Yeah if your a guy going into a poly group you'd need a lot thicker of skin than Russel has because if your going in as a single guy and dont even know anyone already your not going to be very welcome there since its already a really unbalanced sausage fest, that and the sort of mentality that Russel has is absolutely hated thereI was gonna say lol at him trying it out, these things are always brutal for guys. Theyre, if youre using the groups for them I guess, always sausage fests and its basically like Tinder if there were 10 times as many dudes on Tinder as women, If you arent the traditionally hot, tall, fit dude with a big dick and charming, you arent gonna be the dream of having a harem or whatever, women I feel do better, but still most of the women doing it are kind of ending up just dating in their own circles or meeting people out at bars or whatever, not going to like a group meeting--I dont know why Russ thought he would have a chance.
It's almost like he was actively looking for victim complex fuel