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SourDiesel

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Apparently this is the dude's fourth kiwifarms account. He claims it's because he keeps losing his password but more likely it's because he keeps getting embarrassed.

Either that or he's trying to troll.

Bad bait though, mate. I rate it 0/8. No one's even irate. We just conflate you with the traits of the homosexual and overweight.
 

tuscangarder

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No I had to like talk her into it. It’s also not like I’m going to be watching. Jfc, I didn’t think having a threesom was that fucking crazy.
So you are manipulating your wife into having sex she doesn't want to have.

Sounds like a great way to make your wife hate you.

Either way you are still a cuck.

If he is trolling he's doing it wrong. Next time say are a poly gay man with 8.boyfriends.and 3 gfs. That this thread is hetero normative monogamous toxicity etc.
 
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Hollywood Hulk Hogan

nWo 4 LyFe
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Why do people in these M/F/F cuck triads believe that that the wife’s relationship with the female side piece could never possibly overpower her relationship with her boyfriend/husband? Anyone who believes that they’re going to come out the other side of that arrangement unscathed absolutely deserves getting cucked over
I knew a couple that became a thrupple. Butterface woman, dorky guy, and their unicorn was a decent looking woman. Decent looking woman left them for a new guy, and then the butterface woman started dating a butch lesbian and a bunch of other dudes. Guy hasn't dated anyone else since.

Women always have it easier in finding new partners.
 

Useless Idiot

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"Arranged marriages last longer" is an extremely exceptional argument given that arranged marriages tend to take place in super conservative cultural groups that also have a very strong stigma against divorce. That tells you nothing about how happy the parties are in the marriage, just that they never got divorced. If my husband routinely beats me but we never break up because Indian culture says we're not allowed to, I personally don't consider that to be a successful relationship.
 

SourDiesel

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Why do people in these M/F/F cuck triads believe that that the wife’s relationship with the female side piece could never possibly overpower her relationship with her boyfriend/husband? Anyone who believes that they’re going to come out the other side of that arrangement unscathed absolutely deserves getting cucked over
Real answer? Because the dudes are homophobic and figure "lesbian" is nothing more than a porn category and his girlfriend could not possibly fall in love with another woman because same-sex relationships are not real.
 

queerape

All Kinds of Gorillaz
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I’m happily married now, but I still remember how exhausting dating was. Spending hours reading profiles, carefully vetting people, messaging them, getting ready for dates etc. was very time consuming. The inevitable emotional highs and disappointments weren’t fun either, it was a lot of work for very little reward, since 90% of the time there was never a second date.
And it's not like you can just coast when you are in a stable relationship, either. You have to keep them interested in you, spend a lot of time with them, work out the inevitable disagreements and conflicts that happen between you two, between you, your partner, family, friends etc. Then over time both you and your partner grow and change, and you have to adapt to that too. Before I got into my first relationship, I thought "oh what a relief I finally have a boyfriend, I can just coast it out" and I quickly saw I was dead wrong.

It's time consuming to maintain relationships, especially long distance ones or over very long periods of time or both. How anyone can do it with multiple people without emotionally carking out is anyone's guess.
 

BubbleButt

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:stress:I can only drop in some community watch threads occasionally, but fuck this is a hard one. It’s just like jfc people I’m sure the poly people that actually work out don’t talk about it on reddit ffs. I wouldn’t consider myself poly, but my wife is into chicks and that’s just something we plan to do before having kids. Not fucking date the damn chick willing to fuck a married couple.

R/poly land of the cucks
@Shane_Yes_That_One you didn't need to start a new account.
 

neverendingmidi

it just goes on and on and on and on...
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And it's not like you can just coast when you are in a stable relationship, either. You have to keep them interested in you, spend a lot of time with them, work out the inevitable disagreements and conflicts that happen between you two, between you, your partner, family, friends etc. Then over time both you and your partner grow and change, and you have to adapt to that too. Before I got into my first relationship, I thought "oh what a relief I finally have a boyfriend, I can just coast it out" and I quickly saw I was dead wrong.

It's time consuming to maintain relationships, especially long distance ones or over very long periods of time or both. How anyone can do it with multiple people without emotionally carking out is anyone's guess.
I think it's easier if you assume said relationships are no deeper than "fuck buddy", plus are totally sociopathic.

Edit: I was being a bit flippant, but when you read the posts on r/polymory talking about how it's a person's fault for being jealous, or hurt by their partner's lies, or depressed over being neglected by their spouse, etc. etc. etc., this really is a relationship model where sociopathy is the best way to function in it. No one means anything to you specifically, so it's only a minor hassle to replace them when either you drop them or they drop you. Being naturally upset that a relationship failed is a sign that you're not "polymory-ing" right.
 
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SourDiesel

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And it's not like you can just coast when you are in a stable relationship, either. You have to keep them interested in you, spend a lot of time with them, work out the inevitable disagreements and conflicts that happen between you two, between you, your partner, family, friends etc. Then over time both you and your partner grow and change, and you have to adapt to that too. Before I got into my first relationship, I thought "oh what a relief I finally have a boyfriend, I can just coast it out" and I quickly saw I was dead wrong.

It's time consuming to maintain relationships, especially long distance ones or over very long periods of time or both. How anyone can do it with multiple people without emotionally carking out is anyone's guess.
See that's the thing, they don't have stable relationships with multiple people. They completely ignore all the crappy "work" that makes LTRs happen. All they care about is the honeymoon phase, as others have pointed out. If one of their "partners" wants to talk about the relationship or would like them to change something or becomes jealous or expresses any unhappiness at all, well you're supposed to break up with them right away because they're obviously "emotionally immature" or aren't enlightened enough or whatever.

No adapting. No growing or changing. Just fucking and drama all day every day.
@Shane_Yes_That_One you didn't need to start a new account.
Omg I want to ask you to give me a recap of what he's in for, but I went to that profile and apparently it's all weeb wars all the way down. On a scale of 1 to "rainbow chew toys" how autistic is this situation?
 

Hollywood Hulk Hogan

nWo 4 LyFe
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"Arranged marriages last longer" is an extremely exceptional argument given that arranged marriages tend to take place in super conservative cultural groups that also have a very strong stigma against divorce. That tells you nothing about how happy the parties are in the marriage, just that they never got divorced. If my husband routinely beats me but we never break up because Indian culture says we're not allowed to, I personally don't consider that to be a successful relationship.
I live in a city with a lot of Indian couples. A lot of the women in arranged marriages are unhappy but there's such a stigma against divorce that they can't because they'll basically be excommunicated from their family and the community if they are.

I dated four Indian women over the years and only two could even tell their parents that she was dating a white guy
 

queerape

All Kinds of Gorillaz
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I dated four Indian women over the years and only two could even tell their parents that she was dating a white guy
Full disclosure: Am Indian women, have had white boyfriends.

My family had to learn to be ok with it, they were more concerned I thought that there's something wrong with Indian guys. I don't think that there is, I just form relationships based on deeper things than what color he is. Now they've accepted it once they realized I don't hate Indian guys, but sometimes they are still a PITA because they are clueless. It's more mildly annoying if anything. My dad and grandpa were actually the best about it at first surprisingly.

My other friend, on the other hand, had to hide her relationship for 2 years. Her parents force arrange married her sister in India, and her sister is now miserable, and she didn't want that happening to her. Her parents tried to do the same to her, and her white boyfriend (also my friend) intervened and thats how they found out. They fucking hate his ass. He's such a sweet person and they hate him for literally no reason at all because he's white and that means they can't pawn her off to some dude in India.
 

bbfx

WERF
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I think it's easier if you assume said relationships are no deeper than "fuck buddy", plus are totally sociopathic.
This made me think of this thread I saw on the subreddit: How does emotional intimacy within poly relationships compare to monogamous relationships?
Most people commented that "love is not a pie", but love isn't the same as intimacy. Intimacy requires a level of sameness, vulnerability and openness that you can't have with that many people. It takes time to cultivate it, effort to make it work, a lot of trust to keep it going.
I love many people, but if I need a real talk I'll only go to my boyfriend and my dad.
 
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NoReturn

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These morons really think their vision of polyamory is the same as a member of royalty owning multiple women? This is a false equivalence at best (thinking that kings actually loved their concubines instead of viewing them as pretty, fuckable ornaments), and horribly narcissistic at worst (comparing polyamorists to kings partaking in kingly activities), but completely shallow in both interpretations. Kings did not own concubines because they loved more than one person, they owned concubines because they were so wealthy that they could afford to indulge in their lust (which it was: lust, not love, and they almost always never had the same rights the real wife had). Polygamy had been largely practiced by the rich, not by peasants.
I forget where I saw this but there was a thing on twitter a while back where a woman was calling out other women for saying shit like "He may fuck you but I'm the one he always comes back to." She said that statement was supposed to only apply to cases where it's a woman with a filthy-rich husband who has affairs, not your average 20-something who is paying the bills while her boyfriend smokes weed and bangs other women on the couch she paid for.

Setting aside all the gross emotional manipulation and cognitive dissonance of poly folx, I’ve always wondered how the hell they find the time and energy for extra relationships. Do they not have anything else going on in their lives? (i.e. jobs, friends, families).
From what I've seen in this thread and over yonder, there's always a breadwinner, but that breadwinner tends not to be the same person who initiates the poly relationship. So you end up with cases where Man/Woman 1 is bringing home the bacon while Man/Woman 2 and 3 stay at home.

Why do people in these M/F/F cuck triads believe that that the wife’s relationship with the female side piece could never possibly overpower her relationship with her boyfriend/husband? Anyone who believes that they’re going to come out the other side of that arrangement unscathed absolutely deserves getting cucked over
They believe their dicks are magic wands that make women incapable of receiving better orgasms from other women.

He's such a sweet person and they hate him for literally no reason at all because he's white and that means they can't pawn her off to some dude in India.
Some RICH dude in India.
 

LolNoIPLeaksEvenLMFAO

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Apparently this is the dude's fourth kiwifarms account. He claims it's because he keeps losing his password but more likely it's because he keeps getting embarrassed.

Either that or he's trying to troll.

Bad bait though, mate. I rate it 0/8. No one's even irate. We just conflate you with the traits of the homosexual and overweight.
I lose passwords all the time. Plus I believe in burner accounts. People get too attached to accounts like they mean something.
 
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