got away with that one real easy.

 

[Count groudon]

It wouldn't bother me if he was just some dumb kid living in his delusions. This is why I don't dislike people like Chris, Pixy, TJ, Wogglebug and Iconoclast. They're harmless weirdos and I want to see them, despite all odds, succeed in life.

Then we get into Nick Bate territory where you see these people expressing dangerous compulsions, and you kinda feel like you have to intervene somehow. I feel like Jay's been raised even worse than Chris was. At least Chris' parents had some values that they instilled in him, even if they were a bit old fashioned, and even Chris grew up and was able to form his own opinions counter to them. Jay's just been left out in the wild by his dad, and coddled into a weakling puddle by his mom. He's a kid without any real values to speak of; he's all id and no superego. Or some weird mutation of these things where he really thinks that his id IS his superego. "I want to do this, so it must be right."

My hopes for Jay:

- that he learns the difference between a normal relationship and an abusive, manipulative one. The fact that he still doesn't understand that trying to "mold someone" and making them compete for his love is abusive is scary. He also doesn't understand the difference between sexual sadism and just fucking killing and hurting things, which is also scary and has the potential to end really, really poorly.

- that he takes an objective view of himself and the way he's chosen to seek fame. He's not a good artist and he has no natural talent at art, but I feel like anyone can learn if they try hard enough. Dude's lazy, though. And that fame isn't a goal; it's generally a side-effect of creating something great. But there are a lot of steps in between.

- that he's still just a dumb kid, but he has a lot of time to grow up. May he look back at this in ten years and feel intense, but very informative, regret.

Ultimately, if none of this has had an impact on him yet, it really never will. Dude's gotta find his own way, and that's great. I just really hope that he doesn't hurt anyone else along the way.

Honestly, I really do hope he would actually put forth effort into learning how to be a decent human being and work on himself so he won't be such an irritating little douchebag. But sadly I doubt it'll happen. Like my grandpa says, dumbasses usually stay dumbasses because they're too much of a dumbass to realize they're a dumbass.

 

[Coster]

Honestly, I really do hope he would actually put forth effort into learning how to be a decent human being and work on himself so he won't be such an irritating little douchebag. But sadly I doubt it'll happen. Like my grandpa says, dumbasses usually stay dumbasses because they're too much of a dumbass to realize they're a dumbass.

Grandpa Groudon was a wise man.

 

[Total Dingus]

Honestly, I really do hope he would actually put forth effort into learning how to be a decent human being and work on himself so he won't be such an irritating little douchebag. But sadly I doubt it'll happen. Like my grandpa says, dumbasses usually stay dumbasses because they're too much of a dumbass to realize they're a dumbass.

When the world comes down on Jay, it'll come down hard - if only because he's not been prepared for it in any way. I don't think that he's been given the internal resources to be resilient or genuinely introspective, but I still think it's possible that circumstances might force these skills upon him. Even the slightest hint of reality outside of his cushioned world might do him some good.

Ultimately, he's still really young. Young people can be really stupid. May he find these life skills before he becomes dangerous.

 

[chiefshittingbull]

When the world comes down on Jay, it'll come down hard - if only because he's not been prepared for it in any way. I don't think that he's been given the internal resources to be resilient or genuinely introspective, but I still think it's possible that circumstances might force these skills upon him. Even the slightest hint of reality outside of his cushioned world might do him some good.

i keep saying that about cwc, but somehow something always saves his ass from the fire. hes in this 30s now. his father has died and things refuse to change for him besides this insane tomgirl stuff. you underestimate jays ability to delude himself. as long as ONE person says hes special he will always come back to his old bullshit ways

 

[Pine Tar]

On a completely unrelated note, the only way I could see that mullet looking good on Jay is if he played in the NHL. My guess is that he'd play for the Nashville Predators. I mean, they have a gold home sweater and a fitting name for a team that Jay would play for.

 

[Flowers For Sonichu]

Honestly, I really do hope he would actually put forth effort into learning how to be a decent human being and work on himself so he won't be such an irritating little douchebag. But sadly I doubt it'll happen. Like my grandpa says, dumbasses usually stay dumbasses because they're too much of a dumbass to realize they're a dumbass.

Reminds me of something my friend's grandma said that also applies to Jay: you can't make chicken salad out of chicken shit.

 

[Fashhole]

Like my grandpa says, dumbasses usually stay dumbasses because they're too much of a dumbass to realize they're a dumbass.

Reminds me of something my friend's grandma said that also applies to Jay: you can't make chicken salad out of chicken shit.

These reminded me of something I heard Judge Judy say: "Don't try to teach a pig how to sing. It doesn't work and it annoys the pig."

 

[Optimus Prime]

i keep saying that about cwc, but somehow something always saves his ass from the fire. hes in this 30s now. his father has died and things refuse to change for him besides this insane tomgirl stuff. you underestimate jays ability to delude himself. as long as ONE person says hes special he will always come back to his old bullshit ways

At this point the only person who says he's special in good way is his own mother.

 

[Captain Cid]

Honestly, I really do hope he would actually put forth effort into learning how to be a decent human being and work on himself so he won't be such an irritating little douchebag. But sadly I doubt it'll happen. Like my grandpa says, dumbasses usually stay dumbasses because they're too much of a dumbass to realize they're a dumbass.

It's called the Dunning-Kruger Effect.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning–Kruger_effect

 

[Picklechu]

It's called the Dunning-Kruger Effect.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning–Kruger_effect

I see so many examples of it in the people I encounter in the work I do, yet Goldie truly is the embodiment of it. I'd really like to see how he would spin a fundamental, large-scale, public rejection. My guess is that he'd attempt to pin the blame on us.

 

[Jackie Chin]

I don't know why, but Cena is reminding me of someone.

 

[CasualWhimsicott]

Hey Jay, you need to recognize that you have issues and that you can't overreact and flip out. Look at the lolcows like Chris and Jace. They flipped out and gave trolls entertainment. Don't give trolls entertainment. Just don't. Okay? And get some help. Nobody's going to throw you in a mental hospital unless you're a serious threat to other people or yourself, which I highly doubt despite your kinks. Take it from me as someone who has been in a mental hospital, professional help is a godsend and it will help you a lot. Okay?