Horrorcow Secretly Fabulous / Kathleen Atkinson-Davidson of Oshawa, ON and Richmond, BC - Munchausen's-by-Proxy mom, animal abuser, e-beggar, tugboater in a fantasy world

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To be fair, unless you've got some carpentry skills, mounting the wall bracket should be left to the professionals in my opinion. My buddy installed the mount himself, and his $3000 TV promptly fell off the wall and broke.
The amount of people that don’t use stud finders or understand how walls are engineered is substantial.
 

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It reminds me all too creepily of the women whose boyfriends are inattentive jerks, so the moment the guy chooses to do something remotely normal and caring, they try basic behaviorism and reward it with a photo and compliments on social media. It's always kind of sad, because it shows how low their standards have sunk. And because it won't even work, people who are inattentive jerks won't care about being rewarded with social praise.

"Thanks to my AMAZING sweetie who took time out of his day to drive to the CVS down the street and pick up my prescription while I'm in bed with pneumonia!! He's even babysitting g tonight so I can sleep...until 6 am when I take over again, lol!! My amazing man makes every day special."
 

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Kathleen has now started a GoFundMe, which she's barely promoted, as a fund for Colin to move out. I suspect it's just as serious as Jake Alley telling us he'll surely move out once he has $1000/month on Patreon.

Colin also now has a blog, which is really sad. You can see the stuntedness of his intellectual development. He's somewhat intellectually curious, but immediately cuts off his own lines of inquiry with juvenile "that's stupid" and "whatever, that's weird" comments instead of investigating root causes. I hope he doesn't have it in his head that his blog is a good way to become online-famous, and is just using it for "musings" like he says.

Finally, Kathleen wrote about how she's now a full-on hand-flapping autist and, Susan Schofield-like, decides that every homeless person you've ever seen muttering to themselves is autistic.
 

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Kathleen has now started a GoFundMe, which she's barely promoted, as a fund for Colin to move out. I suspect it's just as serious as Jake Alley telling us he'll surely move out once he has $1000/month on Patreon.

Colin also now has a blog, which is really sad. You can see the stuntedness of his intellectual development. He's somewhat intellectually curious, but immediately cuts off his own lines of inquiry with juvenile "that's stupid" and "whatever, that's weird" comments instead of investigating root causes. I hope he doesn't have it in his head that his blog is a good way to become online-famous, and is just using it for "musings" like he says.

Finally, Kathleen wrote about how she's now a full-on hand-flapping autist and, Susan Schofield-like, decides that every homeless person you've ever seen muttering to themselves is autistic.
Oh for fuck's sake. No, it's probably psychosis, usually caused by schizophrenia or another psychotic disorder. You don't know fear until your mind betrays you and you can't tell what's real and what your mind is making up. Out of things that scare the shit out of me, having my life threatened is the only thing that would be scarier.
 

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It’s been a while so I checked in on her. The GFM for Colin has earned a grand total of $70.00 from two people.

Tugboats move slow in Canada, as Kathleen still hasn't moved into her new, single-use apartment. Her son also has not even looked for a place, and considering the governmental glacier pace since his mom has been approved, is now unlikely to find one. It seems that eventually it’ll come down to her giving up her shiny new apartment and the couch she’s buying to match a pillow, and staying put (if allowed) or Colin being homeless. Which would make for an interesting read, but given the two choices, I think helicopter mom is just not going to move and continue to work on prying her sons dick off.

It took four blog posts for her to post about her favorite subject-her son’s genitals. She apparently wants to talk him into adopting a special needs kid so he can still cut his twig and berries off. (Remember, his excuse for staying a male is he wants kids someday, hahaha.)

Not sure which is more delusional-her desire to turn her son into a girl, or the belief that anybody would give him a child, especially a disabled one. Even Canada isn’t that dysfunctional.

Other posts: arguments about gender blah blah blah, Internet is mean blah blah..pictures of her kids when young looking surprisingly normal, and one horrific video of her singing. Needless to say, she wouldn’t make it on Canada’s Got Talent. Perhaps though, she’d come in 2nd in the Mental Institution’s Got Talent. It’s cringy and sad and I don’t have the heart to post it, mostly because I can’t with this phone.

So there’s your update. Pretty boring crazy old lady stuff, but I have to check in every so often to see if she’s managed to do the deed.

Hang on to the jewels Colin, she hasn’t completely given up. Oh, and Colin (Jeremy?) hasn’t done any more blog writing so no updates there.
 

Kait

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Godspeed, Kait. What made you finally decide to go no-contact?
She refused to listen when I told her my rules/boundaries regarding my son.
I hadn't enjoyed having a relationship with her for years, but when it was just for myself it wasn't worth explaining to the rest of my family. Protecting him from the abuse she put me through made it worth any potential fallout from other family members.

Her mother is so insane she makes Barb look like Mother of the Year?
Lmfao I took it to mean "if not before, why now" but her being batshit is definitely the reason!
 

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She refused to listen when I told her my rules/boundaries regarding my son.
I hadn't enjoyed having a relationship with her for years, but when it was just for myself it wasn't worth explaining to the rest of my family. Protecting him from the abuse she put me through made it worth any potential fallout from other family members.
Yeah, crossing boundries is grounds for severing. We've seen how she is when Colin tries to set limits so I can't imagine how she reacts when someone is very assertive about it. So basically she reacts badly to being told no?
 
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She refused to listen when I told her my rules/boundaries regarding my son.
I hadn't enjoyed having a relationship with her for years, but when it was just for myself it wasn't worth explaining to the rest of my family. Protecting him from the abuse she put me through made it worth any potential fallout from other family members.
Even people who normally have great boundaries can lose all sense of reason where grandchildren are concerned. It feels like the grandchild is part of them, and like their connection is very deep, even though the grandparent has no actual rights to the child.

People who were already shitty with boundaries/privacy/autonomy with their adult children haven't got a snowball's chance in hell of being a good grandparent, even if they really intend to. They will always work to turn everything into a competition where grandma is more fun and nice than those stodgy old parents, let's let you stay up until midnight and eat cookie dough until you throw up, that mean old mommy doesn't love you as much as I do!
 

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Yeah, crossing boundries is grounds for severing. We've seen how she is when Colin tries to set limits so I can't imagine how she reacts when someone is very assertive about it. So basically she reacts badly to being told no?
Basically.
"Our choice about if we circumcise or not is none of your business, stop sending me opinion pieces off Facebook and let me read the medical studies in peace."
"We don't use fingers as teething toys or pacifiers, stop telling me how much better it would be if we did, that's so unsanitary."
"I gave birth last week, no I don't want to go for a walk, stop asking."
"I don't care if breastfeeding gets easier after 6 months, I like bottle feeding and my long term goal for a hypothetical second child I likely won't have, and may not even be able to breastfeed anyway because I couldn't with this one, isn't going to change just because YOU think bottle feeding is inferior."
"Stop bringing Colin to my house, he's not welcome here and you know that."

You get the idea.
 
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